Do you have to be a dominatrix to wear leather/latex?

I think latex/leather is sexy as and am considering buying an outfit for some kinky fucking. But I'm a sub, so I'm wondering- he's not gonna get the wrong idea, is he? He's not gonna assume I plan on getting dominant? Cuz I'm NOT dominant, I just wanna wear the sexy costume. Thoughts?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Why not let him know before hand?
    As a sub he could force you to wear latex as something degrading rather then powerful it just depends on how you see things. He coukd also tweak it around and make jt more sub like such as the addition of a gag ball.

    • Oh I WANT to wear that costume. Just not be dominant. But I agree, you could play around with it. Get a collar and cat ears or something :3

    • I think i found what your looking for.
      Just not an actual place to buy it.
      https://www.pinterest.com/pin/485544403549003779/

    • That's awesome :) Thanks.

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  • Go ahead and wear it. If he's offended, you'll get punished. Is that a bad thing? I think not.

    • Thanks AustinMan! :DD A truly useful comment from a dominant guy!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Leather kind of inspires you to act the part.
    I'm submissive too, but putting on a little black always makes me want to shake things up a little.

    • Hey! :D Very good observation and words! :D

  • Yup. Dominatrix and leather go hand in hand. The leather wips I guess.

    • I won't have the whip, rest assured.

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  • No you don't have to

  • Ohh... kinky task mistress.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mXmrE-mIPzg



    No but it does have such an association lol

    • OMG!! I freaked out! That is so scary! Those slave things...*shakes violently and hides under a blanket*

    • PLEASE TASK MISTRESS! SPARE MY SOUL! I DIDN'T MEAN TO!

    • I am so scared right now. That was worse than Grave Encounters, Wolf Creek and Hostel combined.

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  • go dominant!!! it's better!!!

    • ^ He's a feminine guy who wants to be shorter , weaker , more frail and more feminine btw. He does his nails.

    • @Illusive_Man yes i am... is it bad?

    • just saying you are an exception lol Its not bad its just not what most men are.

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  • get a colar. ya I have a latex fetish shiii.
    you can buy it, who cares if you are dominant or not. if your guy likes it he will definitely go skyrockets

    • Yeah colar! Good idea :) That will drive it home. He's dominant usually, so hopefully you're right.

    • you can even go cat cosplay if your costume is full black. just be creative

    • Another awesome idea! :D I like living up to my name.

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  • Yes, latex gives the impression of being a domina.

  • @rUinSAYAN

    Damnnnnn. Smart af

    Yea O. P get a dog collar, its hot too

    • when it comes to being creative I got dis. I could be a p*rn regisseur, I would boom! this area

    • *po. rn director*

  • Leather is sometimes sexy, but its more trouble than its worth. Since you're submissive please teach my wife how to do that cause she thinks she's in charge of everything and I'm probably going to divorce her if she doesn't stop trying to rule the world!!

    • You like submissive girls? You want to be dominant in bed? Does she refuse to submit in bed? I might have some advise for you that will be useful, but answer those three questions first.

  • Hello,

    on the internet you see a lot of dominant lady`s wearing latex. But i am a sub to and i wear it as much as posible. see my picture :) you can be bothe.

    Do you have to be a dominatrix to wear leather/latex?
  • Nah.

  • No you don't. Dominant women are my type, but if a woman wanted me to dominate her, wearing latex would increase her chances.

  • Latex is for both dom & sub.

  • You should get dominant, I think it'd be sexy for you to do that

    • I'm sure he would like that, but I am revolted at the thought of dominating a man. For me to dominate a man I must have no respect for him and think of him as pathetic weak scum. And I would only ever do it to get what I want. I couldn't do that to someone I love and respect. I'd be turned off from that person forever. They'd be just my bitch, no longer my man.

    • You have a very skewed way of looking at things

    • Indeed. But I cannot help how I feel. You cannot tell a sub to be dominant. And you cannot tell a dom, to be submissive. Can you go up to a gay person and tell him to fuck a girl? No. Can you go up to a straight guy and tell him to fuck another guy? No. So why should this be different. I know my sexuality. I am straight (flexible) and submissive. I am repulsed by the idea of being dominant. As, I'm sure, other sexualities out there feel about doing something they are against. So it's not that weird.

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