Do men call girls sluts and won't date a promiscuous girl because he's afraid he won't satisfy her?

I'd be insecure too if the girl I'm into has had what's considered good to great dick before.

I also understand sex and a mans dick is his self esteem.

A girl being dependent on them.

All the above isn't really a man. I'm sorry.

Call me out do what you gotta do. I understand you're hurt

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I thought men liked porn stars? wouldn't you want great sex? can't be with someone whose dead in bed or doesn't give amazing blowies
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  • The only time I call a girl a slut or a Whore is if she doesn’t have morals meaning she spreads her legs for any guy she finds attractive and doesn’t really have chemistry and connection with him and doesn’t really care about his heart she just finds him attractive and spreads her legs for him. and uses him Or she spreads her legs for. money or to a guy that has money , uses him , or she cheats on her boyfriend or husband for someone she thinks is better then her own partner , to me that is a whore and sadly she probably has STD’s , I won’t have sex with a girl unless I have chemistry and connection with her , and we have a lot in common and we are on the same page about relationships and commitment , I need to feel that chemistry and connection with her to even be able to get an erection for her , My intentions to have sex with a girl is hoping she comes back for more and more that she only wants me and no one else , sadly it’s always a 50/50 chance because most people lie and are just infatuated with each other in the beginning and will love anything you say or talk about because they are just drawn to something about you , so they will just go with it just to get laid , so again it’s always a 50/50 chance on what her intentions are and what her morals are. If my cock isn’t good enough for her then she won’t last long with me , I will kick her to the curb where she belongs , I want a girl that wants me , that wants to make me smile, that feels safe and protected by me , that only has eyes for me , that will resist temptations for me and remove selfishness for me , cuz I so do the same for her in return , if she chooses to walk away, I let her go cuz I realize we can’t force someone to love us we can only treat someone the same way we want to be loved and treated in return , if I am not her priority she won’t be mine , if she can’t remove selfishness for me then I won’t be able to do it for her , if she only cares about herself then I will only care about myself. I want to experience true love not selfish people , and sadly I have a list of selfish exes

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  • I think it has to do with evolutionary biology.

    Back in the day if a women was promiscuous it meant that there was a possibility that she was carrying some other dude's baby. The man would end up chucking out resources and time for some kid that is not his. What every man wants on an instinctual level is to pass on HIS genetic material. Most men are willing to put in the sacrifice of time , energy , and resources if he knows that those kids are HIS ; they are carrying his DNA. If a women is sleeping around there was always the chance that the guy was taking care of some other dudes' spawn.

    I think that this is the reason that men tend to abhor promiscuous women. IT may not always make logical sense but I think it an instinct that results from several hundred thousand years of biological evolution ( just like women are hard wired to attach themselves to men with resources) . There is a reason why many women will sleep around but will lie about their body count when they meet a man whom they think is legit husband material. If he finds out she has been the village bicycle he will kick her to the curb like a used diaper. Here is an example from my own life:

    1. When I was in college back in the 90's there was a female classmate who had a reputation for being very, very promiscuous. Many of her conversations were about dicks and fucking and sucking and what not. She would openly talk about these things in front of several classmates.

    She also wanted to fuck me.

    On several occasions she invited me back to her apartment for "science tutoring".

    I never took her up on her offer because I knew what she was looking for.

    Why did I not fuck her?

    Because she was nasty and promiscuous. I had no idea if she had an STD or if she would become obsessed with me. Also , I did not want to be the one guy who fucked the department hussy. There was no way I was going to make myself look bad. Also , she could not shut the fuck up if her life depended on it. If I had fucked her the whole campus would of known. Also , the thought of getting that women pregnant was a turn off for me.

    So I never fucked her and thus avoided 10,000 headaches.

    Most women think that us men will fuck any woman that throws themselves at us. Like most guys, I fantasize about hot women that I see around town. This does not mean I would fuck them off the bat.

    It is a difficult concept for younger men to understand but as a man gets older he learns that it pays to keep his dick in his pants.

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  • It’s insecurity on their part. They play this silly game where they pretend to expect women to be these mythical puritanical creatures or they aren’t good enough (although they curiously fail to hold themselves to that same standard) when in reality, they’re threatened by a sexually experienced woman. They need us to be inexperienced and ignorant so that we accept crummy sex that is completely centered on their needs. A woman who knows what good sex is won’t put up with that and will move on. They know it and, rather than take the time to become better lovers, they lash out and try to shame us because of it. Never be fooled by what the agenda is here.

    • A smart woman here everyone

    • Thank you. It’s really up to us to educate each other. Some of these responses from guys are already repeating the company line and illustrating that insecurity. Remember it’s all a manipulative lie. Whether a woman has had sex once or one thousand times, it doesn’t change her personal qualities or overall worth. Don’t ever accept anything to the contrary. I also don’t want to seem too anti-male because there are mature guys out there who know how to please a woman and are not threatened. I think it’s important to acknowledge those guys because they are the standard that should be modeled.

    • I agree and I keep note of that as well. I wish a lot of girls can unite and have each others backs like men do.

  • Yes, they're afraid they won't measure up to her past lovers. This mentality probably made more sense before the internet. But how are they now going to shield her from knowing that some guys have what looks like three legs?

    • LOL!! thank you men be lying on here. Together too! That's a shame

    • I hope one day women can unite like the way men do

    • It could happen.

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  • No. I dont feel most. men do this. If anything it would make me want to also see if I can score with her too if she seems like a fun person to be with.

  • I won't date a promiscuous girl because I want to find a permanent partner, not just a ONS or casual fuckfest.

    • You can still find a permanent girl who has got around a bit... lol again you're afraid you'll lose her because low self esteem

    • And you love to hate men because your high school boyfriend left you and turned gay.

    • Huh? Weirdo

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  • Probably why some guys call girls sluts is due to that fear. Regarding promiscuous girls, most guys love great sex from them, but figure they aren't girlfriend material due to their nature

    • wouldn't they think great sex?

  • Most people want someone with good judgement to be the other parent to their children and a long term partner, and most men are better arlt realizing a free hooker does not have good judgement.

  • In some causes yes, but usually it because promiscuous girls are dirty and untrustworthy. Guys like porn stars only on screen, not many guys would want to marry a porn star.

    Do men call girls sluts and won't date a promiscuous girl because he's afraid he won't satisfy her?
  • Men will date to fuck girls with body counts but never marry.

  • Nope, you're just a naraccist. You being unattractive, doesn't mean he's insecure because he rejects you. It just means you're not good enough.

    • *narcissist

  • 1) I want a virgin because God said so.

    2) I want a virgin because I'm scared to death of catch your stds.

    • By the way, I tend to know more about the female anatomy than women do about themselves. I aced both male and female reproductive anatomy in Pathophysiology, and even got the bonus points on the female reproductive anatomy. I can probably pleasure you more than all the whoremongers you like to date.

    • But I'm not a virgin so my lose I guess right

    • yes.

  • Many men call women "sluts" because they engage in indiscriminate casual sexual relations.

  • I'd say a lot of it comes down to insecurity

  • A lot of women that are called sluts can also carry STDs.

  • So you like to be like a porn star in bed?

  • I like girls that enjoy a good time

  • wow you're a whackjob. most guys aren't into whores who been fucked way to many times by way to many dicks. most guys don't want to catch any std's or knowing their woman is a whore who's shown her body to every guy she sees and fucked every guy she sees or giving herself to every guy she encounters.

    • Lol you sound offended

    • not offended just stating the obvious

    • It's obvious men has shallow egos.

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  • No. More women call females sluts than men do.
    And we won't date slutty women for the same reason you don’t eat used gum off the bottom of a shoe.
    No one wants used expired garbage.

    • I mean I don't eat used gum anymore lol That's fine if you guys dont date slutty women we get that you can't keep her attention or satisfy her needs. I know you're under 7 inches. Just say you have a small dick and can't fulfill a real womans fantasies. It's okay baby

    • You realize that your petty shaming attempts just show how much it bothers you. A hit dog will holler.

    • I'm stating facts my guy a hit dog also gets taken care of.

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  • Maybe they just don't like women who have slept around a lot. I know I don't like fuck boys so I guess I can understand.

    • They will regret being with someone who can't sexually please them. Maybe not regret but very much resent unless theirs compromises

    • What? I'm not sure who is who in that.

  • I don't know why women have such a difficult time understanding that men just find promiscuous women gross. It's not about being threatened or insecure. Promiscuous women are just low value. They are the female equivalent of s called bad boys, who women are sexually attracted to but would never want to marry. Some men may fantasize about having sex with a porn star or promiscuous woman, but they won't take them seriously as a partner or wife.

    • That is understandable but I don't know if you know many married men cheat... with whores. That's what they want at the end of the day. Like traditional shit has been over since women started working outside of the home. We literally run shit unless it's taken from us. Now yes men do have the power after they get it. But again, without taking it from us we say when you get a taste. And many men and coochie are like crack. They can't say no to a loose woman. I dont agree with it I'd be damned but its true

    • Lol, you just keep telling yourself that.

    • I will. I bet you your daddy would love me to sit on his face. We can test that out.

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  • Yes, men typically do not like promiscuous women, with varying intensity. This an unconscious feeling that a lot of men have. We do not know for sure why that is, but everybody is giving a guess. So here is mine:

    Men and women were made to exist around each other. They complement each other. So everything men are good at women are typically not good at and vice versa, that way both genders can support all aspects of life between them. And (excuse me for starting the sentence with conjunction) for that men have an inherent responsibility towards women. So, when a woman becomes promiscuous, it hurts a man emotionally.

    If you want to abuse and hurt any man that cares about you, be promiscuous.

    Some people say it is the love of control, but I know for a fact that that isn’t true, because I would rather have someone torture me to death than see my daughter be a promiscuous woman.

    That being said in order for men to become more immune to that pain, they cut all emotional ties with the promiscuous woman. Since you have less empathy towards a person, it becomes easier for you to use them for sex. Thats what a promiscuous girlfriend is to a lot of men; cheap sex that they have access to. When they want to settle down though, that’s not the woman they marry.

  • I just want it to be special. I don't think it can be special if she has had 20+ dudes up in her.

    • How so? You've done with that many girls.