Am I a bad girlfriend for refusing to give my boyfriend a blowjob?
Anonymous
So it is that time of the month for me so he as per usual expects a blowjob but yesterday I got badly burnt in the sun so it hurts and I didn't feel like giving a 30 min blowjob at all. I told him that after he asked me a few times, now he is kinda pissed/down. Am I really at fault here? Should I have just manned up and did it despite not wanting to?
Well he is your boyfriend so he must understand what and when do you want it... he just can't force you to do it or get angry if you dont Just say you are not feeling like it and you would make up for it later
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Giggletr0nGuru
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No of course not! You don't have to do anything, especially sexual stuff! I a blowjob or anything like that is a privilege not a right!
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taleswapperYoda
+1 y
No. He should understand that the circumstances are extraordinary, and make allowances.
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the-mad-germanExplorer
+1 y
I dont like to lick puss... so how could i judge not to give a bj xD
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RickyPT
+1 y
It's not what you like, but the pleasure you can give to your partner, the one you love the most. You do to her as she does to you. With time you will start to have pleasure in giving and not only receiveing.
the-mad-german
+1 y
@RickyPT thats not how i work... if i dont like something i dont do it
bangyourheadGuru
+1 y
Some times a soldier has to jump on a grenade.
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nish17Xper 5
+1 y
Giving blowjob to your partner is totally your personal decision and it doesn't mean you are bad girlfriend. Your boyfriend should understand that you don't like giving blowjob. 🙂
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Asker
+1 y
It's not even that I don't like it, it's that I don't feel like doing it any time of day and night. Especially when I'm in pain, that is not a turn-on.
nish17
+1 y
Ya I understand. But I like licking pussy
TheFlak38Master
+1 y
Break up. He deserves better.
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Asker
+1 y
Did you even read the caption...
VestaXper 7
+1 y
He needs to realize that things happen/life sucks, then you die
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mrArcherExplorer
+1 y
Nah, you're fine. Make him buy you a pizza for this shit. He probably thought of it as an opportunity to live out a meme. Very poor taste.
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ValnacGuru
+1 y
No, it’s your choice, he should man up and get you a cold iced tea.
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esotericstoryGuru
+1 y
No relationships are about mutual compromise and compassion. He should take care of your burns.
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Clarke498Guru
+1 y
No. Him asking that much is a bit childish. You doing it at all probably takes a lot.
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lofiiYoda
+1 y
yeah
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Asker
+1 y
Did you read the caption though?
ForbesMagazineXper 5
+1 y
You should have helped him save $5 worth of goods with Groupons instead!
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Twenty2Guru
+1 y
He should be understanding too! Tho it can be that he's pissed so you'll try to please him!
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John1217Xper 6
+1 y
Definitely not
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NachowedgieGuru
+1 y
No, he's just being a moron
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MoneyBeetsXper 7
+1 y
Dafaq you even dating him for?
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Asker
+1 y
He is actually a great guy, he just gets sensitive about things, it's not that he tried to force me or anything, he just gets pissed off for prolonged periods of time if he is horny and needs are not met. He says it's normal for guys.
MoneyBeets
+1 y
Sounds like you’re dating a woman.
Asker
+1 y
He did make an anology with it being similar to how women get emotional, pms n stuff.
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MoneyBeets
+1 y
Do you enjoy dating beta males?
Asker
+1 y
I don't believe in beta or alpha segregations in male psychology. That is a myth.
MoneyBeets
+1 y
Well enjoy your girlfriend
ivanhunterjoYoda
+1 y
No your not
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qwe28Xper 2
+1 y
You should never feel bad for not wanting to do sexual things with your partner regardless of reasoning. He should not be so pushy with you.
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14 31Well he is your boyfriend so he must understand what and when do you want it... he just can't force you to do it or get angry if you dont
Just say you are not feeling like it and you would make up for it later
No of course not! You don't have to do anything, especially sexual stuff! I a blowjob or anything like that is a privilege not a right!
No. He should understand that the circumstances are extraordinary, and make allowances.
I dont like to lick puss... so how could i judge not to give a bj xD
It's not what you like, but the pleasure you can give to your partner, the one you love the most. You do to her as she does to you. With time you will start to have pleasure in giving and not only receiveing.
@RickyPT thats not how i work... if i dont like something i dont do it
Some times a soldier has to jump on a grenade.
Giving blowjob to your partner is totally your personal decision and it doesn't mean you are bad girlfriend. Your boyfriend should understand that you don't like giving blowjob. 🙂
It's not even that I don't like it, it's that I don't feel like doing it any time of day and night. Especially when I'm in pain, that is not a turn-on.
Ya I understand. But I like licking pussy
Break up. He deserves better.
Did you even read the caption...
He needs to realize that things happen/life sucks, then you die
Nah, you're fine. Make him buy you a pizza for this shit. He probably thought of it as an opportunity to live out a meme. Very poor taste.
No, it’s your choice, he should man up and get you a cold iced tea.
No relationships are about mutual compromise and compassion. He should take care of your burns.
No. Him asking that much is a bit childish. You doing it at all probably takes a lot.
yeah
Did you read the caption though?
You should have helped him save $5 worth of goods with Groupons instead!
He should be understanding too! Tho it can be that he's pissed so you'll try to please him!
Definitely not
No, he's just being a moron
Dafaq you even dating him for?
He is actually a great guy, he just gets sensitive about things, it's not that he tried to force me or anything, he just gets pissed off for prolonged periods of time if he is horny and needs are not met. He says it's normal for guys.
Sounds like you’re dating a woman.
He did make an anology with it being similar to how women get emotional, pms n stuff.
Do you enjoy dating beta males?
I don't believe in beta or alpha segregations in male psychology. That is a myth.
Well enjoy your girlfriend
No your not
You should never feel bad for not wanting to do sexual things with your partner regardless of reasoning. He should not be so pushy with you.