Bye bye to my sex life?
I try and try to initiate sex and he seems uninterested. He says he’s tired and has a lot going on but I catch him every now and then watching porn. I don’t get it. I’m not bad looking at all! I know he’s not cheating. I don't know what’s going on and when I bring up our nonexistent sex life he gets defensive. We’ve had sex 2 times in 3 months. It’s crazy. There’s not affection cause that’s just not him but I feel like I’m getting nothing. He said I’m needy but I have to get something in order for me to be needy and I literally get nothing. It feels like we are great coparenting friends. I feel lonely and I tell him it’s the lack of sex, lack of affection, all of it. He doesn’t work. So it’s not like he’s consumed by work. I work and still want affection at the end of the day.
It’s like he doesn’t fear I may look elsewhere. I already think about being with other people cause he gives me nothing. We been together 8 years and it’s like …. I just don’t get it.
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