I wouldn't worry about it. It doesn't say anything about you or her. You probably just were not in the right mood at the time. It takes a certain level of comfort with her and her with you before you'll be able to cum. If it takes a particular type of physical stimulation or behavior on her part, please don't be afraid to let her know what exactly you need.
0 0 0 0You're not the only one who doesn't like blow jobs. My boyfriend doesn't like it too, and told me before we had sex for the first time that he didn't want me to do it since it doesn't give him the stimulation that he needs. Just like you.
But you know what you do like, and that's what it is all about: finding something that works for you.0 0 0 0I can only think of one or two things.
Maybe she wasn't doing it right for you and maybe you were nervous seeing as it was your first. Because to answer your question my boyfriend doesn't think they are overrated and requests then constantly. Lol.0 0 0 0
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Try holding her head. Even lightly. Just feeling the dominance of thinking that you own her sexually and that you are using something as important as her head for nothing more than your sexual pleasure. Also if the girl uses just a bit of teeth and knows how to use her tongue. Squeezing just right between her tongue, teeth and top of mouth. This is awesome.
2 0 0 0You see I've never given a BJ before but I'd imagine that it would be *me* to be the dominant one. I mean yes I will be on my knees in front of this guy, but I'd be the one with his man hood in my mouth... where my teeth are :)
The hands on the head assert dominance. Since you then have control over her. You can push her head hard against your shaft, or lightly. You determine exactly how she is going to do it. But I suppose it is give and take. Since she could also bite your dick off. A lot of sexual acts are about men THINKING their in charge, but the woman in reality being the one who actually is lol.
lol exactly
Giving a great blowjob is an art form - if she has little experience, she's probably not very good at it... Good luck with the next one!
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10 13She did a terrible job it sounds like. so in other words she blew it?
4 0 0 0What drugs do you take? You think I'm teasing or joking. I'm dead serious
1 0 0 0seriously! or you and her have zero experience (mostly her) and nerves dont help... there is nothing like a amazing b/J, and the girls that are great at it are the girls that like to pleasure men or her man. I don't know if its a control kink, but I have gotten a couple which were from girls that pursued me not me chasing them, and the focus and passion they put into it almost was like they were getting off.
@norcali Why are you yelling at me? I'm female I give blow jobs and they work
lol I didn't mean to reply directly to you. so use to twitter i guess I don't know... but I think my response was pretty correct
Maybe your nerves didn't help. Maybe she wasn't as good as you were expecting or as she could've been.
0 0 0 0Lol same, I'm way over rated.
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I'm over rated, just like BJs are.
Why are you over rated?
Well it really depends on how good the girl is, but I also think guys overrate them. I really never get a good one with my girth.
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