Are you ok with your partner watching a lot of porn/sex movies?
What are your thoughts?
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The reason I`m asking is because my boyfriend watches a lot of porn and sex movies and tells me about it. I was okay with it at first but now I`m getting insecure because I feel like Im not good enough and there are so many women out there who are more desirable.
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 48It's an addiction. He jerks off to porn instead of being with you. You are what is commonly referred to as a 'porn-widow'. It's sick and perverted, and disgusting. And you're dumb enough to go along with it. Looks like you've even blamed yourself. This is on HIM, not you.
Yeah
Yes.
While we are dating? Not an issue.
While we are married? Will ask them to improve and if not we are done
definitely... even better when we watch together and try some of the things
Not really it makes me feel very insecure
You're good enough!!
Yeah. That's fine
I don't mind her watching porn...
I'd talk about this with my partner as I'm of the mindset that once I'm in a relationship, porn / sex is a no no for me. Hopefully she would have the same view as I do on this.
I can see why you'd be insecure about this (and rightfully so in my opinion).
No problem
It doesn't bother me as long as it doesn't adversely impact our time together.
I guess
I would ask her why she feels the need to watch so much of it, not out of judgment but out of curiosity as I would like to understand her better. I'll be honest, I feel like it could bother me a bit, maybe make me a bit insecure and that's why I would like to communicate with her about it, to understand her perspective more.
If I had a partner, I would strongly detest it.
Well if I had one that would be fine as long as it doesn't have any negative impact on our sexual life.
Sure I am that wouldn't bother me at all
Would it bother you
No, but then again, she would not watch those kind of movies anyway
yeah!
Only if we watch them as a couple