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Sexual Health Boyfriend takes nude pictures of me while I'm asleep. Is this normal? What should I do?
YunaSongLeague Xper 3
Alrighty, so like the title says, my boyfriend of almost 7 months took pictures of me while I was sleeping last night. I sometimes sleep naked but this time, I was fully clothed. I'm also a really light sleeper so I can wake up to almost anything, he obviously doesn't know that. Anyways, I woke up to him trying to take off my shorts and panties. I didn't really mind because he'll sometimes get really horny at night and wake me up for sex by going down on me. I decided to pretend to sleep to see what he would do. So after he took off my clothes, he started to finger me and my ass, which again I don't mind. But then, he stopped and I heard him fumble around. After, I heard the sound of his phone being unlocked and a snap. I guess he turned down the volume after that because I couldn't hear any more snaps; but, he would lift up my ass to take close up shots down there. I still pretended to be asleep because I was freaking out about how to react and what I would say if I woke up to him taking pictures of me nude while I was "unconscious". This is honestly the first time I've caught him and I don't know how many times he's done this before. I also don't know what he's doing with those pictures too and if they are just close ups of my vagina and ass or if it has my face and everything. I honestly wouldn't mind him taking pictures of me naked as long as I give him consent and I get to actually see the pictures and choose which ones he gets to keep. (I know, stupid. But, I'm as sexually adventurous as he is). Anyways, I really like him but I don't know if I trust him anymore just because he's doing this without my knowledge or consent. I just wanna know if this is normal because this is my first real relationship. I don't know what to do or how to confront him. I also just want to let you guys know that we're both 19, so I don't think there will be any big legal issue unless he shares the pictures. I don't know, what's your guys' opinion?
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 23Personally I would confront him about it. But be honest and tell him what you have told us, about you and being photographed. It is not normal behaviour that someone would take pictures of an unconscious naked woman. But, find out what he is doing with the pictures more than anything. Because once something is on the internet. It will never go away.
Not normal. Probably posting/trading them online
Sounds pretty creepy to me!
Nope
What kind of pics? Be specific
If you read it, it clearly says what he'd taking pictures of
Someone needs a course in how to read!
No that's super weird and a violation of ur privacy and well dignity
Kick his ass
I'd just jack off to them.. wouldn't show nobody
What a real Perve..
probably not, but, i mean, if you don't mind it..
Definitely not okay! Complete violation of consent! I'd give him the boot if it were me. Zero trust.
Those pis could be all over the internet by now...
Either way, doing anything without consent is not only damn creepy, it's an invasion of privacy, trust, and respect. Who knows how many times he's done this, and just think, this could have gone on for years without you even knowing about it!
Creepy as fuck...
Definitely creepy. Is he Indian?
You can not trust him, bc he didn't ask you and did it secret.
The same way he might later post them anywhere.
Absolutely not. You aren't aware or have consented to these images. He needs reporting