I lost my virginity to another virgin so it was pretty great since we were on the same level and took things slow. Hard to even imagine losing it to someone that was experienced like I don't think I would have liked that at all just cause of the imbalance of experience.
If you lost it to someone who was experienced was it awkward or no?
Love this question. Brings back awesome memories :)
She was not a virgin - had been with one other guy - but it was not awkward and I've been forever grateful who it was.
Believe it or not lol... I was a bit of a late bloomer. Was 19; almost 20 - and we went to the same college. Dated for a month or so before it happened and ended up dating for 5 years (last 2 years of school plus the next 3).
She wanted to get married... I was not ready... and while our relationship was great, it had wild swings fueled by my stubborn Irish heritage (and immaturity) and her hot tempered Italian roots lol.
30+ years later, we still stay in touch. We'll wish each other happy birthdays and holidays AND AND AND burned in my HD quality memory bank are dozens and dozens of awesome sexual experiences with her. Man oh man we had some fun ha! :)
P. S. A few months after we broke up, she started dating a guy. Got married a year or so later... they ended up in a nasty divorce after about 10 years. She's been single (and happy from what I can tell) since.
P. P. S. As for me, I met my future wife about 4 years after the breakup. And we've been married for 25+ years. So I do believe my "not being ready" gut was correct :)
Awh that's a cute story. Good thing you waited for the right one then
@apple1996 I agree :)
I lost mine to my first girlfriend when I was 16. She was 14 and had been in one, short relationship before we met, so she wasn't a virgin. She was also on the pill.
She sort of initiated our relationship and we went steady for a few weeks.
I doubt if she knew I was a virgin because I acted cool and had cool friends.
One night she invited me into the house trailer in their back yard. We had to be quiet and keep the lights off but there was light coming through the windows.
Seeing and touching a naked woman for the first time was a dream come true. We were both super horny.
We kissed and hugged and fondled each other for quite a while. When I put my hand between her legs, I was surprised by the gooey, squishiness. That's how much I knew about sex before then. LOL All I knew from sex ed was that women had a hole where the penis was supposed to go.
We did in the missionary position because I didn't know anything else. (This was way before internet and the availability of porn.) I didn't last more than a couple of minutes but she wasn't disappointed because she was really into me. And I was absolutely over the moon.
So, there is nothing I would change about my first time. She wasn't very experienced, but at least she knew what to expect. It would have been a disaster we both had been as clueless as I was.
We went steady for about a year after that and I got way better at sex. She was a really great person and we had a lot of fun together (not just sexually).
One night in my car, she even gave me my first BJ.
Many years later, we reconnected on Facebook. She's a happy grandma now.
He had only slept with one girl before me. He considered himself experienced but he was far from it. I probably would’ve enjoyed the thought of “learning” together. But all he ever did was force himself on me. So it wasn't until the only other person that I slept with (who was a virgin) that we got to “learn together”
It was awkward with both bt things quickly got better with the second. I was the same age as the first guy. I was two years older than the second guy
We were both virgins. My second and third boyfriends both were too.
was it better teaching your boyfriend since you had already been there how was that?
You were snatching everyone's virginity 😆
@apple1996, @brookeaz90 is a virgin snatcher 😂! Damn girl 🔥!!
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She was a year younger than me, but she was not a virgin. She knew I was, and she told me she planned to take my virginity! She said she wanted to teach me how to have sex and have lots of practice. It definitely got me excited and we slept together a week later.
Interesting, the best told stories are either ‘both virgins’ or the ‘guy was the virgin the woman was not.’
The ‘both virgins’ tends towards “was sweet”
the ‘woman is experienced’ tends towards “VERY HELPFUL &HOT”
when the guy is experienced, it tends to “not be helpful” or worse.
its unfortunate that guys are pressured to be more experienced than girls & girls are shamed for experience bc I think two virgins is nice but otherwise women are just better body teachers.
Agree both being virgins is better. Guys think they need experience but they really don't.
I’d prefer a virgin. And experience in general doesn’t mean you understand that woman’s body, it does sometimes or often give the illusion that you do, and it can create an false expectation.. I’d rather he knew he didn’t know anything & we start from scratch together. Dumb and patient in my opinion us the best way to start lol
Well this is a bit of a touchy subject for me as I lost my virginity to my stepdad who raped me multiple times between the ages 11 -13. He’s now in prison.
However, I had my first consensual sexual encounter when I was 14 who was with a virgin.
I know the time gap between getting raped and consensual sex is quite small but that was because my head was so fucked up after the events with my stepdad that once he went to prison I was suffering from withdrawal symptoms and craved dick all the time. After several years of therapy, I finally stopped craving dick all the time and gained some of my childhood innocence back.
I'm really glad you recovered
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