it depends on what kind of things and how many different things he's pushing. But really the bottom line is if you're not comfortable with it he needs to respect that. I mean I learned a few little things that my ex wife ended up liking a lot. she was not the kinky type at all so when i introduced her to a little pussy spanking first thing she says is hey ! smack smack smack hey ! "she is already wet AF" stop where did you learn that. my reply I don't know "shrug"spank smack smack and that was it, smacked her into an orgasm and then proceeded to have some great sex she never asked me gain where i learned it and i think for her if she knew it may have tainted it for her somehow. she w never into porn and for me it was now and then. if she was more of a kink i think I would have tried other things but honestly like i aid she would not be comfortable with certain things and i did not try to push it and neither should your man. but that n=being said at least try to have an open mind and think about it maybe even try a little something but have a clear understanding that if you try something and it not working out, he needs to stop immediately when you say to and not even try to push it on inch.
If porn is all he knows he will use that as a reference for things he wants to try. If he has never had any sexual encounters outside of porn it will be his ideal fantasy and idea of sex which is not healthy.
It's one thing to introduce something new like positions for foreplay and sex, but if it is something more wild like kinks and fetishes, that's a problem.
If you aren't comfortable with it you need to voice it and enforce your boundaries. You should never do something you are not comfortable doing
I guess it is kind of normal in this generation, but porn is only concerned with how it looks rather than if it's actually pleasurable. I try to keep an open mind and will try anything not too crazy at least once to see if maybe I like it, but if you don't want to he can't *force* you and shouldn't try. But sex is about keeping an open mind, so maybe start small and try this or that, who knows, maybe you'll end up liking it, as long as you are comfortable, you should be enjoying the experience as much as he is.
i'm sure most things come from porn... i'll do anything blowjob but i guess not everything now that i think about it... rimming ass licking is gross but it definitely comes from porn... use your disgression... a man does need blowjobs along with other things... i think that's the big one a lot of girls don't want to swallow cum but it's pretty obvious they want that and do get it... far as rimming and skull fucking that's going too far
Yeah I’ve done normal bj stuff to him and he likes it but he says I’m not enthusiastic when I go down on him... and sometimes I’m not because I’m not that experienced either, but I’m definitely doing more now than when we first got together. He wants me to swallow but I’m not sure about it yet, he wants to try but Im hesitant... he has given me a facial and wants to do it again
My first time before swallowing I was nervous snd unsure about it at first... then I did it and realized it wasn't as bad as I thought. My first facial was by accident but it was such a surprise and actually aroused me. I do them from time to time still
if you want a good relationship you may have to do that but you have to be sure about him... overall it's a breeze to swallow infact if you take him deep you may never have to actually taste his cum... a facial may seem degrading but that's your call of course.
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Why do you think they are often referred to as "Training Films"? All those interesting positions and how to do them are often learned from reading or watching porn. Fixated with porn? You are the best one to know whether he is or not... if you always see him watching porn, more than likely he is obsessed... if it is just now and then, probably not.
Spices up your Sex Life. You decide if you Wish to Do this. Some guys may go Overboard with it and it Becomes an Obsession. Nice thing Though, He includes you here. Some guys Do things Alone and Leave their Mate Out of it. Like just Doing a Solo act.:((xx
I don't feel there is anything wrong with it. But it should be a two way street when it comes to talking openly and honoring each other's limitations as to what to try. Finding common ground and experimenting sexually I think keeps the love fires burning bright in a relationship if both are on the same page.
That's kinda how I got into liking porn. He was candidly insistent. I gave in. Therefore, I can also blame myself because I "enabled" him. After getting used to his "directorial creativeness" after many years, porn became a significant part of our lives. We both find it fun recording ourselves and I'm not ashamed to admit I enjoy starring in our own "productions" with him. :)
İf you have any video about it, I like to see ☺️
to some extent it is but don't let him get too wild unless you want the things he's doing
also i think you're allowed to say "porn" on here
It's normal, it means that he still have time for you, but you don't need to do everything, in fact even some porn actresses don't do anal and other crazy stuff, it' okay if you have some standards.
Totally normal. All guys are like that
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@OmNomaly I didn't say it was a bad thing.
Its quite a common situation But you should never ever do anything you are uncomfortable or really don't want to it then that should be the end of it
It's normal to draw inspiration from porn, but never okay to pressure someone to break their boundaries.
Very normal and very common
sadly this has become normal but its up to you if you want to do things or not so dont let him pressure you
It's normal that he wants to try new things. It's normal as well that you're reluctant of these things, or not into it.
No it's not normal unless he's addicted to porn. Porn usually has fake acts of pleasure that are not pleasurable at all.
He says it’s from watching it too much, when he was younger. He doesn’t watch it any more but maybe he was addicted...
I think he still watched it and is addicted to porn. Don't let him act anything out with you and get free of him.
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It depends what it is but yeah if you see something in porn you want to try it's normal to show it to your partner.
Yeah its fun but I would say a lot of what is done in pprn is done for the viewer rather than the actors pleasure.
Me personally. I think he's far too fixated on porn.
Is there a way to change him or not really?
I would discuss it with him if it bothers you. Just make sure that you are both in a good mood and the right mindset. If it becomes too much and one of you is getting frustrated I would ask that you guys take a break from discussing it. That way you both have level heads. If he agrees that he should change and stop looking at porn so much and focus on you. Then hold him accountable for his words. Let his actions show you that he is willing to work on that portion of your relationship. If you reciprocate with him when he normally asks for sex, I see a few possible problems: You are having sex too much and he is bored with it. Your sex drive isn't as high as his. He could be overly focused on the sexual part of your relationship. (If so try and have some at home dates or something. Where you two can do something where it doesn't turn into sex. redisoover eachother and why you fell in love with one another) These are just some issues that may be happening, named off of the top of my head. Definitely discuss your concerns with your partner though.
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It is normal to want to experiment and try things he's seen and it is also possible to be too fixated on porn but I don't know if he is. I can't speak from experience but what they do in porn is probably not that fun in practice, porn is more about how it looks on camera then how it actually feels to do.
Very normal
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