Can you write some reason why you would consider saying no to another person for sex?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

One of the most important things that ever happened to me was when a girl she started flirting with me and I was being a smart-ass and I was just flirting back joking with her and she started to touch me and she was verbally gross is all the only word I can think of and she would touch me little bit more the Lord I would say hey please don't do that you know and in that moment I got to learn exactly what a girl goes through when a guy touches her and she doesn't want to be touched and I started to get pissed off because she would not let up that has happened to me three times in my life and all three times my stomach just went into big knots two times I left and the one time the girl left that's because we are in my house but that's one reason because I didn't want to be touched I'm not interested I'm not just going to go fuck somebody because they want me to I have to like the person I mean really like the person that's one reason another reason is because I know it's not going to work another reason has been because they were married I'm sure there's a couple more but those were the most important reasons anyway

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I wasn't single/available.
They weren't single (I don't get involved with people already in a relationship, period).
I didn't find them attractive.
I believed they were in love/infatuated with me and I didn't feel the same.
I had reason to believe they were crazy/psycho/stalkers.
I had reason to believe they might have an STD, or were trying to get pregnant.
For whatever reason, I just didn't want to have sex (perhaps no privacy available?).
They were an ex of a close friend, and I hadn't talked to the friend about it first (aka Bro Code).
They were drunk/high and unable to consent.

Those are the things that come to me off the top of my head. They aren't in any particular order.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

Close relative. Poor hygiene. Too old/young. Small dick. Too fat or ugly. Poor reputation.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Stink, body odor they are ugly they have a rep for having STDs no connection between us

PrettyPriya · Answer

I can list lots. What is the context of the situation?

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

If he is grossing me out, giving seriously bad vibes.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If im not in love with them

OlderAndWiser · Answer

1. No to any male. 2. No to any person who is married, engaged, or in a serious relationship. 3. No to any person who is not my significant other.

SnakeBoop · Answer

"no" is a complete sentence.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

There are loads.

the basic one is you don’t need a reason, it’s about consent and either person saying no should be respected every time.

for me big one is not having an emotional connection with the other person

if either of us are not single

if I don’t feel like it.

if I don’t like them for whatever reason

etc

RobT312 · Answer

Yes. If there isn’t a connection then I’d say no. Either physical or mental connection

Flower7 · Answer

Because I don’t like him.

MrCommodore · Answer

If I don't find her attractive or don't see her as potentially girlfriend material. I don't do random hookups for sex only.

summiter · Answer

I would cause I am married. But when I was single there werenot too many reasons cause sex sure was better then jerking off.

integrale77 · Answer

My girlfriend would chop my dick off

Harleigh90 · Answer

You don't need a reason. No is no. You don't need to explain yourself

EmmaMary · Answer

None whatsoever... No  means quite simply  NO .

IAMNathanael · Answer

Because I'm not married. And If I had a wife I stay faithful to my wife.

RedStiletto88 · Answer

I’ve done a number of sex related things for money but not sex itself as that is a much more intimate act meant with someone I love.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Can think of a load of reasons Not attracted to her  No connection with her Wrong personality for my liking She's a skank  Too far out of my accepted age group Looks like a cheap hoe Etc etc

aintnocandle · Answer

1) I’m not attracted to them

slatyb · Answer

Paternity.
STDs.
The person might not leave when it’s over.

A high-priced escort explained why highly attractive men used her services since they could have any of thousands of women. “They don’t pay me to show up. They pay me to leave.”

AviatorTom · Answer

I'll give you a couple reasons:

1. The other person is a guy. I'm straight.
2. The other person is coughing and hacking away with a terrible, probably fatal, disease
3. The other person is a smoker... I hate that!
4. And maybe most important... the other person is married or in a serious committed relationship.

jayyohh · Answer

Some would say no if they knew they were involved with someone else on any level, no chemistry, no attraction.  But you can say no just because it's no. Consent is sexy 🥵

HighValue · Answer

If I am not in a long term relationship with her then I certainly wouldn't have sex with her.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Have a boyfriend don’t do hookups anymore just not interested. Even when I was single I turned down most people who just wanted sex.

RealMarek · Answer

Because I’m not in a committed, loving relationship with the person and don’t want to take the risks associated with casual sex.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

1. He's gay.
2. She's got a disease I don't want to catch.
3. I'm not the least bit attracted to her.
4. She's a raging bitch.
5. She believes in shit that's been proven to be bullshit.
6. She uses hard drugs and/or is a heavy boozer.
7. She's a smoker.
8. She's not very smart.
9. She prefers The Rolling Stones over The Beatles!!

helva · Answer

When not attracted to that person.

exitseven · Answer

If I was so sore from having non stop sex with them I just can't go again.

Seangreen · Answer

Because I'm tired because I might have just jerked off because I'm in a bad mood because I'm pissed off at the person because maybe I haven't showered and I just feel gross maybe because I don't want to be touched at the moment maybe because I got something else on my mind and it's distracting me from everything else there's a lot of reasons for a lot of things and sex is not the most important thing in the world

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I can't be bothered to. I don't fancy them.

loveslongnails · Answer

Yes - if a guy asks me ! Or if I'm not attracted to the girl or think she might be a good source for std's !!

Iron_Man · Answer

There’s many different reasons

Ineverquit · Answer

she charged to much maybe

Wise4myage · Answer

I'm not sexually attracted to her.

jahaims · Answer

I don't love them

Surely · Answer

No attraction. Possibility of STD’s. No birth control available. Druggie. Hanging with bad characters. Maybe you are the only person that they haven’t yet had sex with in town!

Shortnessofbreath · Answer

Too drunk.

Twalli · Answer

I am in a relationship

Hanrej · Answer

Where do I begin...
1. Unexpressed expectations or at least my assumption that there's going to be Unexpressed expectations.
2. My interest is focused on somone else.
3. I find the way she reasons to be misandrist.
4. Fear of consequenses. There always are consequenses.
5. I don't find the person hot and don't want to bother with all the work hooking up with that person only for there to be no real passion in the action.

I can probably think of many more.

noohair · Answer

My ex wanted to have sex and I said no.

OddBeMe · Answer

I’m married.

REDHOTLINE · Answer

I dont like her.

2021biguy · Answer

I have to be in relationship with her, no random hook ups.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Tired from working is probably the only reason but even then I try to make it work

MJtheCoach · Answer

She’s annoying or she’s married she’s disgusting she pisses me off she wants me to go through a lot of loopholes before I get it she has a very irritating personality these things absolutely trust me off and I’ll go home

Bdsmaster · Answer

I have a very simple reason for that, I don't like them or there attitude.

Gia013100 · Answer

I’m not into them.

JohnQue · Answer

He's a guy. I'm not attracted to her. She's too young.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

1- She has hair on her face, legs, butt, underarms
2- She has big feet
3- She has NO ass
4- She has no lips (really thin)
5- She has bad breath
6- She is shorter then 5 feet
7- She has skid marks inside her panties
8- She only takes a bath/shower once a week
9- She burps and farts in public
10- She tells me she won't lick my balls when sucking my cock

SmilesAintAgirl14 · Answer

because I care about myself.

Anonymous · Answer

They have bad hygiene They have a bad body  I didn’t like their face

Anonymous · Answer

they have an std, has weird kinks, not sexually attracted/compatible.

Anonymous · Answer

because they're ugly looking, their body is fat or unattractive, they have ugly areolas or big areolas, they're a man hater, they talk shit about men, they're face is ugly, their personality is just awful

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