At the end of a date, do you ever give the man a blowjob to thank him, without having sex with him?

Question

If so, why don't you have sex with him? Do you usually swallow? Guys, have you ever had a woman do this?

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Yes and it’s because I listened. And damn that’s hard with the jabberJaws that go on incessantly…like don’t take a breath lizard🙃
—not trying to fix it. Deep and lit-up smile when appropriate with accompanying body language.. Teary eyed when appropriate BUT open body language…close that off AND, he really don’t want to hear the hard stuff.- and there went 💋 🍆 .
—The weak aren’t going to hit the hurdles in correct Time. And damn the incessant texting and appreciating your trust flower drop…simple walk-I hate walking around the damn lake…all this to get those legs open for Business.
Im just saying…

AimeeKyle · Accepted Answer

It’s only happened once. I think the girl did it due to lack of confidence (thought that we were not going to go out again). It worked, we did go out one more time and I declined anything else…. that was it.

CallMeLes · Accepted Answer

I give head because I feel like giving head. Sex isn't a transaction unless it's your profession. If the date was great and I'm feeling turned on, heck yes. I'd rather 69 though. If we do or don't have sex it all just depends on where we are at in the relationship and how I feel. If I'm horny and I don't really see a second date coming, yeah probably, but SAFELY. Though I'd expect to cum too. In a relationship who knows? Whatever gets us off and fits the mood. Only time I'd do the "prize thing" is for agreed upon kink. I have a panty roulette game I play with my current boyfriend.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

often i expect a blowjob to happen if i'm in a short dress definitely... a blowjob to thank him? he would have to want it too and giving head is actually a good thing... i think giving a blowjob as one step above making out... and it can be a beautiful experience.

Changiis07 · Answer

Hell no. If he wants to take me out on a second date he can choose to.

laurieluvsit · Answer

Blowjobs are sex unless you're Bill Clinton... lol Of course,

KarinMcDonald · Answer

No I don't. I'm not a fan of giving blowjobs. It hurts my jaw, and I am not a big fan of how they end. I'd much prefer having oral performed on me!

mandyfire98 · Answer

Have I? Yes. Depends on the chemistry with the guy. It's not a way of saying thank you for the date but rather I'm turned on and want to do something sexual with him.

Delikatess · Answer

I've given head with no sex after a date but not to thank him for anything. I did it just because I felt for it and he were in to it as well.

QueenTaly · Answer

Yup 😌

KatherineJ · Answer

I give them when he’s been a good boy and I want to.

Boldy_Erin · Answer

I had a guy take me on a really expensive date. I knew I didn't want to sleep with him but felt bad he spent so much money. I gave him a blowjob in his car.

notwoke · Answer

usually not, but that would be awesome. Admittedly my patience for listening to endless drivel and pretending to care is not that great so this is probably a factor in my lack of success