Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend wants to have a threesome with another guy, he’s not into guys but basically he wants to see me being pleasured by another guy, he gets off on that he said. I’ve never done anything like that before, and the thought of it doesn’t really turn me on. I love my boyfriend a lot and he’s the only one I want but I don’t want to disappoint him and not do this for him.
We’ve been talking about it for months but I think he really does want to do it and my worry is if I don’t he will eventually get bored or find someone else kinkier. he said a few of his friends do it and other couples, he said we’re running out of kinky things to do. I’m worried I’m not kinky enough for him. What do I do?
Boyfriend wants to have a threesome, what do I do?
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19 46I think you should let him know you're not interested and go from there. Disinterest in certain kinks doesn't mean you're not "kinky enough," whatever that means.
You don’t ever have to do something just because he wants to.
Sit down together with him and read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan
do you want to have a threesome?
No guy/girl is Worth doing something You are not comfortable with. If he leaves you, that’s on him. Don’t ever think it is your fault.
Yikes...
Here's some shocking info... you're NOT kinky enough, for HIM, but you're fine, FOR YOU!! But that's not really the issue here. If you go ahead and do this thing to please him, but you're not into it, the whole thing will be a disaster. Then you'll end up in the same place - him wanting to satisfy his desires, and you being unable or unwilling to. The answer is simple... you don't desire the things he does. So, you either have to let him have it with others and live with it, you not included, or move on. I doubt he can just say "ok, I won't do it, or want it, if you don't". He'll always want it, and if you don't give it to him, he'll do it behind your back. Sorry, but that's the hard line.
Three reasons why you should say no.
1. It doesn't turn you on.
2. If you think you aren't kinky enough for him, than maybe its time to move on.
3. If you feel pressured, than just say no for now.
Break up with him. He doesn't respect you or your relationship with him.
He does he says it’s up to me and what I want but I feel guilty saying no because I know he prob does want it and In the future he will, I feel like I’m being boring by saying no
If your boyfriend had a fleshlight/pocket pussy would he let his friends borrow it?
It sounds like you would be much happier with a man who was only into you and vice versa. There is no reason to put your self at risk at all. You have plenty of wonderful years ahead of you to enjoy a healthy and happy relationship
If you will both enjoy it and it will make him happy why not?
If you don’t want to do that you shouldn’t. Dangerous to a relationship. There is so much to explore together. Lots of kinky things you can explore together. I would talk with him
I think you should try. But find your partner
He’s on the down low. He been sleeping with other men. Leave his ass.
Just say, you find the other guy and see what he says. He sounds like a selfish prick.
Do it they're so much fun ^_^
I think if you fuck another guy in front of him seeing
how you may be enjoying it the moans screams power
of your orgasms and how many he will regret it
very Quickly
If you do it, its 90% chance the beginning of the end of your relationship. Men sometimes get an idea of stuff like this in their head but forget they are going to devalue you afterwards. Id say maybe 20% chance its over if you dont do it and 90% over if you do.
Also to consider if you do this and it doesn't work out, most normal men will never accept you as a serious relationship if they ever even had a guess youd done something like this. Just saying this has more than just your relationship at stake.
Tell him that you love him and that you are not comfortable being with another guy. If he wants to bring in another guy. He will need to take care of the other guy himself and that you would be happy to watch!
Don’t do something that you are not comfortable doing to please someone else. Regardless of who they might be!
Threesomes are immoral af
Be honest with him, it can mess up.