Best comeback to a homophobic parent?

jaderosethorn Xper 4

I came out as bi last year my foster parents are both super homophobic. I have gone no contact with one and the other is about to be cut off as well. they were both toxic and abusive so I kinda want some verbal revenge.

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2 mo

I no longer live with this family but am in contact with the father

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Most Helpful Guys

Anonymous
2 mo
Just tell them that your sexuality has nothing to do with them and it isn't even their business anyway. Parents have one job, to love their child.
If they can't do that then they're failures.
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- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  I'm an adoptee at times I think they adopted me to "look good" in the eyes of the church.
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  If they're people who follow organized religion you probably can't get through to them. They're gonna look down on anyone who doesn't follow their faith and it's a difficult situation. It's probably just best that you get some space to live your life. It's unfortunate, but what else can you do?
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  Thanks
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- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  Good luck. Try not to let these frustrating experiences steer you towards drugs or alcohol addiction. You must feel unwanted and what you've been through isn't fair. It really is their problem and their loss. Love yourself, you deserve it.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  Thank you luckily I am being adopted by a close friends family who love me for me.
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  That's nice. I hope you can be in a positive situation, get a job eventually and gain some independence. I know women who were adopted. two of them passed away due to drugs and domestic violence, and the 3rd one is working, healthy, and keeping herself busy.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  I'm working on getting into college and hopefully when I graduate doing my dream job at the FBI ((forensic lab technician))
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  Kinda like Dexter, nice. LoL! My favorite show.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  Kinda in my new family my new dads brother does computer forensics so I'm keeping it in the family. Of my own free will of course.
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  Cool. That's a career that might actually be interesting.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  It's been my dream for so long I don't remember when I first started wanting it.
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  That's awesome. You're still young so don't be afraid to try different things and see where you fit. I had so many jobs that I don't remember them all, but they give you well rounded life experience.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  I'm also debating virology ((study of human viruses)) but gen education gives me plenty of time to decide
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  Well at least you have some ideas. At your age I worked at a honey bee factory, then I worked on a truck in the oilfield, then I was a janitor, then I worked as a guard at a jail, then as a courier, then at an an Airport etc. Do whatever your heart desires and enjoy.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  My new dad says the same thing but actively discourages the military ((he's a former marine))
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  I agree, I had the same talk with my son. I told him to stay away from wars. Governments fighting with each other over land, resources, control etc. is no reason to die. I told him to do anything else.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  My dad was in Afghanistan and Kuwait I have watch him fight with the VA to get what he's owed I have no wish to deal with that 🤣
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  Yeah, doesn't sound like a good deal. Position yourself to be happy, healthy and safe in your life if possible, that's my motto.
- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  Exactly
Berethor Master
2 mo
You can tell your foster parents that most girls are queer nowadays so it's pretty normal. :)
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- TheSpaceGnome
  2 mo
  Thats fake. Also there are like 20 versions of that with different results.

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Revvl6pro Xper 6
2 mo
Send them this video, and tell them you've been thinking about them, and hope they're doing well.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/O0_H3F84Yjk
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- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  Yeah that works they are from that generation as well.🤣
- Revvl6pro
  2 mo
  It's subtle, but I think they will get the message. Get your revenge, but don't be mean. Grin-fuck them, and they will hate it even more. lol
  
  Anyone can throw a punch, but then you're the bad person. Give them a nice grin fuck. lol

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Bricealan Guru
2 mo
Only you have to live YOUR life. Noone has to live with YOUR decisions, your lifestyle, your sexual preference. No one else.
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AviatorTom Master
2 mo
Best comeback... ignore them... just like they ignore you.
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Danny_dan92 Master
2 mo
Move out
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- jaderosethorn
  2 mo
  I no longer live with them I live with friends
- Danny_dan92
  2 mo
  Good
TheSpaceGnome Guru
2 mo
Tell them their opinion doesn't matter.
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boobliker Yoda
2 mo
your best out of that then, sorry for you thought.
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CuriousMufuxka Guru
2 mo
My only question is why?
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