Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do some guys actually prefer GIVING oral sex to a girl rather than receiving it?
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This is really puzzling me. My boyfriend jokes sometimes and says “hey baby, sit on my face?” But I know he’s actually serious. He says this seriously but with a joking manner. I thought guys wanted to receive oral sex more than to give it. And it seems that my boyfriend is very much the opposite. I don’t mind it however. I ablige because it’s quite nice actually. But I just can’t understand why he likes for me to sit on his face so much! Isn’t it uncomfortable? Or laborious? He says it makes him so happy, but I want to know the specific reasons why he does. What about it makes it so fulfilling? If there are any guys here who are like this too, can you please explain why you love it? Or if there are girls here who have partners like this, what was their reasoning for liking it? I’m way too shy to ask my boyfriend this question personally...
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11 80Yes. I'd much rather give oral sex than receive it from someone who doesn't want to give it. It tastes nice!
Ah that makes sense. My boyfriend tells me I taste sweet, so I can see how the taste would be nice :)
I couldn't care less if I ever get a blow job and I'd LOVE to dine at a girl's pink taco stand!!
Haha pink taco stand 😅 what do you like about it specifically?
Partly, I love being able to make her cum in just a few seconds and I guess it's just that I hardly ever get to "go there" so, I try to enjoy it whole I can. And, there's always the chance I'll get a squirter and will finally be able to takes her cum. What do you like about sucking a dick? What's the attraction?
So you wouldn’t be grossed out or turned off if a woman accidentally squirted on your face? And I guess for the same reasons why guys like giving oral. It turns me on knowing I’m pleasing him
No, but I'd prefer she did it in a glass or my mouth `cause I wanna see what it tastes like. It's not piss. It has a different taste according to the time of the month. Oh, okay. I've never been interested in blow jobs. The way to please me, sexually, is to just let me cum inside of you. In a way, it proves to me that you love me. Especially if you WANT me to cum in you!
Yeah i remember the first time i squirted, i felt embarrassed. Luckily my boyfriend loved it and assured me it’s exactly what he wanted to do for me. Now I’m much more comfortable with it when happens And I’d love the idea for him to cum inside me bare. I find that to be insanely hot actually, but I’m not looking to get pregnant just yet and I’m not on the pill. So for now, we just use condoms lol
Firstly, you need to get over your shyness. You should be able to speak to your boyfriend about anything.
I love going down on my partner, she loves it. I like receiving, but i can struggle to cum sometimes
We do talk! Absolutely we do. I’m just not the best with initiating a conversation. I’m getting better though :) if he brings up something and asks what I like or don’t like, I certainly will tell him. It’s just being the initiator that I get shy about. Maybe if he asks me again to “sit on his face”, I’ll take that as an opportunity to ask
I love my girl's reaction to me being down there so that's one of the reasons I give her oral sex.
So knowing you’re pleasing her pleases you?
I hate, hate, hate receiving oral sex. But I do enjoy giving. The result of a few very traumatic experiences.
Oh that’s unfortunate to hear. Very sorry 🙁
I think giving pleasure is the best form of receiving pleasure
So simply knowing that you’re pleasing your partner brings you pleasure too
Immensely yes. It is amazing going down on her and feeling her squirm and hearing her moan - bringing her to orgasm after orgasm. The pleasure I get from that is indescribable - and my arousal level goes off the chart.
Thats awesome! This should set the standard for other guys. Especially when a lot of them think they should always get blowjobs but won’t reciprocate for the woman. I remember I used to be a little shy about the shaking and squirming but my boyfriend assured me it wasn’t something I should hold back. And eventually I didn’t. I became quite comfortable with it and started to let go. It’s a great experience. A really sweet thing to do too
Very cool - glad you got comfortable with it as I know that is extremely important for truly enjoying the experience. I remember when first started dating my would-be wife and she was timid with letting herself go - but over time she learned to relax and just enjoy it. I love doing it for as long as we have time and she can stand it ha... Will start with oral then oral with fingers - working her g-spot and deep-spot while orally pleasuring her clit. Often we do it where I am crouching on the floor with her near the side of the bed with occasionally a foot dangling over the edge and every now and then she'll lightly touch my hardon... after a good long while of pleasing her like that, we have the best sex - so much more intense than when we just do a quickie (which is good certainly but not the same). I do enjoy her giving me oral sex and she likes it too but there is just something deeper in terms of realizing my pleasure when I am giving it like that. She also was reluctant to allow me to rim her for the longest time... but she gave it try and she realized she liked it - now gets really relaxed for it - asks for me to do it - and loves it... and that drives me wild with pleasure too. Sorry for the rambling but it's a hot and fun topic to talk about :)
Oh that’s no problem 😆 but yeah it’s true. There’s so much more satisfaction tied to it. And that’s good for her, she seems pretty comfortable now and lucky to say the least. I don't know if rimming is something my boyfriend is interested in. He’s done it before but maybe it was by accident? Lol not sure
Lol not sure rimming can be a by accident thing but... lol... if you liked how it felt, you could always ask him if he likes doing it. I love it. Just the other day we went from her on back while I was going down on her - then a little missionary grinding - then doggy with her on all fours - I started by rimming her when she was like that - then every now and then while fucking her I pulled out and rimmed her a little. Did that a few times over before having a crazy orgasm. So that is a good example of how giving oral pleasure got me so aroused it resulted in me having an amazing orgasm. Fun chatting with you about all this :)
Yeah definitely and thank you very much for sharing! :)
Welcome - happy to share more here or in dm if you'd like :)
Yes dear
For what reasons?
I'm tired of playing with myself and i would rather play with someone else
Haha sounds good! :)
i olso love to give more then to receving
What reasons? :)
to see how she moun, how much she like, how wet she becoming and i in love whit that move when a girl is about to cum and grab by head and feed me whit her pussy like "take all my pussy in you're mought"/ like a deeptroat from boys to girl, but here is a girl deepthroat the guy whit the pussy
Oh yessss! All of that is amazing 😩 i used to be shy about it, but my boyfriend assured me to let go and enjoy it. It’s really an amazing experience. And I think more men like this should exist
I will love to meet a girl who will like to say "boy/dud/baby eat my pussy"
You’ll find one. Trust me, if you like eating and giving, they’ll find ya
i'm not sure if i love it "more" but i sure do love it.
Any particular reason why?
obviously cause giving a partner pleasure means i can give a partner pleasure, which is an awesome feeling so doing that, gives me that feeling.
I completely agree. It’s such a turn on to please your partner 😅
I'm a giver, so I get off more when I'm pleasing. Not that I don't like recieving as well, but in my experience most females aren't good at it.
So pleasing her pleases you
Yes correct.
Well that makes sense :) thank you very much
I'm one of them.
For what reasons? (If you don’t mind me asking)
No I don't mind. There are several reasons First one is that I want her to enjoy sex as much as I am enjoying it, and oral contributes to that. Second is that, in my case, it almost always leads her to an orgasm, which is a good feeling for both of us. Third is that I have a nice view of her enjoying the act. Fourth, I just like doing it.
Thats awesome honestly. More men like this need to exist. I always here the focus for oral being on men, so it’s nice to hear this. And i guess this makes me pretty lucky too haha
yes..
And you’re one of them? :)
Yes. I love pleasuring my partner before myself
I think that’s awesome. I feel like generally guys only care about receiving and won’t reciprocate. So that’s great to hear
Most indubitably
For what reasons?
For me, the ultimate joy in sex is the pleasure I get when the female gets off, that is the most satisfying part
Wow there definitely needs to be more guys like this. That’s a very sweet thing to do
Yes some guys do
Are you one of them?
Its all about balance in my opinion
So no? Lol
That's inaccurate
I think by "it's all about balance" he meant that it's important to give and receive fairly equally
Yes but if you prefer giving over receiving, then there quite isn’t a balance. So it sounds like he’s just in between :)
Yes exactly, because he never said he preferred one over the other. He just said that some guys do have a preference
50_50
No neither nor :)
teeth, by the sound of it, you sometimes use teeth during oral on him.
Haha no I don’t. Sorry I gave you that impression
I prefer receiving it as nature intended
Oh ok 😩
You're already putting your crotch in his face. What in the world could you have to be embarrassed about?
To answer your question, yes there are people who prefer giving more than receiving.
I’m not embarrassed. I’m just a little nervous to ask him this
Why?
I’m just the shy type. Submissive in bed
Even so, communication is golden and the gateway to good sex.
I’m getting there 😅 this was just something I’ve been curious about for a while
That’s the way I feel. I love the taste, feel, and experience of eating pussy. It’s one of the best things in life. You could leave my cock alone completely and just let me eat your pussy and I would be a happy satisfied man.
Does this apply to all types of pussy? Or does your enthusiasm change depending on that? I hear that it sometimes also affects how much a guy enjoys it
I haven’t met a pussy I didn’t enjoy yet
Awesome! Thank you very much for the insight :)
You are welcome! 😊
I'm that way too. Oral sex is a gift. Receiving it is nice but giving it to a woman is much nicer. First off, it nearly always results in an orgasm. Also it is easier. Intercourse is fun but it can be very physical. Oral sex is not so physically demanding. I can keep going with oral sex for hours if I want.
More men like this need to exist. I think the fact that they want to please their woman says a lot about them. It’s a nice gesture, especially since you hear all the time about guys receiving oral, but women? Not so much. You’re very right about having it end in orgasm. He’s gotten so good at it. He gets pretty intimate and passionate about it too.