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Can you c*m without touching yourself and/or being touched?

Masturbation is very rare for me. I only touch myself down there during phone sex and a lot of the times not even then. I started watching soft porn late nights the summer after 6th grade as if it was just another movie. But i never masturbated. I had sex for the first time and not exactly by choice when i was in 8th grade. But still, i never masturbated. I tried phone sex for the first time in 11th grade and i squirted from his words alone. But still, i didn't masturbate.
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I masturbated for the first time when i was two months from turning 21. It became extremely addicting and i didn't even need porn or anything. I’d just close my eyes and go at it. I didn't like who i’d become so i stopped masturbating after doing it 3 months straight, every day, not including menstrual weeks. That Summer, i watched some harcore tumblr vids of people cumming while playing with their nipples. So nipple play became my thing for the next 2 years. I could cum from that alone and didn't need to masturbate.
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Afterwhile, i got tired of that and reverted to just focusing on sound. With the right sounds, and sound alone, I can orgasm like crazy and repeatedly. On occasion, I like to lie on my back and grind into my sheets while slowly opening and closing my thighs. I’ll occasionally give the nipple a flick or lick or two if i want to cum faster like within 5 mins tops. But in general, I just dont need to masturbate unless I’m trying to tease someone.
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Mentalgasms have been my thing for a while now. My sex drive isn't that high unless i’m legit having sex (in which I then can't bring myself to stop unless I’m being thrown off.) I dont even watch porn as much anymore. Sometimes twice a week, other times thrice a month. But Do you in general need to masturbate/have sex/get oral to cum or can you also cum from just seeing/hearing things?
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I’ve always called it mentalgasm. You just basically need to hear/see something that turns you on so much that you just release instantly. Its such a crazy explosive feeling. And you dont just feel it down there but in your brain as well kinda like a good brain freeze. Its cool to know that some of you can as well. Guess its not so rare after all 🙌
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  • I can get really close and in that moment I feel like it's possible I just need a little more but I've never actually cum without some form of stimulation ^^ I need something to get over the hump.

    • At least you came close

    • lol yes ^^

  • Wow Dizzy. You gave a very descriptive account of your sexual response. It sounds amazing. For me, except for one ejaculation "accident" I had when I was 19, I have to have some kind of physical stimulation (either myself or a partner) to cum.

    • Thank you :) and i understand

  • That's pretty intense.

    I admire your discovery of touchless orgasm. I think it's a bit different for men, but the same in the idea that being turned on can cause things to get hyper-sensitive if engorged enough. I experimented with the mental orgasm in my early 20's, i came close once, but I just couldn't get there. But good for you, glad you found your happy place :)

    • For the time being lol

  • I haven't been able to cum without touching myself, though I have tried a few times. Some guys can, though.

    There's a series of pictures showing a male ejaculation without touching on Wikipedia here:
    ttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ejaculation#/media/File:Ejaculation_educational_seq.png

    • Tea some of my exes could and some of the guys below

  • Yeap vibratory. But I'd you mean nothing adding exterior sensations, I have no clue

    • Yea i mean no touching. Just sight or sound

    • Ah gotcha. No idea

    • Lol read my paragraphs above when you get a chance

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  • Once, just once, I was giving a girl oral and got so aroused, I started humping the floor. And... Voila!

    • Damn

  • No. Unfortunately I can’t. Unless you count humping things. That’s an amazing ability girl 😊.

    • Lol no i dont count that haha

  • never tried that so I don’t know, but I kinda doubt it… lmao

    • I had to train myself slowly. I went from masturbating to not masturbating then to nipple play then no nipple play to just sight/sound

    • I can’t see how that would be easy so it’s actually quite impressive and I’m sure it took a lot of patience lol… which I do not have

    • Lol lots of patience and practice. Check my paragraphs above

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  • I've definitely heard about it but I can't do it but definitely hearing does the trick instead of watching something the nipples are sensitive part I discovered that and I bet I could cum but I just haven't tried it like it would really hard but I know it's possible especially for women but there's are more sensitive

    • You have to be into it so i understand

    • I mean I'm definitely into it I just haven't done it to the point where I cum jus from just nipple play I discovered I definitely cum a lot harder when I play with them as I'm cumin

    • Exactly. I cum much harder from nipple play because Nipples are closer to the brain and stimulate you harder and faster than the clit or tip of the dick

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  • No need help

    • It’ll cum

    • Don't get me wrong I can come by masturbating no problem but that would be touching myself so actually coming without someone touching me or touching myself that ain't going to happen I have to have someone touch me or touch myself to come

  • I have done this before.

    • Niiice

  • I don't think I have tried or had the patience to. I can try. I say try, not do XD

    • Hahaha

  • Hmm don't think so at least it's never happened.

    • In due time

    • *shrugs* maybe, we'll see.

  • I've had a few orgasms during college days without touching. Just by audio. My mind has been cluttered with a lot stuff since then.

    Woman you got me a huge boner and masturbating with just your text, I am just wondering how hot phone sex with you will be, multiple orgasms, eh?

    • Yes audio porn is what really used to get me. I dont need to see a vid.

  • I do, in a sexy situation with lots of flirting. I came in my cycle shorts after my riding lady friend flirted with me and she had a very sexy kit on. My mind was racing and while sitting down she put her hand on my tights (my upper leg) she saw me come and must say that it was so sexy😍😍

    • Thats so mf hot

    • It was so nice, and I came very heavily. Just felt sooo sexy and my cycling buddy also vetting sooo horny while watching. I could not help making a soft moan while it pumped out😍😍😍

  • Nope I can't.

    I have to either think about, touch, or see nice boobs to get hard, and if my dick isn't touched, it either doesn't stay hard for long because the urge fades as I start to think about non sexual stuff, or starts to hurt if it does stay hard for too long (until it's touched).

    A prolonged boner that isn't getting rubbed is torture tbh.

    • Lol blue balls

    • I've never had it get that bad lol, I have had to cum like 7 times in an hour on occasion though to get a boner to go away so I didn't end up blue balled xD

    • Most of the time though its 1-2 times a day.

  • technically everyone can. many just can't while awake. wet dreams. sex is more mental than most people realize.

  • I cannot, unfortunately. I've heard a lot of females can, but I don't know about males.

    • My exes could. You just need practice

    • It's fine. I don't really care about cumming unless I'm playing with myself.

  • That's super cool that you can do that! And no, I have never done it. I don't even know how I would

    • It takes patience and a sense of peace

    • I tried once. Didn't work for me

  • I don’t think I am touching myself when I have an orgasm from a dream but when I’m awake I have to be touched.

    • I get it

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