Can I get upset at my boyfriend looking at onlyfans models?

I had a look on my boyfriends visited links on Instagram and seen he has been looking at onlyfans models on Instagram.

We have discussed this in the past, when he followed an onlyfans model after me telling him my views on it etc and I let him know again it made me upset and uncomfortable.

I know some people don’t see the big deal in it, but for me I’m upset because I have communicated to him multiple times that it makes me uncomfortable, but he still looks them up etc.

I have said to him that if this is something he enjoys doing that it’s okay but I’m just not comfortable being in a relationship with someone that does it and there would be no hard feelings. But he insisted that’s not the case and he would feel uncomfortable if I was doing the same with males.

Im fine with him watching porn and accept he will find other people attractive but acting on it and actively searching and digging around these models im not okay with.

Do I cut things off?
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  • no problem

  • If he does not accept your feeling as valid, he might be a boy but he is not a friend.

  • You can, but, isn't it silly to

  • Sure, but why?

  • Yes, you can be upset for any reason. And yes I’d say he should care that you don’t like this behavior.

  • No. It's just harmless fun

  • I don't see it as any different from porn, or the dudes you follow on instagram.

    As long as you both know it's not real, what's the issue?

  • Why, how does he go home to? Who does hw sleep with. Only fans is nothing but photos.

  • Obviously you're right to be upset. You're clearly not enough for him so maybe time to move on

  • If you don't like it you have the right to say enough.

  • Oh yeah😊😊

  • Become one, tell him you will quit when he does

  • Sure you can. But who cares

  • I bet he was the one who hit on you


  • Think not no harm in looking

  • It’s a little controlling... I mean you are entitled to your preferences, but it seems a silly reason to break up. OF stars are just self employed pornstars