You can't directly equate one thing to another like that. This is why compatibility is so important.
Could your boyfriend talk you out of wanting this? is there some discussion you could have with him, some point of view, some idea, that would make you stop thinking that him calling you dirty names was hot? No - because that's who you are, and you can't change that. You were like that before you met him and you'll be like that long after you've broken up with him. There's nothing he can to do change how you feel about that.
Well, it works exactly the same way for him: he's not comfortable calling you dirty names, and there's nothing you can to do change that, because that's who he is.
Your MAIN JOB when finding a partner is ensuring that you have long-term compatibility with him, and you need to do that up-front - VERY early on, as in the first 3-5 dates - BEFORE you make a commitment. Sex and aspects of sex are obviously on the list of things to check, but there are many other things on the list that aren't sex-related. Things like marriage, children, careers, religion, finances, lifestyle, life goals, family responsibilities, etc.
Some guys will be flexible on a few things, but many things are already locked in for them, and you need to know which those are, and you need to make sure you can live with those things, because they won't change. And he needs to be able to live with you and your preferences too. If you don't have long-term compatibility, then you can't have a long-term relationship - the friction will develop to a point where you won't want to stay together.
The dating process isn't about dinner and movies, or finding out each others' favorite color or ice cream - it's about long-term relationship compatibility. Unfortunately, that information has largely been lost, mostly due to radical feminism, which is strongly against male-female relationships entirely and has among its stated goals to destroy the nuclear family. You've been influenced by that whether you know it or not - we all have. But the outcomes of following that path have been horrendous for everyone, so we have to discard what doesn't work and choose what DOES work. And that means doing the compatibility work before you commit to someone, so that you know what you're getting, and what you aren't getting.
LMAO well it's not really the same type situation LOL when you love somebody it's the last thing you want to do is hurt them and even though you would be getting pleasure out of it it's just something that feels weird coming out of a guy's mouth. I like to role-play and there's even girls that I role play with online they say the same thing they want the same thing and like it's kind of hot but at first I couldn't do it I just felt weird calling somebody that I have a friend that lives across the world and we have phone sex and she like that and it gets hot hot hot and when he gets that intense and I start telling her what I'm telling her and calling her names as I tell her what I'm doing to her oh my gosh you just starts moaning like crazy and then she starts coming and that goes into another coming and then another coming and it's just until tonight so I do understand 100% where you're coming from but it's just going to probably take him a few minutes to get used to it I think it's hot myself
Now you just have to explain to him that it doesn't mean anything it doesn't mean that he's actually calling you that it's like a real play it's a fantasy and you want him to take that fantasy to the hill you going to really feel it and just tell him it's okay make me feel it LOL
Besides the fact that premarital sex is wrong. Do you REALLY want to be disrespected? That shows you have 0 respect for yourself and you don't love yourself. Would you appreciate it if somebody called you a B? No. SOmebody's sperm dump? No. A slut? No. So why would you want to be dirty and be called dirty? Bad enough you're doing things your shouldn't. And unless you are that pornography addicted and being programmed by it, you decide if you are wrong. You cannot force him to cross that line. That is abnormal and hypocritical. If is not okay for somebody to call you that, why would you people want to be called that? No offense, I don't care what excuses you people make of it, it's why you get treated poorly and why other men think this is acceptable behavior because you promote it. What's right, t is right, and what is wrong, is wrong. This is just flat-out wrong.
Look at all of the sexually abusive men immediately downvoting me. This is why you do not have sex before marriage or mess with that stuff because this kind of man will have no qualms in disrespecting you like they disrespect all women. Don't do anything to ruin your relationship. Nobody has the right to cross sexual morals, bad enough. These men are sick and crazy. Don't entertain that. By ruining your sexuality, your making it harder for you to actually enjoy sex the way it should be.
She is a slut that actually wants to be called one. Most women that are sluts , don't want that factually told to them.
@888theGreat Your a man. You do not understand that most girls have been conditioned to believe that that is acceptable when it's not. They have told men like this, and then they do it and are shocked when others call them these names. Obviously, it is wrong. But people don't give a damn and it is said. Both men and women have been told lies about sex and sexuality.
Your wish is not unusual. I myself like to be called with dirty words and get greatly aroused when hear such words. My husband also loves to hear dirty words from my mouth.
I love that kind of stuff
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think he is just like me , a little shy about it. I would suggest you gently push forward with your thoughts. Next time you are ready for foreplay with him, start to stripe each other while standing up. Keep kissing him as you go. Let your soft moans grow has you start to caress him and he kisses and touches you. Gently moan louder when you wrap your fingers about his cock and drop to your knees to give him an extra deep blow job. As you start to lick him tell him how hot you are getting from tasting his cock. Now you can start to say things to him like you are feeling like wanting to be his personal slut for the night. Tease him as you suck on him with sensual dirty words.
The goal is for him to begin to let his personal shyness walls down in front of you. Let him know when he start to open up and say the words you want to hear how it is making you feels so incredibly close and can't stop wanting him to fuck his his dirty little slut. You crave being his whore.
You need to give him a chance to understand this is just a fun way to open new doors to your sexual experience together.
Best of Luck Dear
Tell him that if he respects you he should believe you when you say that you actually want to hear those words coming from him. He might be scared to use these words, but don’t let him say it’s out of respect.
Everyone has things they're uncomfortable with in bed, and if he doesn't want to do something, that's his right to refuse.
Just sit him down and explain that this kind of talk enhances the experience for you. What goes on in the bedroom is totally different from what goes on everywhere else. Saying or doing something that you enjoy, especially when you're specifically asking him to, isn't disrespecting you. That should be simple enough for him to understand.
I very much second this. It may not feel disrespectful to YOU, but it does to him- making him understand that not all the feelings those names evoke are bad, and even the bad ones have positive sides, can let the two of you work it through together. Sex is weird like that. Well, no. Sex is normal; HUMANS are weird. He may need to build up to it, starting with something milder. Be patient, like you'd want him to be with you if your roles were reversed.
I can answer you like this. My girlfriend (when I was 20 something) said that other men simply, "Do not know how to talk dirty to me" !
I did not call her dirt names, but talked about my penis and her pussy, in somewhat vulgar ways, before , during, and after sex. Guys just don't know how to do that. Sorry.
No. it's fine i do it to my girl all the time doesn't mean i dont respect her. it's just that he not used to it. Just keep it clear that this is just a kink. In the end depends on how mature u think he is not to mix kinks with normal day to day treatment.
He ain't kinky enough for your little ass, having to sit down and tell him what you want is gonna turn you off in the long run. I've cucked many relationships just like yours where the guy is too nice and too respectful, she eventually ventures out and wants a sadist, bastard prick like me to push her boundaries.
Like with most kinks, start slow.
Start with softer words, work up to it.
And talk to him about it.
Just try to explaining it to him better.
Umm no. I want a girl that likes that shit. He is a lucky guy. Lol
No. Some girls really get off on that.
Nothing wrong with different tastes and desires.
You aren't wrong. You have things that turn you on. Perhaps, eventually, he will gradually get in the swing of things.
First off its about morals, 2nd off most people aren't used to that and than of couse most people see anal as another hole nothing more
That is a paradox - he won’t talk dirty but he is into anal.
Enjoy what you enjoy without turning him off. Talk about it when you both have cloths on.
I agree with him not wanting to call you dirty names, but I disagree with him not having a problem with anal
somethime people have trouble calling the person they love names reserved for the unsavory. You on the other hand like bieng called names for doing things that go along with thing you would not do and like bieng called a cunt or cock sucker etc for the shock value or the pleasure you are giving you partner that you do for him. From the sound of it you like calling him a great asslicker for the pleasure he gives you by doing it for the pleasure he give you sucking tits or great pussy eater it is all for the most pleasure you can get from raw unhindered sex ot home , hotel backyard pool in front of a group of people if agreed upon , and lastly no you are not wrong just enjoy
Maybe he just not in to that. But he should clearly a turn on
No not at all! If it turns you on go for it!
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