Could you have sex with someone, who you didn't feel chemistry with?

Question

Could you have sex with them multiple times and hang out with them?

On_the_other_hand · Accepted Answer

If you are asking about having some sexy times with a guy and felt a connection and then he bounced and are wondering wtf... yes some guys look connected and yet they are not.

Also depends on what you mean by chemistry... sexual chemistry... romantic chemistry. Yes some people sometimes just need to scratch an itch. Just needs to be upfront.

triff · Accepted Answer

That's not a straight answer Some people only care about the sex so chemistry doesn't come into it Those who do care about Chemistry could still have sex but it might not be successful at the end Thes people would hope the chemistry will be there

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Nope.
Chemistry is different than loving their body, I think. Or having some doubts about their personality. That word chemistry suggests a spark, a desire, a draw, a pull towards them. And for me, that is absolute necessity.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Nope. Not at all.  It's no better than being paid for sex in my eyes as well, prostitutes don't really need to feel anything for the guy do they?

meetkitty123 · Answer

No I can't have sex with someone I do not love

Zannika02 · Answer

If we didn't have at least physical chemistry, then we wouldn't be having sex multiple times

centerline · Answer

yes... sex is sex, and love is love... I have sex for the fun of it and dont need an emotional tie to feel good about it.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes, but only out of sheer loneliness. It's not good sex, but it'd get the job done.

blank_expression · Answer

Not really as my dick-brain does that initial thinking-part and it will determine if there is that fundamental chemistry or not worthy of sex. Higher-level chemistry, to which I think you mostly refer, is discovered with time.

integrale77 · Answer

Yup probably could sex multiple times might take longer if there's no chemistry the refractory period would be longer with less drive for going again.

BlueScorpio · Answer

No. What's the point?

Berethor · Answer

It's not much of a concern to me, compatibility is more important, chemistry can be deceiving.

KloexJayne · Answer

I'm guessing it's all about great customer service LMAO or at least I assume that's how most prostitutes would view work...

PiffDust · Answer

Nope

Sparkysparkiguesslol · Answer

Probably yeah if it's just for fun

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Once or twice maybe, I'd hang on a little longer if she was a complete freak in bed.

Dargil · Answer

If I liked them personally, yes I could.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Yeah.

Chiefbenttwig · Answer

As for me no. I can't get an erection.

JosyJosy · Answer

Nopes, luckily

Phoenix98 · Answer

Nope chemistry and a connection is a must for anything like that for me.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yea i have had that

yamajazaki · Answer

I did it with two guys, the regret is real. Not my style

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Yes and have. As for hanging out, if pillow talk falls under hanging out then I guess that too. However, I don’t mix a purely lascivious arrangement with anything beyond it being purely for sex.

Jersey2 · Answer

Yup... vagina.

AmeerX · Answer

Of course not

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No. .

1amcurious · Answer

I dont think I can

Wise4myage · Answer

I could see myself having a one night stand in this situation.

citygawdess · Answer

maybe a one night stand? but not multiple hook ups or hang out with them. it would just be awkward after the first time knowing that there was no chemistry between us.