Could you have sex with someone, who you didn't feel chemistry with?

Could you have sex with them multiple times and hang out with them?
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  • If you are asking about having some sexy times with a guy and felt a connection and then he bounced and are wondering wtf... yes some guys look connected and yet they are not.

    Also depends on what you mean by chemistry... sexual chemistry... romantic chemistry. Yes some people sometimes just need to scratch an itch. Just needs to be upfront.

Most Helpful Guy

  • That's not a straight answer Some people only care about the sex so chemistry doesn't come into it Those who do care about Chemistry could still have sex but it might not be successful at the end Thes people would hope the chemistry will be there

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope.
    Chemistry is different than loving their body, I think. Or having some doubts about their personality. That word chemistry suggests a spark, a desire, a draw, a pull towards them. And for me, that is absolute necessity.

  • Nope. Not at all.

    It's no better than being paid for sex in my eyes as well, prostitutes don't really need to feel anything for the guy do they?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No I can't have sex with someone I do not love

  • If we didn't have at least physical chemistry, then we wouldn't be having sex multiple times

  • yes... sex is sex, and love is love... I have sex for the fun of it and dont need an emotional tie to feel good about it.

  • Yes, but only out of sheer loneliness. It's not good sex, but it'd get the job done.

  • Not really as my dick-brain does that initial thinking-part and it will determine if there is that fundamental chemistry or not worthy of sex. Higher-level chemistry, to which I think you mostly refer, is discovered with time.

  • Yup probably could sex multiple times might take longer if there's no chemistry the refractory period would be longer with less drive for going again.

  • No. What's the point?

  • It's not much of a concern to me, compatibility is more important, chemistry can be deceiving.

  • I'm guessing it's all about great customer service LMAO or at least I assume that's how most prostitutes would view work...

  • Nope

  • Probably yeah if it's just for fun

  • Once or twice maybe, I'd hang on a little longer if she was a complete freak in bed.

  • If I liked them personally, yes I could.

  • Yeah.

  • As for me no.
    I can't get an erection.

  • Nopes, luckily

  • Nope chemistry and a connection is a must for anything like that for me.

  • Yea i have had that

  • I did it with two guys, the regret is real. Not my style

  • Yes and have. As for hanging out, if pillow talk falls under hanging out then I guess that too. However, I don’t mix a purely lascivious arrangement with anything beyond it being purely for sex.

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