Am I late for sex or something?

I was looking at sexuality questions and i keep seeing people have their first time when they are 14 15 .
Should i do it? I know someone i can do it with but i thoight 14 was too early, but when i look ay a question here i dont see someone lost her virginity after 16
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  • 14? Amateurs... By the time I was 6, I did it with at least 69 girls. By the time I turned 14 I was nominated for porn movies, but of course I declined cuz I thought of my future and all... I tell you, girls all over the world came begging me to give them a taste, but I have better things to do.
    Is that the typical stuff you hear? Because I got news for you... They lie. Bunch of kids wanting attention, or playing adult... Most of them can't even give a name... But some actually did it... Well, hold on, that's not a lie anymore in that case... Should you actually consider doing it then?
    Think about it a little... What is sex for? If you said procreation, you got it... So what's that meaning? You do it to have kids. So in that case, are you ready to have kids? Are you willing to sacrifice your entire future to work as a janitor or who knows what job would even accept a kid that didn't even finish the school? Oh, hold on, hold on, before that, can you even work when you'll be pregnant? Eh? Wait a second, a pregnant kid? Can you even survive? Who knows, it's lottery... But your future? It won't survive.
    "Ok, ok, but I'll be responsible and do it safe". Hmmm, let me think... Actually, no... You think about it... Can you really do it responsibly and safe? Responsibility aside (don't get me started), how safe do you think you can do it when ALL the protection measures are designed for adults. "Oh, but others did it and it was fine". If by fine you mean lucky, then I completely agree. There are people winning the lottery... Did you ever win it just because someone else did? I don't think so.
    So let's go back to the reason you want to do it, which is because... "others did it"... Ook... I was a kid too and I must confess that although I didn't understand at all why people do this "let's follow trend x" thing, there were times when I felt like I wanted to do it too. Now that I'm an adult, I understand why I felt like wanting to follow some trends back then... It was because OTHERS thought that it was "cool", and you would be considered "cool" if you were following it... You would be accepted and admired by others, but... did I think it was "cool" back then? No. Do I think now that it was cool? Absolutely fucking not. It was the most stupid thing I've seen then, and I'm glad I stepped out of it.
    So what gives? Why everyone else did follow the trend? Hah, because they were weaklings. No, really... they needed peer validation to affirm their pitiful existence, and that was easiest to obtain by doing something stupid and easy, calling it special because "not everyone could've done it", but in fact, the others has more important things to do and call "cool", like becoming really good in something that really not everyone could do... But nah, they were called good for nothing nerds instead... Oh, the irony now...
    Anyways, having sex was back then a trend just as much as it is now. So who actually did it? Well, the people with the lowest intelligence... It was quite obvious. The lower the education, the higher the chances you'll do something stupid. Imagine their regret when they got older and actually found someone they loved... "You know, this is not my first time; I gave my first time to a random kid when I was little because everyone was doing it"... Ah, sorry, but I'm not really into... used goods... I mean... those kind of people... Whoops, that came out of nowhere, and yet you saw it coming from miles away
    Ask yourself... Deep down, when you meet your first true love, do you want it to be special? Do you want that person to be all yours, untouched by anyone else? Or you're fine with... you know... those kind of people? Me, for one, I'm not. It's not special anymore. It kills it.
    At that age you're supposed to enjoy your childhood, not become a hoe... I could take a porn star instead if I wanted an experienced girl

Most Helpful Guy

  • 13 is far to young to do it but still as your curious be safe if the urge to ignore our advice takes over.

    Best advice I can give you is don't let anyone pressure you into sex (everyone else is doing it isn't a justification) you can always say no.

    Always remember the phrase "no glove no love".

    Carrying a condom doesn't imply your going to use it. It's there if there is a lapse in judgement.

    And finally girls can carry condoms too lots of pregnancies happen from lads not having one and saying don't worry I'll pull out!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I didn’t have sex until I was 17. You may think you’re ready now, but I would say you’re not really ready until you have someone you really want to share your body with in such an intimate way. You can only lose your virginity once. Don’t squander such an important moment in your life just to get it over with.

  • You should never feel pressured about losing your virginity, something like that should only happen when you and only you want it to.

    • Well the thing is , i want to do it, but i was thinking i am too young for it but it seems like everyone do it at my age

    • You have no clue what sex is and what the responsibilities are.

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  • No, you shouldn't have sex just to do it. Everyone goes at their own pace. I didn't lose mine until I was 17. Keep it til you're ready and not a moment before. Lose it to someone you trust and care for. Being a virgin isn't a big deal. You'll realize that when you're older. It's just one of those childish things of "I want to be a grown up right now!" with no thought as to why. There's no pressure. Take your time.

  • I lost mine after I was 18. Just wait for someone that you really care about. It's not even that special anyway

  • Well your age says your 13 so if that's right you are in absolutely no rush.

    It's never too late to lose your virginity. You dont have to loose it when your friends do. Wait until you are 100% you want to before you have sex.

    I'm a 28 no just had my birthday, so now I'm a 29 year old virgin and honestly im not sure if I really want to do it or if I'm just trying to be like everyone else.

  • That's not something you should be worrying about at your age. Not to mention having sex at your age could potentially ruin your perspective of love and sex for the rest of your life.

  • Sex isn't an activity for you to just do stopping thinking that way you'll be much better off finding a good guy

  • Some of my friends lost theirs at 11, others at 16-17. Some people wait until they are ready, others want it asap, but can't find it. Best to just do it when you feel the need to, not because you think you are supposed to. Remember, it's something you can't take back, and if you ask here, you will find that most people wished their first time was more "special" than it was, most often because they rushed into it.

    • I'd love to see her little body bounce on a hard rod

    • Whose? Mine? Lol

    • I think that is a troll, not feeding it.

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  • Below 16 is just too early. You don't have to do it just because you feel like you have to do it. It should never be forced and/or done because of peer pressure. It's your own life so think it through yourself. No need to rush.

  • Enjoy masturbating. Wait to have sex until you meet the right person you love and care about.

  • 14 is too early in my opinion but some people do lose it then

  • I'm 25 and I'm still a virgin, and I'm far from the only one. I'm not that happy about it but many others are fine. Though most of us are male...
    You're not late for anything, if anything sounds like you're too early.
    Definitely don't do it just because others have, that's a terrible reason.

  • Dont put a timer on something like this. Many people have sex with the wrong person their first time and its bad experience.
    Just wait until you can find the right person to have sex with. You will know they are right, if they like you for who you are and spend a lot of time with you.
    I lost my virginity at 16, and I was not ready for that experience. I should have waited longer.

  • Don’t do it

  • Only have sex when you feel you're ready. Never, ever to "fit in" or under pressure. And try find a man who you are fully comfortable with, who will know its your first time and make it memorable. Dont rush it simply cos others did. Find the right guy and do it cos u feel the time is right.

  • Only if you are truly ready for it. Other than that just wait till the right person comes along to share the pleasure.

  • If you are too hot and always horny, try oral sex at this age.

  • If you are more then 18-19. It is the time before this age is not good for my opinion
    Do it when you are ready if you still are in early 20ies it is not late yet

  • You are way to young to have sex and of course you aren't late. So please be patient and wait till you're older.

  • There is no right time to lose it that fits for everyone. You should lose it only when it feels right to you. Don't letbother people's experiences influence your decision. When the time is right, it'll feel right and you'll know it.

  • 14 years old is early. Trust me. You don't wanna do that yet

  • If you're asking this question, then no. Sex (at least in my mind) isn't a race.

    I had a friend in high school that got a gal pregnant. IIRC he had to work nights as a janitor. I don't think he even graduated.

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