Are “intucked” labias a turn off?

Are labias that stick or are bigger a turn off? I always see memes calling them beef curtains, and it jsut makes me feel gross because I didn’t ask for them to look like this and I was wondering if people would actually be unattracted to someone just because theirs doesn’t look like a porns stars? I think I’ve worded this horribly in real bad English, my apologies.
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  • As a person that has longer and dangling inner labia, based on my experiences, I could say that many men do find it unattractive. A few of my ex-boyfriends actually expressed their disgust regarding its appearance. Before we had sex for the first time, I warned him that my vagina might not look desirable because I was aware that many men express disgust towards vaginas with thick and long lips. He told me that I had nothing to worry about. We had good sex, but I never paid much attention to him not wanting to eat me out then. After a while during the relationship, I recalled one of his friends approaching me and telling me everything negative that he said about me. He told him that my vagina looked disgusting and even described its appearance to him, using detailed descriptions that only he could know. Because of that, I knew the friend wasn't lying. I broke up with him after that. I found that even though a guy isn't likely to tell you to your face about how disgusting your body is when things are going well, he is likely to tell it to his friends behind your back or express how he truly feels after a break up. I've had quite a few ex-boyfriends do that. I also sent nudes to guys that I was dating before we had sex.

    While I wasn't officially recording the data, I would guess around a good 40% were disgusted or ghosted me after sending them vagina pics. However, you also have guys that genuinely don't care. The guy that I lost my virginity to in high school didn't care, along with many other guys I dated. My current fiancee said that he loves it. Overall, in my experiences, I would say men being disgusted by it or not was close to 60/40, with more men not caring, but still with close to half of them caring. Yes, you're definitely right about guys making jokes and calling them "beef curtains." They also make jokes comparing them to sandwich meat too. All in all, it's just body shaming and many guys just laugh along. However, if you mention that you have a preference for penis size, suddenly, you're a "size queen" and a terrible person. Please note that in this answer, I can only speak for myself regarding my personal experiences. It isn't to discourage you from seeking relationships based on your insecurity. You might very well meet plenty of guys that don't care, but my main goal is to provide a realistic answer rather than a purely optimistic one. Many people that answered said guys mainly don't care, but based on my own experiences, I have to respectfully disagree and I wouldn't feel honest if I told you otherwise.

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  • I am sure most guys are more concerned with what's inside rather than outside. Nothing wrong in having large inner labia. Some guys love them. All horses for courses.

    If it really does become a problem, they can be trimmed down by a surgical procedure called labiaplasty.

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  • According to reliable studies at least half (and possibly more than half) of women have inner labia that extend past the outer labia and are visible. That is perfectly normal and there's nothing wrong with it. The vulvas you see in most of porn are not representative of how most women look in the real world. Lots of women worry about the appearance of their vulvas when there's absolutely nothing wrong with them. My own amazing girlfriend used to be one of those women. But she educated herself and fully accepts and loves her normal labia the way they are. And I do too. I think longer inner labia are very erotic in appearance.

  • Vulva and labia are generally unattractive. They are not built for form, but for function. I personally don't think it matters in any way, unless a person doesn't want the body they were handed.

    Labiaplasty exists, and I suspect porn stars likely have undergone such a procedure.

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  • A tiny number of guys (most of them young and lacking experience with actual women) care about that - the vast majority of men do not. We're happy either way.

  • First of all labia are labia. Women never if ever comment on them and I doubt care about them. And if a man gets close enough to see them he’ll be more concerned with sticking his dick in your pussy than the shape of your labia.

  • I wouldn't worry about it too much, you are who you are as are the rest of us. To 99% of guys, pussy is pussy and they really don't care so long as they get their dicks wet.

  • They're ALL gross are you kidding me? What the hell is an "intucked" one anyway? If you mean beefcurtains -- then yeahh -- wrinkly dark saggy n hairy centurions guarding the poontang, like Va-jay-jay wings or curtains... yikes.

  • no not at all, i`ve only ever been with girls who have intucked ones and i get so turned on by them

  • Long inner labia (wings) look naughty, hot and express attitude.

  • I dont mind them at all, definitely not a turn off :P

  • 1st. there are porn stars with that type of labia too. 2nd. no it would not be a turn off

  • All vaginas are beautiful, really. Porn industry has this weird standard about labias but only kids would make fun of you for that. Most chances are that yours look really good and you aren't even aware of that because of porn image

  • Honestly, we don’t care. It’s all good.

  • I’m not into big beef curtains

  • Not a turn off, I prefer them...

  • I dont mind them at all I love to suck on them

  • Everyone's body is different. As is everyone's attractions. Some women have bigger inner labias and some have bigger outter labias. Do not ever let anyone tell you what is beautiful and what is not! Love yourself first and foremost! F%$k what other people think! Love your body, be comfortable in your own skin. No one will ever be able to love you if you don't love yourself! I imagine you are a very beautiful woman to be more concerned about other people's feelings before your own.

  • To be honest I like them to be like yours.
    The sight of the labia around my dick when fucking is a turn on for me, I don't mind the "neat" ones and neither would ever be a turn off to me

  • Not at all, I’ve yet have to see a pussy that doesn’t look hot. For me if it’s clean and we’ll groomed it perfect. Bigger labia are really fun to play with.

  • Not exactly sure what you mean by labias

  • Nope most guys know they come in different shapes and sizes. It’s normal.

  • All look nice to me

  • oh be proud of what you have. when i'm licking on a pussy, if she has lips I can suck and gently chew on, i'm in heaven, and so is she. porn stars of today are picked because of their Barbie pussies. look up some porn stars from the past, like vanessa del rio.

    • what does yours look like

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