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When will girls realize the male bashing is gonna harm boys' confidence?
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All these books and news reports..."women do this better" ...the "Boys are stupid throw rocks at them" t-shirts. "are men necessary?" asks NY Times. columinist I've been given the excuse "Well men have been ahead so its just evneing it out" WRONG! 2 reasons 1) two wrongs don't make a right (duh!) 2) Women are in the better position in a lot of ways (I have several examples if you want to deny this)..which is fine honestly ,you gotta take whatever you can get in this world. I'm hating on girls if they play the game to their advantage. It used to be "well guys can take it"...well guess what? My sister was talking to me the other day about my 5 year old nephew that said he wanted to be a girl..at first she thought maybe he had a gender-indeitity issue (u kno..girl trapped in a boys body)..but when she pressed him on it he said he liked being a boy but "If I'm a boy I can't be smart and have people like me". And I started thinking about all of this...Women imagine themselves getting back at that pig of a boss never gave her the promotions she deserved and patronized her ..or her abusive dad..or (insert male who wronged said woman). but don't realize what they say has consequences fo little boys who just want to find their place in the world too...but who have mothers...female teachers who think they can't read or sit up straight, and need to be conditioned and re-programmed before they turn into a sexist monster. I'm probably gonna get flamed for this no matter what..but maybe what I have to say next might convince someone from doings so: I'm not saying fmeinism is evil...I'm not saying women should "shut up", that women are inferior, that boys need more help than girls (not saying the oppsite either..HUMAN BEINGS in general need help)...I'm just saying maybe you should be more considerate and realize when you bash a whole gender or write off "men" as inferior, or worthless...you're sending a message to impressionable boys who might begin to think that being born with a penis is somekind of grave misfortune or curse.
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PRAISING the idea of mutilating guys...and by the way not all the guys in the movie are rapists..so don't gimme that...secondly, EVERY SINGLE guy in the movie is a creep except her dad who is shown as worthless. Now think about it can you recall JUST ONE movie where: -nearly All women are evil and cause harm to a guy -The guy seeks revenge by mutilating the women sexually -The guy is protrayed as a hero Just one?
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18 16women will realize this when society stops objectifying women
Leeeeees Goooooo!
Another feminist boxing championship where 20 women go all advocate they have the short end of the stick. to them I say SHUT THE F*** UP.
- secondly I am in the armed forces and I can tell you twats and fools that we men are the ones who have to lead the forefront in charges and raiding expeditions. women just sit back on comms relay and maintenance duties. you got the right to vote you got everything else. same with slavery it ended 137 years ago move the f*** on. honestly stop bitching; everyone should be on equal ground. I hate this male bashing bullsh*t. f*** twilight twitter Facebook flickr the notebook homosexual marketing executives, fashion mags and all this bs that guides womens quest for armani models. to all you bitches shut the f*** up. to all the ladies I give you a humble bow. be modest and respect one another.
treat all guys how you want to be treated.
boys don't care what girls say lol. you are seriously over thinking this.
I obviously care alot..infact I care more about what women think than men in general.
Would it make you feel better if you got to slap me in the face with your d***?
Superb answer :) sums it up very well
what?! no!
sage---ur an idiot
Considering all the issues women deal with, I find it hard to take this seriously. Sorry.
women graduate collegee more and faired much better during the recession...u can kill a guys unborn baby wiuthout his consent..cry rape and ruina guys life...what power don't you have? I'm starting to not fel sorry for womn either..infact I kinda think the sexism keeps y'all in check so us guys can catch up.
you sound like a misogynist so I'm not even going to try to reason with you. its a dead end road. good luck with yourself.
if women actually cared about men issues and werent all superior I wouldn't hate them..i am msigynists..but I hate my enemies...its the rational thing...if you wana hold me down and take pleasure if my flaws then I have zerom reason to care about or respect u.. so screw women.
mmk.
I agree women have way more power than they need.
a lot of the men on this website are pathetic, jesus christ. I hope all the men around me aren't harboring this same kind of misogyny.
alot of us are
Eh, oh well.
What is that sh*t? That's akin to the logic behind saying you're not allowed to be sad or hungry because "kids in Africa are starving!" It's not a zero-sum issue.
I never said anything about not being allowead to feel a certain way I said I just don't take him seriously.
eh I say both sexes are in the same sh*thole in society. Maybe girls have it worse off because of their hormones and emotions AND societies expectations of them.
But to all these women trying to defend themselves:
In modern society, women are just as good as men. The whole "Gender Role" issue is no longer valid. The days of "I Love Lucy" are over. Women can be just as successful as men, if they try.
Lol ever watch the Orphan? Psycho midget prostitute kills an entire family because she wanted to get with the dad. The guy is portrayed as the hero in most comics and manga. Some movies of the top of my head, I can name the Justice League, Batman, Inception, most Disney movies, where the girl is the damsel in distress, Anastasia, Iron Giant, so many more. Also, in 8 Miles, the mom is an alcoholic. There are plenty of movies where the mother is a f***up.
I honestly can say that I can think of very few movies where the girl is the hero. But maybe that's just me.
My neighbor has plenty of Playboy magazines and weird BDSM fetishes. He also wears a number of offensive shirts, for example, "tell you boobs to stop staring at me," where the "oo" of "boobs" have dots in the middle to depict, well, boobs and "FBI: Female Body Inspector." I don't know any girls that wear shirts that downplay men. I'm certainly not offended by my neighbor. I pity him. You should pity girls that wear that sh*t and get on with your life.
in inception...ellen paiges character is not in distress...plus...my issue isn't women being heros...but making them heros as they sexually mutilate men...we do need more female heroines..but do we make women heroines by makign them mutilate men in a sexual way? its so anti-male...striking at the guys organ that makes him male shows a real hatred toward masculinity.
Mulan hits this topic straight right on the head.
When will guys realize they can't treat women like trash? When will guys realize they can't abuse and control, and rape women? When guys realize that, women won't call guys pigs, who only care about sex. Then we wont't call you inferior. Don't under estimate a women.
farnkly...seeing how you all treat the opposite gender when you get some influence or power...u deserve anything you get and probably more. I don't feel bad when I hear about women's troubles anymore...if anything it helps level the playing field a little bit.
I mean seriously if your gonan tell me how much better you are and how horrible I am..without any degree of fairness...then to hell with you...im don't care if you got abused or raped or put down...ur my enemy at that point so any loss of urs is a gain for me. I don't put down women ever and I never have and certianly never will sexually assault anyone...but when it does happen from now...ill just laugh a little inside...u want hostility and bitterness..u got it..im tired of trying to get ur
respect...because naothign I do will be enough so I'm done...I hope nothing but troubles and failure for you and all women like u.
u guys are looking at extremes only which is ridiculous. I mean rape? are you f***ing kidding me?! those people have mental disorders or had twisted childhoods. in order to get a good estimate of the population you need to take good samples, rapists are a huge rarity that should make up a very small portion of the sample. and as if women don't treat men like trash too? lmfao. and to the QA, do you really take them seriously when they call us inferior?! I mean we dominate a vast majority of political
systems in the world, almost every person in your history text will be male, look at the WNBA compared to the NBA lmao. I mean yea of course they are better at some sh*t, but certainly not enough to make us inferior in the least. and therefore don't underestimate men either haha. and besides what wrong with caring about sex? sex is chill
docclassic..actually I've heard of studies were a large protion of guys think rape is acceptable or admitted they would rape if they never got caught. the male gender is defintey messed up at least in some ways. but neway NBA? o yea you can dribble a ball up a court and out it in ahoop..and make money...thats really amazing...and really contributes to society. whatever
DOC----also, most countries are domiante by males politically only because they hold women down. and who cares about politics...thats ony one sector..who is becoming doctors, lawyers, getting college degrees? its women...so what if we have some guys up in DC who won some popularit contests..big deal.
I hope men get smart one day, and don't marry hateful women like you.
when they look like megan fox
amen sister.. I feel exactlly like this... pshhhh high five
thank you college girl. I do admit we may have a little too much power, and re can ruin a guys life...but they can ruin ours too. They can leave if a girl has a baby, a lot of guys just care about sex. Don't tell us your inferior, when you do sh*t like that. So sorry don't expect too much sympathy from me. And go head call me a bitch. or whatever. Don't complain about the U.S, if you want power, go to another country. You guys control all the women if those countries,Dont ask, if you don't with truth
Guys can't "just leave"...they get hutned down for child support and have to work for under the table money if they can get a job...its wrong for them to walk away from their responsbility. but a man walks out on fatherhood..hes a deabeat dad...a mom who walks out on mother hood...she's pro-choice...and to answer you question..yes that makes men inferior..running off and being worthless...of course it does.
Okay, sorry I didn't mean all men were inferior, just the ones that don't care, and etc. I'm really not that hateful.
There a big difference between running off and having the power to killa guy baby without his permission (abortion) or throw him in jail and ruin his life if he ever gets out...and like I was saying...women ar more sucessful...and if you don't want guys treating you bad..leave them..ur not dependent on them for money..so just go...infact its the othr way around...men work worthless blue collar jobs and women doing the work that involves having brainwaves...there no reason to think women need help.
i never said we (or I needed any help) and for one, about abortion. Don't use that agaisnt me, becuase I believe in it. Don't expect me to have a baby I don't want. I mean yeah I'm gonna think about it, and etc. but if I don't think someone is going to stay around or their to young, women should have the choice. And half the guys don't even care, but even if they didn't I would still talk to him, I'm not just going go and get it. I would talk to them.
Okay, you know what. Men still get paid higher in most jobs. Another thing, look at the military. It took forever for girls to do all the stuff that men can. We still can't do everything, we only just got accepted to go in submarines. There's one area left women can't go. You guys aren't inferior. In anyway. I'm sorry (and I don't say that ofter, and I ain't gonna say it again) for saying you were. Okay? And I never said we (or I for that matter) needed any help.
y think about it? just kill it I you don't think its a baby...secondly...if it NOT a guys baby too..why does he have to pay child support if sh has the baby but has no say if she wants to kill it? if you don't wanna have a baby close your legs or date a pro-choice guy who doeesnt value babies either...dont sucker a pro-life guy into sleping with you and then kill his child.
and secondly...there reasons men gt paid more..in a lot of cases they just plain work harder..women are more likely to want days off for family stuff..etc..but REGARDLESS..if women are getting the colelge degrees..who cares if men get paid more in certain jobs? would you rather be an underpaid executive or an overpaid janitor?
and with the military..its not just putting women down because theyr sexist..women just plain are a liability in combat roles...they can't fight as well and would hold our military back..its a strategic issue...same reason you can't be in combat if your out of shape.
You are sexsist. Look at how many girls are in the military? If we couldn't do just as well, why are we there in the first place. And I'm not saying it's not a baby. I'm saying I would still talk about it, okay? Don't assume I don't care about it. My mom had one, okay? I'm aware it's hard to do, and most of the time girls do it, after talking to the guy, to see if they don't want it. It they do without the guy their bitches and stupid. Oh and you say men work harder? But yet women graduate more?
Obvously, women are working harder aren't they? Interesting. How guys get paid more, and then you say they don't and then do again, because they work harder. Yet you say they don't graduate more? Make sense. Women deserve equal rights. Every where. We train harder then the guys in the military, to prove that we belong there? My dad was in the marines. Don't tell me sh*t, about how women don't belong there, cause we can't fight as well. Your' an asshole.
1) women are in the military...i never said they weren't..theyre just not allowed in combat situations...2) I think the reason boys fail is a few things...thee education system and parents/society is far more concerned with girls sucess..and ill admit to you I think men are inferior as a sex...they also are mor distracted by video games..etc..but I do think my own sex is pretty pathetic..makes me ashamed...i won't deny men are inferior.
women aren't allowed in certain roles for a reason...u think all the generals are just sexist too?
Men aren't inferior, and neither are women. You should'nt feel that way. Men are important. And yeah it is the education system to some extent. But other times it's that the guys don't try. I'm a girl, and I get distracted by guy things. I love football (my dad's a coach) and basketball. I play soccer. I hate shopping unless it's for sneakers, video games, music and sports stuff. You're not inferior, it's just some men, give you guys bad reps. But you're not. But no men proves the other wrong.
its not just "some"...and I mean its not that men do bad...as much as they do WORSE than women...by a pretty wide margin ( I thinks its like something like 43-57 of college grads) as a sex...that makes them inferior...i mean...a movie could be good..but comaprd to a great movie..it sucks...and it bothers me because I want a relationship...but if all the women are successful and guys aren't equall ...women won't want them...or if they settle for someone beneath them..
they will spend their marriage looking down on their husband wishing thet could do better..they only settled on this guy because thety didn't wana be alone and couldn't be a lesbian. I wouldn't wana be in a marriage where I was lookd down on.
i would never look down on a guy if I was with him. If I did that, I wouldn't be with him. I don't look down on people. I try not to, unless I hate them. With a passion.
well, I don't think having all men dependent on women is a good idea...it was different when men were the breadwinners...they still needed women to be wives and mothers atleast...indpendent women of today don't need men for jack and often don't want any children..they just wana have their career,. be powerful...and get hook up sex...and if a pregnancy occurs theyll just scrape it out.
guys are far more disposable and uneeded than women..im not sure why but women seem to be fine without guys while guys always want women..i hate being on the other end...id rather not give a s%&* about people who don't care about me.
When guys realize playing women is sick and sadistic. And it hurts women's confidence.
define playing?
manipulating and using women for self-serving agendas. Then kicking them to the curb. Google it.
yea but if you have the good jobs and power, and money...who cares? most guys that try and do that are gonna be below you financially so why even waste time on them at all? you put yourself in that situation..plus like I said...id rather get played and have a decent job than be a guy working fast food...any day.
Not every woman has a good job and financial standing. Besides there comes a time in a woman's life that she is gonna need to rely on her man. I mean getting pregnant and being being busy raising kids. I have noticed that is the time the most men do their dirtiest work. Cheating ,lying, taking their woman for granted and kicking them to the curb.
1)one average...women do better period...education wise neway 2) Not all woman want kids...less and less have since feminism made gains...women relaize they get fufillment from carerrs and not pushing out babies. 3) even if you want one, no need for a guy...theres sperm banks and in vitro... 4) if men let you down jsut don't rely on them then...u aren't beign froced to get married nemore.
wow women have feelings I thought they just wanted to show off there good looking bfs to there friends.
What you don't know about women is a lot! So next time before playing some poor sap think how would that feel like if it was u? I'm not saying all girls are angels. But that doesn't excuse or justyfy such sick treatment.
they deserve it they play more mindgames then men have ever had.
you know what my ex did me so wrong.. and I thought I would never like any other man again... and I stilll hate him up too today lets just say he better pray I don't see him in person lol.. but I met a amazing guy who has been helping heheh... but eithier wayi am really carefull... I mean my ex left me after me being in bed rest and getting hit by a car...he elft he said he stopped caring.. I mean common.. any heart I nthere..no way.. men are heartless mosto f them are
actually "playing" is alpha primitive behavior which is in response to what females respond to in the mating game, when women stop responding to that behavior men will no longer play the game that way. women hold the reproductive power so they are responsible for the rules of the game.