Why can't some women understand that men NEED Sex?
Unit1Editor
It is like a requirement for us. Those testosterones are not giving us a choice but we need it. It was also said, that if we are not using it then we are losing it - our tool. This is biology.
There are of course exceptions for asexuals and aromantics. But a "normal" male human being would not like to go through sexual abstinence gladly. We are "burning" inside if we can't get some action.
I need to get laid 😣 we all need to.
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To clear some things up with the angry and confused crowd: 1. Never did I say that women *should* be having sex with us in a demanding manner. This was merely a question with some explanation how it is like being a man dealing with constant high sex drive to see if women can understand what I am saying. Which leads me to... 2. The amount of women not understanding it seems to be MUCH higher than I expected. 3. PORN TO THE RESCUE :D!!! I LOVE PORN!!!
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I did not know, that most women hate sex. Yikes. But my expectation about women not understanding it was way too low. This question should now be "Why do most women not understand our need for sex?" Guess it has something to do with never experiencing it in first hand as we do. How typical and tedious. Alright, I had enough of angry and offended anti-sex women. I don't need to deal with this here. I will find my answers elsewhere.
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I was missing the answers, that i was looking for. Glad they showed up 🙂. Those, who agreed with me or supported me - I thank you ladies and gentlemen. You all are sexy 😀😁 stay sexy! I found, that i am just below having satyriasis and as such i just need (=strongly desire) a lady just below being a nymphomaniac 😋😛 Now picking a MHO is a challenge. So many good answers and just one to choose as "best". Oh well. Thanks again. Sex!!! Sex, sex, sex 😍😍😍
Sex is a basic human need. We all have hormones, cravings, desires...
I've never met anyone, female or male, say they "hate sex"
What is there to hate? Sex, to pretty much everyone feels good. Even bad sex is pretty good. That's half the point.
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ThatDudeWittXper 4
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It's not that women hate sex; women hate sex without trust, commitment, and romance.
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jamiebakerr
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that's not entirely true, there are some woman who would rather hookup and have one night stands than to have a commitment. I don't personally know any of those women, but they are out there
ThatDudeWitt
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@jamiebakerr I agree. I tried to date a girl like that at one time. She wasn't interested. But my other girlfriends have needed that before things have become intimate in the relationship.
tangymarmaladeXper 4
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You already said it. we NEED sex. All human beings do. Anyone who thinks otherwise is either a conservative living life under the shades of preconceived morals of society or is too shy to mention it openly.
Its a fact and don't let people's opinion bother you. ✌
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Unit1
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Cheers kind lady =)
ethan1991
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That's just wrong. It's not a NEED at all, but a desire. Nothin wrong with a desire, but don't call it a need. What do you think you know about needs? Have you ever been a homeless? Western society is all fucked up by their ideas of what people need. All you NEED is food and sleep. While you'll start getting some serious lack of those you will see how right i am and how sex is not NEEDED.
tangymarmalade
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Haha. so my argument proves true anyway. I mentioned about 'preconceived morals' didn't I? I like how you assume things 👏 what makes you preassume I belong to the western world? Im from a middle class Asian family and I guess I can differentiate between 'needs' 'wants' and 'desires'. Anyway... to each their own. I just expressed my opinion and you're free to do so too. No hard feelings. peace.
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ethan1991
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didn't get what you said about preconceived morals? how what i said is preconceived moral? just the opposite, what i said was coming from the most basic primal brain. as someone who used to be homeless for few months, I feel that i know what we really need and what we don't need for survival but is a desire, and nothing wrong with desires. but once you go to REALLY hungry in an uncomfortable bed, you totally don't give a fuck about sex and it's last on your "to do list". about western society - ur correct, i meant more like classes in developed societies that don't know what it means to be hungry.
Unit1
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I loved it how you were responding kind lady :) ✊👍
tangymarmalade
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unit1.. thanks. @ethan1991, haha... well Is this forum is for expressing our opinion which I did... so im not interested in sparking off a debate here. lol. no good is gonna come out of it. you keep your viewpoint, I'll stick with mine 🙏
InfoBotGuru
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Even if they understand it perfectly well, why should they give a fuck unless they want to have sex with you? Women might NEED pizza, that's not my problem. They can go out and get it.
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MatthaelXper 3
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I pity you.. You don't need sex. You need love. You're trying to satisfy a thrust for love with lust, and it obviously isn't working, given all you need is more, more and more.
Reign in your lust and stop objectifying women.
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OGEuphoniumXper 6
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I have gone 17, nearing 18 years without it, and I don't particularly crave it. Masturbating suits me just fine
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Unit1
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Same here but I am 22
sevenpointsXper 3
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Women can feel like they need sex too though.
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alpha1998
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Not as much as men
ssilver
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So not true, buddy
adduudz
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I think they re secret admirer
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alpha1998
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sex drive = amount of testosterone in body
goddess87Yoda
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First of all men and women both have testosterone. There are tons of men who lose interest in sex also. One of the biggest complaints I've heard from women is men's sex drives being lower. Fact of the matter is no one "needs" sex. You won't drop dead from lack of. If you're partner isn't putting out as much as you would like and talking to her doesn't work and you've tried everything then end it. Tell them to put out or get out
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GalemeadXper 5
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To answer your question in a somewhat round about way: In relationships, women are emotion oriented while men are action oriented. Women need to feel they have an emotional connection with their man, while men need to have physical connection (namely sex) with their woman. Usually, when a woman is holding back from sex, it means she doesn't feel that emotional connection yet. Which can be taxing for the man who isn't getting his physical connection. Thus, the frustration that happens on both sides. (I hope that was helpful in some way).
so you understand, but are you willing to have sex as often as a man likes?
CraftySyko
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I do have sex with my partner nearly every time he wants to. so with him yes
awesomespoken
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what happens the times that you don't want to?
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CraftySyko
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it's usually because it's that time of the month for me when I don't want to.
awesomespoken
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you ever try sex on that time of the month?
dragonfly6516Guru
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Why don't most men believe it when we admit that we women need it too?
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CT_CD
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Women don't need sex
Wwwyzzerdd
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Yeah women don't need sex.
dragonfly6516
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Then why should we sleep with you men?
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dragonfly6516
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Come on guys. serious question. We don't have to have sex to artificially inseminate to make babies. So what is the motivation if we don't need it? We can masturbate to get that release.
CT_CD
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To please the guy so he won't cheat on you.
dragonfly6516
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@CT_CD Humans are mammals. Mammals aren't designed to be monogamous. Most mammalian species practice herding and shared breeding mates. Sex is a physical act that doesn't equate love. That's why I'm in an open relationship.
Unit1
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I believe you! :)
CT_CD
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Humans are not mammals
dragonfly6516
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@CT_CD Warm blooded, have hair or fur, give live birth, secrete milk from mammary glands. Yes, we are.
CT_CD
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Humans are crustaceans
dragonfly6516
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@CT_CD I'm not a member of the Crab People; I practice clean and safe sex. Besides, you identify as a dog, beneath humans, so what would you know anyway?
Wwwyzzerdd
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@CT_CD I thought we were lizards
lord_chilled
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because guys dont say we need sex and 3 years later we start denying sex for two weeks. who needs sex and still goes on without fucking for weeks even tough they have the opportunity? only women
Wwwyzzerdd
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@lord_chilled I think that proves the case that women will just find another outlet and don't need sex biologically like men do. They know they can get it whenever they choose.
lord_chilled
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@Wwwyzzerdd yeah the fact that they can get sex whenever they want plays into it as well..
Wwwyzzerdd
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@lord_chilled Yep, I find it analogous to a kid getting bored with it's toy.
Wwwyzzerdd
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If women needed sex just as much as men then why is online dating so difficult for men?
lord_chilled
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@Wwwyzzerdd because every girl has 100 dms while a guy is dming 10 girls and still only has a 1 in 10 chances that someone will respond :-)
Wwwyzzerdd
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@lord_chilled You speak the truth.
Asad1ONE1
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Because they're probably very skeptical and don't believe anymore
SHKeyXper 5
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Eh. Other ways to satisfy, maybe.
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vishnaMaster
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You're telling me, boy oh boy, there are times I want sex and my partner doesn't. Why is it such a stereotype that women don't want sex, I love sex. Being the person with the higher libido sucks in a relationship, man or woman.
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Unit1
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I kind of know that feel sis :/ You have my empathy.
RJGraveyTrainEditor
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Lol okay, and? No offence to any guy out there but him needing sex isn't my problem unless he's my man. Every other guy out there can pretty much kick rocks.
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RJGraveyTrain
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Women don't hate sex dude. Lol. Also women don't understand the "need for sex" because you won't die without it. We're not anti sex either: we're anti EXCUSES. If you want sex, go out there and get it or earn it from a wholesome girl. Don't whine and cry that you "NEED TO GET LAID!!" The reason it annoys most girls is because we've all heard horny guys made such claims while they won't take "no" for an answer: "No, I'm not ready to have sex with you yet." Guy: "But I NEED it! I have blue balls! Don't be a tease, that's cruel!" That's why you're getting a negative reaction. Lol.
Unit1
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Heh 😂😂 Okay. Thanks for the following heads up kind lady.
RJGraveyTrain
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No problem bud.
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nationwantstoknow
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well that's really a nice one to go out and earn sex from a wholesome girl @rjgraveytrain
redeyemindtricks
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#yasgurl
RJGraveyTrain
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@redeyemindtricks 🤘🏻🤘🏻
OlderGuy965
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Very well put graveytrain
Jay_LaurenXper 5
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I get exactly what you mean 👍
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Potato_GoddessXper 5
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Well I'm 15. What I have learn from youtube. Its confusing. Men need so do women. You need to calm down and wait. You can't just have it. Im waiting till I'm married. Patience is 🔐. I think women understand you need it. They just don't want it. Whats important, your needs or your lovers?
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KaffieXper 3
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trans here. quite simply put, female hormone levels make you less horny. someone who hasn't experienced male levels would certainly have a hard time understanding how it feels, and vice versa. but it's not a need, it's an urge/desire. masturbation relieves that urge, so make use of it. sex and horniness I'd biological, it's dumb to shame someone for it. but Peele do need to be respectful and use their brain, on both sides of the fence. girls should understand that guys get the urge more often, and guys should understand girls do not, but do still get it sometimes.
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MattMcCoy
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very true. You girls should just take loys of steroids and we will tell you god all you do is think about sex all day what is wrong with you, you horn ball. 😂😂😂
Kaffie
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huh? not at all. personally I enjoy being less horny. I can still enjoy it but its less if a burden. people shouldn't fuck with their hormones. only transition if you need to. I'm just providing my experience as trans since I've literally been on both sides of the fence on this topic.
Kaffie
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but yes. trans guys take T and note getting really horny haha.
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MattMcCoy
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Lol yeah this is like the perfect topic for you guys. what I was saying is we each find it hard to understand what our significant other is feeling bc simply we have different hormones and different levels as well. So we have never experienced it. As for my comment I was saying if girls want to understand us better they they should take steroids, higher testosterone levels, and will begin to see why we are the way we are lol. Also good comment about "T" so true. Maybe they should take that as well 🤣. Just in case there is someone out there considering this, it's a joke. Also you girls are correct we don't "need it" however if we dont get it your body will basically kick it's own ass lol. The body wants this just like it would if you took drugs, I dunno let's say "T" since it was already brought up. (to be continued)
MattMcCoy
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You have been doing it however long it takes to get addicted and then when you show up to your dealers house she says ya know I'm just really not feeling very well and have these itty bitty cramps and I just can't handle it...😂😂😂BTW I'm joking here girls and trying not to laugh while I explain this. When your dealer says this you think she doesn't love you anymore and don't understand why she would force your body to kick your own ass because suddenly your body is kicking you over and over repeatedly in the balls like a hungry infant on crack. 😂. So now you feel like shit just like your girlfriend, I guess misery does like company, and you are both annoyed with one another and don't understand why they don't see your point of view.
MattMcCoy
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The answer to this is simple communicate better and learn about the opposite sex for Christ sake. One of my degrees is in biology and honestly that alone helps you understand and relate to them. Here is an example. Also you wouldn't feel the same way you would if you did drugs I am just trying to get you to be able to relate to the human condition and explain that your body will fight you just like it does if you came off of something your body has gotten used and your body really does think it needs it and it goes crazy psycho on you lol.
MattMcCoy
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omg I'm sorry for writing so much I was on a roll I never got to talk to you about the girls part but I'm done writing. I hope it made sense bc I had to cut it up after the fact in smaller chunks bc it was too long lol. which is harder than you'd think with a cell phone.
Kaffie
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no, girls should not take T unless they have a hormonal definciency. otherwise it will lead to all sorts of problems. sex is not a requirement for either sex. guys tend to have stronger urges and shouldn't be shamed for relieving them privately (porn). But forcing your partner into sex or demanding sex is wrong. plenty of guys learn to stop, it's not a biological requirement. in my opinion it sucks as it's a pain to deal with and gets a social stigma. Perhaps guys see it differently, I dunno. as a girl I still get urges but they're different and less frequent. Just respect people and what they feel they need to do. it isn't hard.
MattMcCoy
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"T" isn't testosterone hun lol. it is methamphetamines. aka "Tina" and like explained and stated "Do not do this" bc I'm trying to somehow relate to you guys so you can understand us so I made up a fake scenario.
MattMcCoy
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I'm sorry why are you pointing this to me? I agreed with you girls and just said everything you did.
Kaffie
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? I'm just continuing the conversation. T is short for testosterone. I'd assumed that was obvious given the topic.
MattMcCoy
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Actually it's not. Test is testosterone. T is short for Tina so that people don't know what your talking about. T N. crystal meth. Often used to refer specifically to 1/16 ounce of crystal meth (half an eight ball). The term originated as follows: "crystal" was referred to as "christina;" "christina" was shortened to "tina," which was shortened to T. --tina syn. Tweaker 1: Dude, you know anyone who's selling? I wanna get a T. Tweaker 2: Yeah, I got a contact. Lemme get her number. but we are talking g slang and if your talking to people who do test I'm sure they would assume test if meth then they would also know what you mean. givens don't have any background info it's hard to know
Kaffie
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lol w/e dude
MattMcCoy
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Dude where did you learn English? w/e, T, etc. Is this Ebonics? Seriously no wonder they are co fused. I was just trying to help you out, apparently to no avail.
Kaffie
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lol it's not ebonics. everyone else understands me just fine, so the fault is yours.
MattMcCoy
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Your assuming they understand you. You know what they say about assumptions right? What's more likely is some do and some don't, most of the ones that do are the ones that responded
Sex is not a requirement. It is a desire as many have said before me.
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David14
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I'm confused. Was that an insult or agreement?
septemberangel118
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@David14 I was agreeing with the people who have posted before me saying that it is not a requirement for men to have sex to survive.
David14
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Of course not lol. I'm pretty sure everyone gets that, they just like to exaggerate.
AaronTupazXper 6
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Well more important our species as a whole needs sex to survive. That much I'm sure everyone can agree with
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trisarahtops94Xper 5
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I'm sorry but this is ridiculous. And it's thinking/logic like this that can get dangerous (this is how people sometimes justify rape and perpetuate rape culture). You do not need to have sex to live. Sure that urgency may feel so important to you, but you will NOT die of you don't have sex. So no it's not a need. Control yourself and figure out a way to deal with your sex drive yourself.
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zmarty24
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A really good way to reduce your sex drive is thinking about other things, doing hobbies, or working out/lifting. Also turning to sex for things can be dangerous, can lead to addiction. Look to better thing my man
Makiru
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look I know both genders would like to feel more secure and wanted when it comes to their urges, it would be like a dream world in a sense cause we love certain interactions with others and always are neglected by society on both sides in some way or another. It is no excuse under any of those circumstances for rape. Rape culture is not a fucking thing to use as an argument, it doesn't really exist and if it does it's not changing.
trisarahtops94
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Can you elaborate on how you think rape culture doesn't exist? The moment a girl gets assaulted or raped the questions start flying: was she drunk? what was she wearing? did she lead him on? etc. It's very much real. And a male defining his urge for sex as a need can definitely make him say he NEEDED sex. Which is just false.
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Makiru
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1. you prove how it does exist first 2. yes these questions do have plenty to do with the memory and credability of the victim and play into the scale of the events that happened. All these questions are important for the case and the rapist should get punished. The problems are that women have started doing things like lying and extremely over dramatizing situations for money and attention that have have brought all of the courts, victims, and accused, points into view.
Makiru
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These people that have tarnished the trust of others should not effect people that from what I have seen truly care about others like you, though if you knew some more about me you could easily send me to trial right now with a false accusation possibly destroying so many parts of my life. I have respect for the fact that you seemed to stay under a certain level of calm after my posibly hurtful opinionated words and greatly thank you for being of the few with those followed ideas to try and understand where the enemy is coming from. I agree with your 2 last sentances to a full extent aswell
Makiru
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knew some more about me as in minor personal info, no insult intended
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128 180Sex is a basic human need. We all have hormones, cravings, desires...
I've never met anyone, female or male, say they "hate sex"
What is there to hate? Sex, to pretty much everyone feels good. Even bad sex is pretty good. That's half the point.
It's not that women hate sex; women hate sex without trust, commitment, and romance.
that's not entirely true, there are some woman who would rather hookup and have one night stands than to have a commitment. I don't personally know any of those women, but they are out there
@jamiebakerr I agree. I tried to date a girl like that at one time. She wasn't interested. But my other girlfriends have needed that before things have become intimate in the relationship.
You already said it.
we NEED sex. All human beings do.
Anyone who thinks otherwise is either a conservative living life under the shades of preconceived morals of society or is too shy to mention it openly.
Its a fact and don't let people's opinion bother you. ✌
Cheers kind lady =)
That's just wrong. It's not a NEED at all, but a desire. Nothin wrong with a desire, but don't call it a need. What do you think you know about needs? Have you ever been a homeless? Western society is all fucked up by their ideas of what people need. All you NEED is food and sleep. While you'll start getting some serious lack of those you will see how right i am and how sex is not NEEDED.
Haha. so my argument proves true anyway. I mentioned about 'preconceived morals' didn't I? I like how you assume things 👏 what makes you preassume I belong to the western world? Im from a middle class Asian family and I guess I can differentiate between 'needs' 'wants' and 'desires'. Anyway... to each their own. I just expressed my opinion and you're free to do so too. No hard feelings. peace.
didn't get what you said about preconceived morals? how what i said is preconceived moral? just the opposite, what i said was coming from the most basic primal brain. as someone who used to be homeless for few months, I feel that i know what we really need and what we don't need for survival but is a desire, and nothing wrong with desires. but once you go to REALLY hungry in an uncomfortable bed, you totally don't give a fuck about sex and it's last on your "to do list". about western society - ur correct, i meant more like classes in developed societies that don't know what it means to be hungry.
I loved it how you were responding kind lady :) ✊👍
unit1.. thanks. @ethan1991, haha... well Is this forum is for expressing our opinion which I did... so im not interested in sparking off a debate here. lol. no good is gonna come out of it. you keep your viewpoint, I'll stick with mine 🙏
Even if they understand it perfectly well, why should they give a fuck unless they want to have sex with you? Women might NEED pizza, that's not my problem. They can go out and get it.
I pity you.. You don't need sex. You need love. You're trying to satisfy a thrust for love with lust, and it obviously isn't working, given all you need is more, more and more.
Reign in your lust and stop objectifying women.
I have gone 17, nearing 18 years without it, and I don't particularly crave it. Masturbating suits me just fine
Same here but I am 22
Women can feel like they need sex too though.
Not as much as men
So not true, buddy
I think they re secret admirer
sex drive = amount of testosterone in body
First of all men and women both have testosterone. There are tons of men who lose interest in sex also. One of the biggest complaints I've heard from women is men's sex drives being lower. Fact of the matter is no one "needs" sex. You won't drop dead from lack of. If you're partner isn't putting out as much as you would like and talking to her doesn't work and you've tried everything then end it. Tell them to put out or get out
To answer your question in a somewhat round about way: In relationships, women are emotion oriented while men are action oriented. Women need to feel they have an emotional connection with their man, while men need to have physical connection (namely sex) with their woman. Usually, when a woman is holding back from sex, it means she doesn't feel that emotional connection yet. Which can be taxing for the man who isn't getting his physical connection. Thus, the frustration that happens on both sides. (I hope that was helpful in some way).
Someone that at least gets it mostly.
@Browneye57 www.womenshealthmag.com/.../5-myths-about-female-desire
I completely understand.
so you understand, but are you willing to have sex as often as a man likes?
I do have sex with my partner nearly every time he wants to. so with him yes
what happens the times that you don't want to?
it's usually because it's that time of the month for me when I don't want to.
you ever try sex on that time of the month?
Why don't most men believe it when we admit that we women need it too?
Women don't need sex
Yeah women don't need sex.
Then why should we sleep with you men?
Come on guys. serious question. We don't have to have sex to artificially inseminate to make babies. So what is the motivation if we don't need it? We can masturbate to get that release.
To please the guy so he won't cheat on you.
@CT_CD Humans are mammals. Mammals aren't designed to be monogamous. Most mammalian species practice herding and shared breeding mates. Sex is a physical act that doesn't equate love. That's why I'm in an open relationship.
I believe you! :)
Humans are not mammals
@CT_CD Warm blooded, have hair or fur, give live birth, secrete milk from mammary glands. Yes, we are.
Humans are crustaceans
@CT_CD I'm not a member of the Crab People; I practice clean and safe sex. Besides, you identify as a dog, beneath humans, so what would you know anyway?
@CT_CD I thought we were lizards
because guys dont say we need sex and 3 years later we start denying sex for two weeks. who needs sex and still goes on without fucking for weeks even tough they have the opportunity? only women
@lord_chilled I think that proves the case that women will just find another outlet and don't need sex biologically like men do. They know they can get it whenever they choose.
@Wwwyzzerdd yeah the fact that they can get sex whenever they want plays into it as well..
@lord_chilled Yep, I find it analogous to a kid getting bored with it's toy.
If women needed sex just as much as men then why is online dating so difficult for men?
@Wwwyzzerdd because every girl has 100 dms while a guy is dming 10 girls and still only has a 1 in 10 chances that someone will respond :-)
@lord_chilled You speak the truth.
Because they're probably very skeptical and don't believe anymore
Eh. Other ways to satisfy, maybe.
You're telling me, boy oh boy, there are times I want sex and my partner doesn't. Why is it such a stereotype that women don't want sex, I love sex. Being the person with the higher libido sucks in a relationship, man or woman.
I kind of know that feel sis :/ You have my empathy.
Lol okay, and? No offence to any guy out there but him needing sex isn't my problem unless he's my man. Every other guy out there can pretty much kick rocks.
Women don't hate sex dude. Lol. Also women don't understand the "need for sex" because you won't die without it. We're not anti sex either: we're anti EXCUSES. If you want sex, go out there and get it or earn it from a wholesome girl. Don't whine and cry that you "NEED TO GET LAID!!" The reason it annoys most girls is because we've all heard horny guys made such claims while they won't take "no" for an answer: "No, I'm not ready to have sex with you yet." Guy: "But I NEED it! I have blue balls! Don't be a tease, that's cruel!" That's why you're getting a negative reaction. Lol.
Heh 😂😂 Okay. Thanks for the following heads up kind lady.
No problem bud.
well that's really a nice one to go out and earn sex from a wholesome girl @rjgraveytrain
#yasgurl
@redeyemindtricks 🤘🏻🤘🏻
Very well put graveytrain
I get exactly what you mean 👍
Well I'm 15. What I have learn from youtube. Its confusing. Men need so do women. You need to calm down and wait. You can't just have it. Im waiting till I'm married. Patience is 🔐. I think women understand you need it. They just don't want it. Whats important, your needs or your lovers?
trans here. quite simply put, female hormone levels make you less horny. someone who hasn't experienced male levels would certainly have a hard time understanding how it feels, and vice versa. but it's not a need, it's an urge/desire. masturbation relieves that urge, so make use of it. sex and horniness I'd biological, it's dumb to shame someone for it. but Peele do need to be respectful and use their brain, on both sides of the fence. girls should understand that guys get the urge more often, and guys should understand girls do not, but do still get it sometimes.
very true. You girls should just take loys of steroids and we will tell you god all you do is think about sex all day what is wrong with you, you horn ball. 😂😂😂
huh? not at all. personally I enjoy being less horny. I can still enjoy it but its less if a burden. people shouldn't fuck with their hormones. only transition if you need to. I'm just providing my experience as trans since I've literally been on both sides of the fence on this topic.
but yes. trans guys take T and note getting really horny haha.
Lol yeah this is like the perfect topic for you guys. what I was saying is we each find it hard to understand what our significant other is feeling bc simply we have different hormones and different levels as well. So we have never experienced it. As for my comment I was saying if girls want to understand us better they they should take steroids, higher testosterone levels, and will begin to see why we are the way we are lol. Also good comment about "T" so true. Maybe they should take that as well 🤣. Just in case there is someone out there considering this, it's a joke. Also you girls are correct we don't "need it" however if we dont get it your body will basically kick it's own ass lol. The body wants this just like it would if you took drugs, I dunno let's say "T" since it was already brought up. (to be continued)
You have been doing it however long it takes to get addicted and then when you show up to your dealers house she says ya know I'm just really not feeling very well and have these itty bitty cramps and I just can't handle it...😂😂😂BTW I'm joking here girls and trying not to laugh while I explain this. When your dealer says this you think she doesn't love you anymore and don't understand why she would force your body to kick your own ass because suddenly your body is kicking you over and over repeatedly in the balls like a hungry infant on crack. 😂. So now you feel like shit just like your girlfriend, I guess misery does like company, and you are both annoyed with one another and don't understand why they don't see your point of view.
The answer to this is simple communicate better and learn about the opposite sex for Christ sake. One of my degrees is in biology and honestly that alone helps you understand and relate to them. Here is an example. Also you wouldn't feel the same way you would if you did drugs I am just trying to get you to be able to relate to the human condition and explain that your body will fight you just like it does if you came off of something your body has gotten used and your body really does think it needs it and it goes crazy psycho on you lol.
omg I'm sorry for writing so much I was on a roll I never got to talk to you about the girls part but I'm done writing. I hope it made sense bc I had to cut it up after the fact in smaller chunks bc it was too long lol. which is harder than you'd think with a cell phone.
no, girls should not take T unless they have a hormonal definciency. otherwise it will lead to all sorts of problems. sex is not a requirement for either sex. guys tend to have stronger urges and shouldn't be shamed for relieving them privately (porn). But forcing your partner into sex or demanding sex is wrong. plenty of guys learn to stop, it's not a biological requirement. in my opinion it sucks as it's a pain to deal with and gets a social stigma. Perhaps guys see it differently, I dunno. as a girl I still get urges but they're different and less frequent. Just respect people and what they feel they need to do. it isn't hard.
"T" isn't testosterone hun lol. it is methamphetamines. aka "Tina" and like explained and stated "Do not do this" bc I'm trying to somehow relate to you guys so you can understand us so I made up a fake scenario.
I'm sorry why are you pointing this to me? I agreed with you girls and just said everything you did.
? I'm just continuing the conversation. T is short for testosterone. I'd assumed that was obvious given the topic.
Actually it's not. Test is testosterone. T is short for Tina so that people don't know what your talking about. T N. crystal meth. Often used to refer specifically to 1/16 ounce of crystal meth (half an eight ball). The term originated as follows: "crystal" was referred to as "christina;" "christina" was shortened to "tina," which was shortened to T. --tina syn. Tweaker 1: Dude, you know anyone who's selling? I wanna get a T. Tweaker 2: Yeah, I got a contact. Lemme get her number. but we are talking g slang and if your talking to people who do test I'm sure they would assume test if meth then they would also know what you mean. givens don't have any background info it's hard to know
lol w/e dude
Dude where did you learn English? w/e, T, etc. Is this Ebonics? Seriously no wonder they are co fused. I was just trying to help you out, apparently to no avail.
lol it's not ebonics. everyone else understands me just fine, so the fault is yours.
Your assuming they understand you. You know what they say about assumptions right? What's more likely is some do and some don't, most of the ones that do are the ones that responded
www.womenshealthmag.com/.../5-myths-about-female-desire
Sex is not a requirement. It is a desire as many have said before me.
I'm confused. Was that an insult or agreement?
@David14 I was agreeing with the people who have posted before me saying that it is not a requirement for men to have sex to survive.
Of course not lol. I'm pretty sure everyone gets that, they just like to exaggerate.
Well more important our species as a whole needs sex to survive. That much I'm sure everyone can agree with
I'm sorry but this is ridiculous. And it's thinking/logic like this that can get dangerous (this is how people sometimes justify rape and perpetuate rape culture). You do not need to have sex to live. Sure that urgency may feel so important to you, but you will NOT die of you don't have sex. So no it's not a need. Control yourself and figure out a way to deal with your sex drive yourself.
A really good way to reduce your sex drive is thinking about other things, doing hobbies, or working out/lifting. Also turning to sex for things can be dangerous, can lead to addiction. Look to better thing my man
look I know both genders would like to feel more secure and wanted when it comes to their urges, it would be like a dream world in a sense cause we love certain interactions with others and always are neglected by society on both sides in some way or another. It is no excuse under any of those circumstances for rape. Rape culture is not a fucking thing to use as an argument, it doesn't really exist and if it does it's not changing.
Can you elaborate on how you think rape culture doesn't exist? The moment a girl gets assaulted or raped the questions start flying: was she drunk? what was she wearing? did she lead him on? etc. It's very much real. And a male defining his urge for sex as a need can definitely make him say he NEEDED sex. Which is just false.
1. you prove how it does exist first 2. yes these questions do have plenty to do with the memory and credability of the victim and play into the scale of the events that happened. All these questions are important for the case and the rapist should get punished. The problems are that women have started doing things like lying and extremely over dramatizing situations for money and attention that have have brought all of the courts, victims, and accused, points into view.
These people that have tarnished the trust of others should not effect people that from what I have seen truly care about others like you, though if you knew some more about me you could easily send me to trial right now with a false accusation possibly destroying so many parts of my life. I have respect for the fact that you seemed to stay under a certain level of calm after my posibly hurtful opinionated words and greatly thank you for being of the few with those followed ideas to try and understand where the enemy is coming from. I agree with your 2 last sentances to a full extent aswell
knew some more about me as in minor personal info, no insult intended
Wow wow wow. Who said anything about rape?