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Do you randomly share your body count or only if asked?

I’m one of the few that body count bothers lol. So i would just prefer not to know how many a person has been with. Once i know, i just don’t even want to be there anymore lol. If its more than a handful, i’ll be disgusted. I can’t help it. I dont worry about the former competition and what they could do for the person.
When Killing The Competition Jumps To a Whole New Meaning
When Killing The Competition Jumps To a Whole New Meaning
But i look more deeply into it like, okay did they have a relationship with each person? Do they love themselves? Are they “easy”? Was everyone gapped pretty far apart? Just a bunch of questions honestly. So when it comes to sexual stuff, I rather be a “don’t ask, don’t tell kinda gal.”
Do you randomly share your body count or only if asked?
Do you randomly share your body count or only if asked?
As long as you are not keeping anything major from me like having a disease or having kids running around out there, just dont tell me. If he tells me that he’s done anal, i won't even be able to bring myself to suck his dick. Lmao.
Do you randomly share your body count or only if asked?
I for sure didn’t want to know about how many people the guy I’m currently into has been with. But shit i was snooping a while back and intentionally crossed something that was said, so now i know. Maybe i should become the “don’t go looking for trouble and you won’t find it” type of gal. But shit I’m just relieved that he hasn't been with more than a handful 💪😂💪 So woohoo!! 🤣
Do you randomly share your body count or only if asked?

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  • Oh I agree I don't don't randomly share such info ,. But have let it out once or twice like today randomly explaining myself ,
    I also would rather not hear all the heap of the last lover and don't want to be reminded that I'm having oral sex with a lady that has slept with so and so it makes me nausea and that's a move on for me, I feel this way I'm not gay and don't even like the thought of eating after another man. So no you are not the only one,

    • Like no one wants to think of leftovers haha

    • Yhea really love making is a private and person venture between two hungry souls that is a sacred thing between the two.

  • For me it doesn't matter we all have a past and their decision they have made or will make is theirs. For the record I personally do not have one night stands. Everyone that I have slept with I have known and had or have a personal connection with. I am a huge flirt that loves pushing the flirting to the point that women want more and the only way they can is to spend the time it takes to get to know me.

    • Yea thats the only reason its kinda important to me is cause i worry about if they take sex seriously and have ons or not

    • Yeah, I love LOVE women, first and foremost I respect them and want them to know that and know they don't have to settle for anything less. I know women that like one night stands and I respect that and don't look at them or treat them any different. I like people and I like them for them, who they are. This is just me and I understand a lot of people have one night stands and sleep with people that they don't know. Their choice and their life. There's not one person who I have slept with though that regrets it and that's why I have a good relationship with everyone I slept with.

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  • I ask and tell, many guys get sad when I say, I'd rather just end it before I get too attached.

    It isn't a first date kind of thing though, more like six or so.

    I only have issues if he has a way higher number than me, OR he keeps in contact with the former partners. That seems like he could be roaching on me.

    • Yea keeping in contact with ex partners is nuts

  • I've never asked as it was never any of my business. What counted was that he was clean std free and was going to do his best to fuck my brains out which might happen just this once or many times which obviously can't answer

  • I don't ask. If asked, I say a lot, most were girls that I thought I really liked and that liked me. Some were weak moments.

    • Not such a bad description

  • It depends on who's doing the asking, its a personal question.

    • Oh i see

  • Always been more of an introvert... I only tell when asked, and I never seem to ask enough

    • Lmao you better start asking

    • Hahaaaa yes!

  • Don't ask, don't tell.

    I've never cared about nor asked a girlfriend's body count. None have ever asked me, either. For me, that's either a sign of immaturity, jealousy, or some kind of hang up about sexuality.
    I'd consider it a red flag if a girl asked about my "body count".

    Frankly, I don't want to hear about my partner's former partners. That's in the past. If she wants to talk about them, it means that she still thinks about them. And I would consider it to be extremely bad form to talk about former girlfriends with a partner unless it was just in passing. I mean, I've told my wife about former girlfriends, but only in the context of some other story. Like "I went to a [particular] concert one time with a girl. That concert was amazing!" She's mentioned former boyfriends in that kind of context, too. My wife and I are both grown ups. It would be weird if neither of us had ever been in relationships before in our lives and had lots of sex.

    Every one of my girlfriends had had sex before. It's part of the human experience.

    • I dont see it as immaturity and stuff if they ask but i see them wanting to know if we’re on the same level of not just fcking anything that walks

    • It's immature because it's an indication that the person asking isn't old enough to have had a life. I think the idea of unused cock or pussy is absurd. All I know is, if some girl seriously asked me that question, I'd run fast. I don't want nothing to do with someone like that.

    • Yea but i have no problem with it being “used”. I just care about if they give themselves away easily. I dont see that as having self respect. But we’ll agree to disagree

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  • I try not to disclose that information unnecessarily.

    • I understand

  • That would assume I actually knew myself.

  • There is no such thing as a good answer to that question.

    • Lmao how not

    • Too few, too many... Who, why, what...

    • I definitely rather they have too few. And no i dont wanna know what they did with them lmao

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  • I don't have an issue telling but I'm not asking because I know myself. I'd obsess over it so I'd rather not know at all.

    • Yes i fear that 😭

    • Tell , what's your body count?

  • yes, zero. the right will understand my choice

    • right one***

    • I respect it and believe more should wait. Sex is overrated anyways

    • thank you girl!

  • I sure don't go around randomly telling people about these things...

    it will be only till a certain time and moment with someone that I'm getting involved with that these topics will come out, and if they're interested or curious and they ask... then it will be discussed, IF it is pertinent...

    • Understood

    • but, "body count" is a term that makes me cringe big time... if I heard someone telling me that in real life, I would just turn around and walk away... lol

  • If I’m asked then I’ll tell whoever asked me.

  • I don't always answer even when I'm asked.

    As for wives and girlfriends (may they never meet 😉), it always just comes out naturally in the course of the relationship. It's not because I'm interested in the actual number, it's because I'm interested in the story of her life. Her past and mine do in fact say something about who we are now.

    • Damn i bet thats awkward not answering when asked lmao

    • If it is awkward, so be it.

  • i won’t beg for it but i kinda prefer to ask and if they want to know mine i’ll tell as well.

    • Thats cool

  • I would be your favourite pick, you'd be the first one haha 👍.
    Okay so now I understand where the title of the movie "The Dirty Dozen" comes from 😂

    • Lmao dirty dozen? Huh

    • A movie about 12 criminals!

  • I'll only tell if I'm asked

    • I get it :)

    • Tell , what's your body count?

    • I'm not telling a random stranger on the internet. I don't know you

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  • In real life no. On gag very often.

    • Yea we’re all pretty open here

  • If asked and maybe not even then

    • I understand

  • I don't know what it is and would not tell if asked.
    I wouldn't ask a partner either.

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