Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do boners hurt if they're there for too long?
Anonymous
My boyfriend and I were fooling around yesterday, and I was being intentionally difficult. He was practically begging me to get him off, which is very entertaining for me and the whole reason I wasn't giving him what he wanted right away lol. Anyway, I wasn't trying to be mean or anything so when he got a little upset saying that it was starting to hurt I felt really bad. Do guys dicks hurt if they're hard for too long? I thought boners were supposed to feel good. Is that the same as blue balls? I'm still not sure if blue balls is a real thing... I would ask him these things but I didn't want to bring it up if I really had hurt him :(
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 42I guess it can hurt if it stays hard too long, but I am still looking for that boner that lasts 3 hours and 59 minutes so that I dont have to go to the doctor! Blue balls is definitely something different and the pain is directly in your balls. It really hurts. The only time that I had it was when I should have cum, but for some reason didn't. Very painful.
For you, or for him?
My cock is over 8 inches and it never hurts. I had boners for long periods but it's good to blow the load
Yes it starts to hurt
Blue balls are unfortunantly very real its awful
yes i have had a sore boner/penis before, it was after having sex for a few hours.
It doesn not hurt, it makes you go crazy and you want to fuck
but physical hurt - no
It's not that it's hard for too long, but once guys get to a certain point of sexual arousal teasing like that can acctully hurt.
I wouldn't say hurt but it gets uncomfortable
Yes. It hurts. Especially when someone we want is there but don't get it.
Apparently, blue balls are a real thing according to science. However, also according to science, it's not even a REMOTELY serious condition. No one will die from it, it won't cause any serious consequence and its not unbearable pain. It's not torturing or anything like that.
Sometimes people try to make a big case of it.
Only if your pants are too tight. lol
that is become so restless, that hurt is not pain but not letting the cum out is tough task, if it goes more longer he would loose the control and cumshot automatically.
It just gets annoying to the point of releasing the beast.
they can get annoying
They don't feel good by themselves... and yes they can hurt for too long; but I don't think it's the type of pain to complain about.
YES, IF YOU GIVE A BONER TO YOUR BOYFRIEND, DON'T LET HIM HAVE IT FOR TOO LONG AND AT LEAST SUCK HIS DICK OR LET HIM FUCK YOU SO IT WON'T HURT HIM
Yeah if it's really hard it tends to hurt and we get dizzy after a while so please be kind and do your guy a solid and rub his lamp till the geanie comes out
sometimes i have a painfull boner I don't know if thats normal i dont take drugs
No, No Reason For A Boner To Hurt.
not at all