Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I've heard my friends, sisters and cousins when they speak about how embarrassed and insecure they've felt during sex. Most of those insecurities come from the thought that they might not look desirable enough for their man. For example, a week ago my sister mentioned she hoped her husband never noticed her weight gain, her cellulite or the pregnancy scars in her belly during sex because she was embarrased for him to see them. I saw her so worried about this, that led me to ask this question. Do men even pay attention to those "imperfections" that the majority of women worry so much to cover?
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Do men pay attention to women's "imperfections" during sex?
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17 67No we dont... I mean if I have decided to have sex with a certain girl its probably because I find her attractive. We all have our imperfections and if we payed attention to them all the time we will all hate eachother. Truth is, they make us unique and beautiful, because the true perfection isn't perfect.
Well I suppose I would "notice" per se but if that woman gave me a child through blood and sweat, and I considered her 'less than perfect' as a result, I'd deserve a bullet to the head.
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We notice, obviously, but it may not be a turn off. Why do I say may? Because it depends on the "imperfection" you're talking about. Weight gain? Yeah, that's a turn off. Scars from pregnancy? Not at all. Cellulite? Only if it's severe. Hairy? Yep, big turn off. One boob slightly bigger than the other? Not a turn off.
In my perception it doesn't really matter.
if it's going down, he's already mentally committed to doing it, focus will just be on sex.
"weight gain" is not just an imperfection, it is potentially disqualifying.
An imperfection are boobs that are not equal sizes for example. Those things don't matter. Being overweight matters so many guys.
Not like a woman would. We might notice but we don't care usually. We are far more accepting of your "imperfections" and don't think of it as much as a woman would. Don't be so self conscious ladies. I can almost guarantee whatever you're worried about is so not an issue to us.
I'm the kind of person that has sex and doesn't make love. If something changed or is a certain way and I don't like it, then I don't like it.
Sadly I've had more than a few women where they look worse naked. Most are ignorable, especially in the heat of the moment. Hell I had one girl where one pussy lip was 2x the size of the other and a rather ugly face to boot, but she was a virgin that wanted to fuck me and I was horny at the moment so did her anyway (had she been fat too I would have passed).
Your answer is very crude Burbank i find it very honest and real. 👩🏻👍🏼
I don't see a reason to lie about it.
These kind of things are generally noticed by the boyfriends rather that the husbands.
During sex, I don't think it really bothers 99 % of us, personally I just want to make you say you had a good time and go for "he's the best one so far", think our priorities range mostly from just want to Cum, to this is so good, to give her a good time. I myself had a few ugly ones, there I just wanted to blow a load.
imperfections don't matter, we all have them. But getting fat is a deal breaker, that is grounds for divorce.
That's a little extreme..., huh?
Not if it's mutually agreed upon going in. You wouldn't want to explicitly encourage your partner to be healthy? Especially if you were when they met you?
Agreed.
I've had this talk with my ex when we were still together. I told him that I felt insecure about my body and he said that as a man he had worries too. He said he was worried that he wouldn't be able to make me cum or not last long enough for me. He told me not to worry about my body cus he loved it and I told him to not think too much when we had wex and to just feel it and let go. So far he was the best sex ever.
they're not blind.. so obviously they do see them.. but most men.. if they really like the girl.. won't care at all.. we women make a big deal out of every little thing lol.. just to get something to be insecure about..
Men don't give a fuck in the presence of good pussy b
Stupid thing to worry about... probably from decades of women talking to other women about men instead of you know... asking men straight up. "Honey do you give a shit that my left nipple is a 1/2 inch higher than my right one?"
It depends... for some men it's a problem... for example I don't need my woman to fit my idea of perfect, but certain 'imperfections' don't sit well with me. But then another man can see those traits and love them... my current girlfriend has tats over like half her body which in the past I would have found unattractive, but bcos of the feelings I have for her I find them very attractive!
I don't think we do.
As a guy i honesty say I'm not worried about a girls body when it comes to sex i just want a girl to be her self and not worry , for any guy who does this to a girl is not very nice and in my book needs to grow up and stop being so immature.