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Do guys enjoy rim jobs?

So my question is do guys enjoy rim jobs? The reason I am asking is because my boyfriend and I were a bit tipsy the other day and I went down on him to give him a blowjob. I usually do lick his balls as well but this time he seemed to push my head further and as I went down a bit further, he seemed to moan and turned around (basically indicating that he wanted me to give him a rim job)
The day after we were texting and he seemed a bit shy about the whole thing, trying to make it out that I was the one who had started the whole thing even though it was pretty clear from his actions that night that he wanted me give him a rim job) He really did enjoy it and I could tell as he kept saying he loved it when I started licking him down there.

So do guys actually enjoy rim jobs even though a lot of them are worried they will be seen as gay or less masculine? Has anyone on here tried having a girl give them a rim job? I think my boyfriend was struggling a bit with the idea of being seen as less masculine and that I might look at him differently since that incident.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I love getting a rim job, it feels like heaven, but its me that usually give a rim job first. I love when I am the first guy to ever do that to them... the reactions are so great, like" WHAT THE Fu.. oh umm yeah..."
    It is easier to ask for one in return once they know how great it feels.

  • Alcohol loosen up people so it's something he wants and likes but he is shy about it... That day with the drinks he was more relaxed and open that's why the next day he said it was your ideia... I had a similar situation with girl but for a diferent reason

    • I agree completely. I guess he has got conflicting feelings about the whole thing, mainly because of how he thinks I will perceive him from now. I dont see it as a big deal though as I love him and care about him. It is purely experimenting

    • And that's all that matters

Most Helpful Girls

  • Unlike you I did initiate it, and I was rewarded with very hot and heavy sex and now he asks or begs for it some nights. Lots of nerves there, why not fully enjoy the sensations your body has to offer?

    • i have to agree !

  • Depends on the guy. As you can see by the male comments, it's a pretty mixed reaction. It's something you should DEFINTELY ask your male partner before just going for it..

    • Oh no.. he definitely wanted me to. I had never done it before but he did tell me that he loved it.

    • I'm sorry, I didn't even really read your entire question... I don't know how I missed it. It was pretty wrong of him, in my opinion, to just push your head down there and expect you to do it.. especially if this is your first time doing it. He should have just asked if you could rim him. Are you comfortable giving him rim jobs? If not, I would talk with him about it.

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  • Guys who enjoy getting their asses licked are absolute gods, in my opinion.

  • I like giving and getting equally. A girl once rimmed me for about 5 straight hours and fell asleep with her tongue there. For some reason I've never gotten a girl to let me do that back to her for more than about an hour.

  • I enjoy it and yet I don't feel less masuline at all.
    Your boyfriend is probably thinking that you might perceive him as gay so he is shrugging it off and saying you did it, when he did it.
    Have a good chat with him and tell him it is OK and that is will be (seriously) a secret. It can be a lot of fun to explore those areas.
    Have fun.

  • Absolutely love it..😍😍😍

    I've given it to many women but sadly, only a handful returned the favour...

    • Glad to hear that :)

    • It's really out of this world good...👍

  • It's more of a personal preference than a gender thing. He probably does. Start gentle caressing his ass hole with your hand during a bj if you want him to open up about it.

  • It doesn't make you less of a man to have a woman lick your ass. Some people are into it some people aren't. I absolutely love my cock sucked love my ass licked I don't like having my balls messed with they're too sensitive so the girls that I'm with at first thought that licking ass was disgusting until she actually watched the video on it by herself and then she got really turned on by it. That was 4 months ago we've been together probably almost a year and just recently 4 months ago started trying different things and enjoying one another. No rush but she absolutely loves licking my ass now she likes giving me that pleasure and it feels fucking amazing especially when now she's learned how to massage my prostate and make me come without even touching my cock. It's not at all gay. I love licking her ass

  • Love them.

  • I love when my wife gives me a rimjob it is so sexual the last time she gave me a rimjob she made me get on all fours so she can really get in there hey I have been eating her ass for years just shower before and deep clean before.

  • What is a rim job exactly?

    • Basically fingering a guy's butthole and licking around it with your tongue lol

    • Oh then no. I have no interest in anything anal

    • Fair enough :) its not for everyone I guess

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  • As long as I was fresh out of the bath and really clean I wouldn't mind.

    Otherwise I'd be way too insecure to enjoy it.

  • Its completely understandable that a guy would fear lack of masculinity or feeling bad thinking it was a gay activity.
    I have some good advice for both you girls an guys, #1 most all of you are doing it wrong! This is when you jerk off and savor feeling her tounge in your ass, sooner or later you'll have a really potent orgasm and unload a huge pile of come in 4 or 5 shots. Your girl will most likely be aroused feeling your power, an so you girls want to satisfy your man, finish right by gently licking and sucking up his protein shot off his cock an lift up his hand and eat up the rest that's running down his knuckles. #2 some girls may think it's disgusting so make it easier for them and use your trimmers an shave all the hair away from around your asshole.
    #3 shower an wash your ass good. #4 a good position helps, your ass on the edge of a bed with a pillow under it and she's on her knees the floor comfortable. The other is your on your knees like doggie style with your shoulders flat on the bed. She'll be comfortable and get her tounge in deeper and keep your idle hand ready to catch her your protein shot.
    Heck, lick it off yourself and French kiss her.
    I've been with over 50 women through the years and at least half would rimm me, some chics were really good their tounge was perfect. One much older chic was awsome, she had a really strong pointy tounge. Sometimes she used a finger as well an massage my prostate.
    My wife loves it, I eat her ass while she rubs her clit and sometimes she squirts when she comes and I'll catch it and swallow, or it's lube on my cock because I'm jerking off the whole time.

  • Hell yes I cum like a fire hose from my gfs rim jobs

  • Its awesome with the right personal touch. My X did that to me all the time, and likewise I would do the same. We followed one simple rule.
    Only after a shower would we even go there.
    Had to be fresh and clean, makes it better for both people.

  • not my thing

  • Feel pity of you. You might have grossed out

  • Absolutely love it. When I was younger I would have probably felt a little weird about liking it but you get over that and get more secure when you get a little older. I am about as liberal minded and tolerant of every and all sexual preferences between consenting adults. Two things I've come to realize with equal certainty are:
    1) I have zero attraction to or inclination toward sexual activity with another man, and
    2) The nerve endings in my ass hole and prostate are such that I fucking love a woman licking and eating my ass, even stimulating the areas with a finger or small dildo.
    But I didn't even know 2 until I was in my 40s. So, by the time I knew ass play feels good, I was already very secure and happy with my understanding of my own sexuality. I could see the boyfriend in this question being kind of freaked out and not comfortable acknowledging that, you know, it feels good to have a tongue up your ass, lol.
    I would definitely recommend showering right before. Maybe a shower and a few shots of whiskey, then go for it.

  • It’s ok but I give more than get

  • Yes, we love them. they are great!

  • i have never exp that let alone the sexual fant that i have

  • Why people are having sex during a virus, i do not know

    if i can't go to work, why can you have sex?

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