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Boyfriend really enjoys suckling on my nipples? Is this a normal thing, opinions please?

Just to clarify, I'm a virgin. He knows I don't plan on having sex anytime soon... so it's not like he's doing this as a form of foreplay or anything to try and warm me up to have sex. He's very protective and knows and respects my boundaries. Anyway, usually when we're cuddling watching a film, we might kids a bit. Eventually he lowers his face to my breast area and will slip out one of my boobs, where he mostly suckles on my nipple. This can last for a good half hour. He doesn't kiss much, just sucks. I never know what to do when he's doing this? I just rest my hand on his head and run my fingers through his hair. But then I feel as if I'm nursing him! Don't get me wrong, I think it's extremely intimate when he does this and I feel as if we're bonding. We both really do want babies at some point, and both of us have been feeling broody at the moment! So maybe that's it. He always claimed to be more of an ass kinda man, but he seems to have fallen in love with my boobs. So, is this normal, I guess? Opinions welcome please :)
perfectly normal
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Not so normal to suckle, most men prefer to kiss
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He sees you as a maternal, mother of his children, as well as a partner
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He has lacked nurture in his life
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Most Helpful Guys

  • planning on having a baby, whoa whoa whoa, i would just have sex first before you start thinking about that, you don't want having a baby to be the reason for losing your virginity. But he may be sucking on your nipples because its the only sexual thing he is getting from you. Maybe he is frustrated with you making him wait, even the nicest of guys get frustrated with that, he probably does not want to tell you and sucking your nipple may be like a hint that he is getting tired of an innocent relationship and wants a more grown up one.

    • frankly, i think you need to have an honest conversation on where your relationship stands, he may really want sex but does not want to tell you, confronting him and getting him to talk is a good thing. Like i said, maybe he wants a more adult relationship and is tired of an innocent high school like one.

    • Well, it's too late anyway. We broke up. And yeah, he was VERY frustrated in the end. I think because we had stuck together for so long and I hadn't had Dec with him... and it never even paid off in the end didn't help.

    • trust me waiting too long will drive any guy mad, most men don't want a high school like relationship when they are adults, and sorry to say it but sex is part of an adult relationship. I am not saying you should be pressured into having sex really soon, but next time don't make him wait too long, this is just the cold truth

  • A half hour is a little lengthy lol. I feel like I would run out of saliva but It's pretty normal for like 5-10 min maybe?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've had guys do this too and its completely normal, guys love boobs, and for the most part it feels nice knowing he's into it. but for 30 mins? thats a but extensive, dont be afraid to say something, or just simply try to maneuver into a different position like making out or touching above clothes if you dont want it to get too far. he's not some alien and i think for the most part guys will agree on this.

  • It is normal. Men like to do all kinds of things to boobs, including suck on them.

    I understand why you might feel weird, though. If you like it, then just lie back, close your eyes, and enjoy it. You can do anything with your hands. Caress him all over or stroke him...

  • its normal and ur age is like 18-24 so u can't anyway nurse me as ur breast is not yet developed to breast feed him and for ur breast to develop to produce milk u should be preganent

    • My breasts are very developed... trust me.

    • how its not possible for ur age i mean ur breast is not fully developed its in the middle stage

    • NO. Biology teaches that a girls body is done fully developing when she is 21. Check it, it's fact. The middle stage of puberty occurs in the mid-teen years. I am well past the middle stage and fully mature. And you, quite frankly? Can't dispute that fact, or science for that matter.

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  • Most men enjoy sucking a woman's nipples as a part of foreplay but your lad's preoccupation and devotion to them would be quite abnormal if you had given him the okay to go further. Since you have not, I think he is only spending his leisure time grazing in his greenest pasture.

  • They are boobs. Anything we do to them besides hurting them is perfectly normal. what is the problem if you like it? It's not wrong to like it... He does it for both your pleasure. Just enjoy.

    "He always claimed to be more of an ass kinda man"
    He is going for what is available to him. I am sure if you made your ass available to him, he would find something to do with it. But you don't want to. Also he didn't say he was only an ass man. We all love boobs. Even women love boobs...

  • He was probably one of those kids who was breastfed until age six.

  • I thought this was like during sex just for a bit of foreplay until I read your description.

    THATS fucking weird.

    • It's not that weird.

    • weird was the wrong word, more like awkward in my opinion.

    • I guess.

  • I think he thinks you enjoy it.

  • he may just find your boobs comforting. when I was younger I did the same thing it gave me a feeling of security it wasn't always sexual. although when our kids were born I had to fight to get in there but then it was more sexual

  • He likes tits and giving them attention, but part of it is because he thinks you like it. Give him a reason to move onto another body part. Lift his face to yours for a kiss.

  • It doesn't necessarily have any connection with maternity. He could just really like your boobs in a sexual way. Yes, it's normal.

  • It is not that weird... guys love boobs! If he starts saying mama then freak-out!

  • That's completely normal. This is just trivial and you're really overthinking this.

  • It's perfectly normal.

    Ii like to watch my woman squirm and moan in pleasure as my tongue gets to work :-)
    I'm one of those guys who gets off when his woman does. I love seeing her face go through the various stages of passion and pleasure...
    Some men just enjoy the fact that he is the sole source for her pleasure and that in itself is an ego boost, but then again, some guys just love sucking on a woman's nipples and the immediate comfort of having your face buried in something so warm and welcoming... So many explanations... But mine is, i love watching a woman getting off, it's hot and lets me know i'm doing something right, and will heighten the enjoyment for me and her from my elevated confidence to please her... By going all out ;-) :-p

  • It'd be weird if he *didn't* do that.

  • OMG this is so funny! I "I never know what to do when he's doing this? I just rest my hand on his head and run my fingers through his hair. But then I feel as if I'm nursing him!"

    When I picture that..
    XD OMG I'M LAUGHING SO HARD..

    Don't worry though I think it's pretty normal.

    Omg that hit me so hard xD

    • Haha glad you found it funny :) :D!

  • I like it.

    • Why do you like it in particular?

    • Not totally sure?

  • It's normal. Everyone likes boobs.

  • very normal !

  • Half hour is a little OD I'd do it for a bit but then id stop because damn half hour lol

  • I love doing that too

  • Every man loves to suck nipples

  • Well 30 mins is a bit too much... I like biting her ass cheeks is that normal?

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