Do you engage in anal sex, and if so, why?

Do you engage in anal sex, and if so, why?
Yes. It's painful and not pleasurable. I do it solely to please my partner.
Vote A
Yes. It's not painful, but I still dislike it. I do it solely to please my partner.
Vote B
Yes. I don't dislike it, but it's not pleasurable either. I do it solely to please my partner.
Vote C
Yes. I enjoy it
Vote D
Yes. I enjoy it a lot
Vote E
I've never engaged in anal, and I wouldn't like to.
Vote F
I've never engaged in anal, but I'd like to try.
Vote G
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People who say it's painful and unpleasant and only engage in it to please their partner: If the ass was meant to take a dick, it'd get naturally lubricated like the vagina does. You deserve better than to be pressured into unnatural, dangerous, and painful activities that you don't even enjoy. & If your partner was worth your time, they would understand that too.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Tried it once with my ex and only his tip was inside and I screamed out of pain. Then never tried ever again with him. With my current boyfriend, I'm willing to try it out again with him but haven't yet.

    I've been butt fingered and had a buttplug inside my butt too and both felt amazing. But not a full penis yet. But I'm willing to try it out again soon.

    • hope he knows how lucky he is-not just to get anal but because you're not punishing him due to the screw up of another.

    • @Sabretooth... not wanting to have anal wouldn't be "punishing" him.

    • mistixs in this case-it would. he didn't screw up-the other guy did.

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  • I have done it twice with my boyfriend and i really enjoyed it. I think (actually hope) he enjoyed it too. I suggested it because i had the desire for the taboo and the unusual feeling. I'm really surprised he agreed to it plus other things he allows me to do to him

    • What other things does he allow you to do to him?

Most Helpful Guys

  • It is not nasty, it is not painful, and it is a pleasurable alternative to vaginal sex if both partners are uninhibited and agreeable. The only thing I don't understand about anal sex is why so many of those who don't want to do it go around telling everyone how nasty and disgusting it is.

    • One-third of the women who said that they've engaged in anal, said that it's painful & they only do it to please their partners. Have you tried being anally penetrated, or are you only doing the penetrating? If the latter, then you wouldn't understand.

    • Based on your response, two-thirds said that it wasn't painful. The other one-third probably tried it with inexperienced partners who didn't use lube or tried to go too fast. Why are you and other women so hostile on this subject? I have receive prostate massages, so I DO understand.

    • Because a lot of women are pressured into it & don't actually enjoy it. & Anal can cause a lot of problems like anal prolapse, anal incontinence, etc.

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  • It harms women's internal organs
    Its messy and gross
    Why should I go for it?

    • agreed

    • :) Ty

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  • I voted E. For me it's about dominance and submission and my sadistic leaning sexually. It has to be consensual, of course.

  • I don't really think it's sexy, and the way it feels makes me extremely uncomfortable, and plus, I've never had a partner that would complain that I didn't want to do anal. HOWEVER, from a femdom standpoint, I find male anal extremely attractive, and I'd love to try that.

    • I would like to be pleased with my future girlfriend/wife doing it to me one day. I want to intensify my weird and strange noises within my heart for her while having a good orgasm. ☺️❤️

  • Update Response: and how about dry pussy? is that natural too?

    • I don't understand what you mean by that. If a woman is sexually aroused but not producing enough lubrication, then that's a form of sexual dysfunction. It technically happens naturally, but in the same way sicknesses happens naturally: it happens, but it's not MEANT to happen.

    • seems like the only dysfunction that women care about is male... do you think i haven't encountered dry pussy? that shit hurt... and "if a woman is sexually aroused"... women are hard to get sexually aroused... and even if you do... they deny it. because unlike men, no physical evidence.

    • If you think that there's no physical evidence of a woman being sexually aroused then I don't know what to tell you

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  • I only take part because my boyfriend loves it every now and then, but it definitely isn't fun and I'm always happy when it's over.

  • No, because lesbo.

    • What do you mean?

    • She means she's lesbian dumbass lol. But 311, what about a strap on anal?

    • Strap on anal: For the girl: things are the same For the guy: The Messines solved, The worries about how your girl is safe are still with you Another struggle of having a genital and using a fake one just added

  • I've done it for my partner but never really enjoyed it. I don't see what the fuss is all about. We used a butt plug regularly and I'm a big fan. He said it made things tighter for him and it made things feel better for me as well. I'm sure there's a science behind it, I don't know or care. It's one of those things we always liked.

  • I tried it once and it wasn’t too bad. It felt nice my partner was just an idiot but I’m not getting into it. Bottom line is it’s a topic most women might not admit they like but if done right it can actually feel really nice

  • I've tried it twice. Too intense but can be very pleasurable. 💙🖤💜

  • No I would never engage in anal and have zero desire to even try it. To me it’s disgusting. Exit only.

  • I do it whenever possible. It's hard to explain why, though I've been trying for years. I guess you could compare it to a heroin addict. The first time someone does heroin is the best it will ever be for them. The effect will get less and less intense with each use after that, dooming them to destroy themselves in the pursuit of that first feeling.

    Sex is a little bit like that, too. It doesn't diminish nearly as quickly as I'd imagine heroin does. It often takes years of sex with the same person before the intensity is lessened - and even then you could always just abstain for a couple of days and most of it will return by then.

    But with anal I've never had the intensity of it lessened even a little bit. It's like my own personal slice of a supernatural utopia. It maxes out my pleasure senses every time. The effect is not just physical, either. It is specifically when I get a girl off while I'm doing her in the butt that sends me into the afterlife for an instant. If I ejaculate into a girl's butt it just feels like a normal ejaculation - but having my dick up a girl's ass while she's writhing her way to sexual climax immediately yanks the cum right out of me. I couldn't stop it if I wanted to. And of course I never do.

  • The taboo and the feeling.

  • I have done with gf's but I'm a giver not a taker... and they enjoyed the experience too

    • those I was with had expressed desires to take part in anal and they thoroughly enjoyed what happened the problem is it's not for everyone, some dont like, some enjoy it some love it... it can be as safe as any other sexual act...

  • I love it. I've had it as the giver and as the receiver, and both are a lot of fun.

    I first started enjoying it when the girl I was seeing suggested we try it. My smaller than average penis length and girth made vaginal intercourse problematic for us, and she was curious about anal but knew she didn't want to try with an average or larger-size penis. She loved the naughtiness of it while I loved how tightly her sphincter gripped my penis. We both orgasmed from it. Eventually she expressed an interest in penetrating me. She told me how sexy I looked sucking cock and how hot I looked moaning in pleasure being penetrated by her.

    I had told her when we started dating that I was bi-curious and assumed she'd forgotten about it until she asked me if I'd ever considered receiving anal from a guy. She told me she's normally submissive with men but I brought out her dominant side and she saw me more like another girl. She pleaded with me to trust her and I eventually did when I agreed to have sex with an old fuck buddy of hers.

    He was endowed with 7.5" with 6" girth so very thick. He had a lot of thick body hair and unshaven pubic hair and a musky odor quite unlike mine. She had invited him to get undressed and lay in bed for us and we walked in together. Then she asked me to undress for him and he stared as I stripped myself naked. He hadn't had an orgasm in weeks and she'd promised him I was a virgin and in a way I was. He pressed inside me very slowly but once he was fully in he kept growing thicker as I cried out in fear and gazed at my girlfriend who feasted on the sight. She told me how beautiful I was and not to fight it. I did and I eventually learned to enjoy orgasming from it.

  • Nope, I have no interest.

  • Try to make the loop and hit the appendix...

  • I love it but it has to be done with a lot of lube on him and inside me and he has to go slow putting it in me until it's all the way in and has stretched me. After that he can pound me as hard as he wants and it feels great!!

  • No way. I'm not crazy

  • Noooope. Exit only.

    • How often does poop come out of you? Lol

    • Often enough?

    • That’s good. You don’t want filled with poop

  • No thank you. If Id like Anal then Id be gay. Not my thing I find it disgudying.

    • disgusting sorry typo

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