Well, on the plus side, you want to have sex for pleasure rather than to interest a guy or something like most girls your age.
However, you don't seem to care about guys feelings either. It sounds like it's not intentional, and I certainly know I've been guilty of playing with a heart or two, but I think you need to be aware of how you're effecting the people around you.
Do you masturbate? That may take the itch off if you want to wait for someone who really catches your attention and keeps you interested. Otherwise, if you want to sleep with someone, be responsible and make it clear to him that you don't want more.0 0 0 0uh well how do girls even masturbate? like do u stick fingers in your vag? -that sounds disgusting to me...
Lol well you figure out what feels good for you. Usually it's just rubbing your clit until you reach climax. You can always explore the option of vibrators/etc as well. I had an awful sex life until I was able to pleasure myself and figure out what I do and don't like. If you can explore your body before another person does, it will be a lot more enjoyable in the long run (of course don't do anything you're not comfortable with, I'm merely giving you my opinion).
Just find a hot as fuck guy & have sex with him then you'll never regret it. I was in the same position you are in & I just hooked up with a guy I knew for a couple weeks good guy fucking sexy just not a guy I want a relationship with so were just friends with benefits now. (:
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That's not how this works.
If I read you correctly, you want relationship sex, but you REALLY want sex.
The answer: Either you have the mental discipline and wait for your morals to apply, or you start hooking up.
It doesn't work both ways.0 0 0 0Mesofielde makes a decent point I'm afraid.
"The most I've felt was omg he's so hot/charismatic I wanna get him, then I get him and I dump him when i get bored."
I guess you're currently incapable of valuing a person for being a person and need to mature a bit. Good luck.0 1 0 0
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