Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Are you ashamed of your body count?
Anonymous
A lot of people think that when getting with someone new it's rude for said person to ask how many sexual partners they've had. I think STD/HIV status is most important but a few friends of mine got offended about the question and said they would lie if/whenever asked. Why be ashamed of a high body count? I mean you know what you're doing when you had sex (unless it wasn't consensual). I'm curious as to why people sleep around so much then feel bad about the number of people they've slept with. If you don't feel bad about your body count then that's great! I love when people own their shit. For the others who do, why do you feel bad about it and why lie about it?
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 27nope.
I've said no to free sex more than girls I've dated.
i m proud to keep it low.
no one has an idea how mentally strong youd have to be... i mean i can always have 4 girls around fucking them simultaneously and none would be able to hurt me or control me and this gives huge advantage in the dating world. i dont even use this card.
just need one girl and i try to be extremely reserved.
swimming against the current.
Well yes because its 0
Lol at "body count."
No ,
my body count isn't high and even if it were... nothing to be ashamed off
Nope, not at all.
It's not the highest nor is it super low.
Not at all, I'm clean and always have been. My past is just that.
I'm fat.
Small dick.
I'm not ashamed.
Because they don't wanna believe they're really the sluts they are
body count? damn yo is u a gangbanger like dat bobby schmurda? how many bodies you caught?
"a week ago, a week agooooo!"
Yes, it's too low.
I love when a girl knows her count and isn't afraid to say it's a turn on.
I never really asked anyone about STD/HIV status. The sex just happened in the heat of the moment and I always felt weird asking. I've had several girls in terms of my "body count" including a without a condom besides girlfriends as we both didn't have them. When I had sex with my ex a couple times, she admitted having sex with a few guys during the last month. asked if she was last tested and got a bit offended, she didn;t want a condom at all as we used to date. Said just to "trust her",, Was a "don't ask don't tell" kind of thing. Worried sometimes and didn't get tested due to just worrying in general. Sounds bad I know.
Lol I'm sorry but I would've told her off. A few guys during the last month, she doesn't want to use protection and had the nerve to get offended? Sounds like she has something she wants to give lol.
I never had anyone ask me in real life until I went to the doctor two years ago and then I couldn't count them offhand and ended up saying "about two dozen" making lovers sound like doughnuts.
I didn't feel bad about it, I just hadn't ever considered it.
"... then I couldn't count them offhand and ended up saying "about two dozen" making lovers sound like doughnuts." LOL it does sound that way.
Well he asked me and I didn't want to spend five minutes working through them and counting them off on my fingers. I thought them through in the car on my way home and concluded it was 28 by the Clintonian definition.