This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?
I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.
If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".
Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."
More than 10 guys is really too much.
Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".
Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).
So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.
For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!
Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m
Whoa. Very interesting!
i don't own her. what she did before me may be an indicator of how she'll be with me but it's no guarantee. it has to be talked through. communication and motive are key.
if she has a high number but stops with me... its a win. if im not important enough for her to stop then I'll have to move on.
"past is prologue"... yes, but also "past performance is not an indicator of future results".
finding love means being vulnerable. it can suck... miserably, i know. but it can also be so amazing that you're just so happy to be in the same room as that person. also, i know... finally.
Really insightful! :) love your answer.
@sweet_sparkles personally i enjoy stories from their past. once i convinced girlfriends i was with that i wouldn't judge and i actually liked hearing about all they'd done... whoa baby! i got some good stories! girls love to fuck, just like guys. you just go about it differently.
What's important to me is, do they even remember the names? Have they (or will they) cheated? And are they clean?
No. Personality and chemistry are what matters. I won’t ask.
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like how only hoes liked ur comment
@AFellowWeeb Wow!! That was offensive. What are you? Some kind of ordained male that feels like there should be no privacy?
Careful, your soy is spilling out
I mean, if she's clean, and with me going forwards, I don't know how many women I've been with, so no judgement here.
Yes. Multiple partners increases the probability of divorce, cheating, unhappiness in the relationship, depression, anxiety, and sexual disatisfaction within a relationship/marriage so her number does matter (scientifically speaking). As for what the number is, well the fewer the better. I don't expect her to be a virgin though statistically that would be the ideal, but as few partners as possible. If she has a lot she has trained herself for casual relationships not long term ones.
Its no different then getting a job, if you have 100 jobs by the time your thirty, no one is going to hire you because clearly you have no loyalty to any job and you haven't staid long enough to develop your skills in that particular proffesion so your not going to have any real value to any company. Same goes for relationships.
I can't be your 'first', I MIGHT be your 'next' and its NOT for me to say... that I'll be your 'last'...
One day I sat in solitary reminiscence and realized that from age 16 to now 69 years... it has been my privilege to have shared intimacies with 49 women; having refused the company of only four more.
Almost NONE were 'one night stands' ~
A 'wise' male friend once quipped: "Tell me NOT of the number of women whom you've bedded;
but instead regale me with your tally of HOW MANY INVITED YOU BACK."
"Fool me ONCE, shame on you; FOOL ME TWICE, shame on ME!"
Don’t give a toss tbh.
the on, y thing that really counts is if any have been abusive snd potentially left mental scaring that you could trigger by accident.
numbers are simply that and do not change the relationship.
if they do, I would be interested too know what cut off point is 10, 20, 50 etc
also rough abusive sex with one partner over 5 years, versus 30 non abusive and caring partners over 5 years,
what is most important...
Not at all! Its her life to live
It would have to be a big number in a short time, likening my first thought is "how?" Then it might not work.
Like if she only 24 and her body count is 80, I mean that almost a different guy every month sense she was 16, I wouldn't thinknsges gross but I would think she isent capable to comment to a relationship, like what it didn't work out with 80 other men but she's gonna stay with me? Doubt it.
Nope, as long as she has her head on her shoulders and is fun.
And, as long as she does not care about my body count, we are good.
I personally dont care. My girlfriend has slept with over 30+ Guys. Before she met me.
she never used a condom once in her life.
i know a lot of the guys.
and its no secret what she did everyone knows.
doesent bother me what so ever.
and we dont care what anyone else thinks.
we are and happy. And anyone else’s opinion is irrelevant
I wouldn't worry about it unless the number is extremely high.
No i would never have such Conservative views.
To an extent, yes.
Nope
Oh, you mean for a relationship. Ok I'm out.
I will not date a person who has been with more than one maybe 2 people!
Her past is her past and mine is mine. So long as both of us are loyal to each other, I'm willing to keep it that way.
Legit couldn't care less lol I how'd around for awhile sooooooo ya
There isn't really an exact number, it's more about is the woman willing or even able to form a stable relationship, and a high body count in a short amount of time is a huge red flag against that.
If it is a lot it means she has low standards and will not take the relationship seriously.
No thats their past. I'd be more worried about the future with them
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