Being a virgin is a turn on or off for you?

[Anonymous]

If you start dating someone and they tell you they're a virgin for religious reasons, what would you think / do?

[Edson]

If I were looking for a meaningful relationship I´d be really happy i found someone with that much integrity. I think it would be an incentive to get invested in the relationship more than a ¨turn on¨ otherwise it kind of defeats the purpose of finding someone of that character.

[jogak86017]

Neither really. If a girls a virgin it is an opportunity to go slow and gentle with her and she is at her tightest.
But if a girl is not a virgin, she knows what she's in for and you can experiment a little more!
So either is good!

[Lliam]

I'd immediately bail. First, I have no interest in religion and, second, it's stupid to place value on virginity. I don't want to be with someone who has sexual hang ups.

[Mellontikos]

ok boomer

[Lliam]

@Mellontikos, you twit. Get a brain cell. Also, it's probably about time you got laid. At 41 you're overdue.

[Mellontikos]

are they also religious, as in, the same religion? If not, why are you dating them?

[ava00]

Neither really

[lifeOnMars]

Guys want you to be as innocent as possible until you meet them.🤓

[ItsTheNephilim]

Not a turn off.

[Bhavin2184]

It's turn on for me that shows that person is waiting for right one.

[Dargil]

Determine through conversation whether she plans to be totally abstinent or is willing otherwise to walk the bases reserving only intercourse.
The former, I would move on. The latter, I would give it a try.

[Eridan]

They're letting a religious dogma control their life to the point that they're even afraid to have a sex life. I wouldn't call it a turn off, it's rather sad to be honest. I'd try to reason with them.

[MannMitAntworten]

I would think, “Mormon?” but say, “okay”. Then wonder where the two kids came from...

[ThiccNigro]

Wouldn't say it's necessarily a turn on but rather her be a virgin than someone who has a ton of bodies

[Thatsamazing]

"for religious reasons" So meaning that she's not going to be no-longer-a-virgin shortly after getting involved with me then? As in, she wants to stay a virgin? Bye.

[Ismoktrzzz]

3/4 marriages go down the toilet hun. So yo olive oil ass betta make a decision. U shortenin ya self U SHORTENIN YA SELF😩

[Dchrls78104]

Treasure and marry her, if we're compatible.

[Thisperson98]

If she is saving it for marriage, it is a turn off. But if she just wants to wait until she is comfortable that is fine.

[Cellestial]

A turn on

[COMMODOREII]

Being a virgin is not a turn off. Saying its for religious reasons is a major turn off.

[Shamalien]

Id think I better treat em right, they are worthy

[Nahid1707]

Any reason she is?

[7771999]

Turn on. But I'd feel even more uncomfortable trying to start anything that intimate with her

[In_Trance]

neither

[FrenchyRomain]

For religious reasons? I'm leaving.

[eywee]

Turn on for me ^^

[eywee]

But if she want to stay virgin until marriage, it's a No for me xP

[Asker]

What if she doesn't necessarily want to wait until marriage, but would need to really take her time to actually know you before doing anything.

[eywee]

Oh, in this case that's completly normal... I can be patient if she is interesting ^^

[B2281]

Not a turn off at all.

[Slim57]

Neither

[TheCloud2]

I don't care I'm a virgin too, except that I'm not religious.

[Anonymous]

The virgin part would be a turn on...
The religious part would make me leave.

[Anonymous]

That would mean they are likely waiting for marriage... as such, not gonna get any sex... I'd dump her if I don't get sex by 3rd date.

[Anonymous]

Being a virgin is a turn on. Saving virginity for marriage is a turn off.