Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do you think its rude to cum in a girls mouth without even discussing it with her first?
Anonymous
A guy I have had a crush on for a while now went to my friends party with me lastnight. We have hung out a few times before and have even made out a few times. Late last night after a few hours of partying he and I found our way into a vacant spare bedroom at my friends house. We were kissing and one thing led to another and before we knew it he was naked and i was just in my thong. I kinda hinted to him I didn't want to have sex yet but I would give him a blowjob if he wanted. Naturally he did not decline so after a few more min of kissing and touching I made my way down and started pleasing him. I sucked him for probably 30 sec and he pulled out really fast. I asked him if everything was ok and he said he was good but wanted me to lay on my back so i did. He straddled me and started sliding himself betwwen my boobs for probably another 30 sec then went back in my mouth. I litteraly sucked 3 or 4 more strokes and felt him start cumming in my mouth. No warning whatsoever just a mouth full of cum. I was in shock for one that he came so fast and 2 because he just came in my mouth. This was only the second blowjob I have ever givin in my life and for sure the first time i had cum in my mouth. I was faced with a delimma, I had to either keep it in my mouth while I got dressed and went down the hall to spit it out in the bathroom and risk someone seeing me, or spit it in the floor of my friends guest room, or swallow it. Well before i could concider the first two options he asked me a question so in order to anwser I just gulped it down real fast and acted like I liked it. We laid there talking for probably 30 min and then he helped me get off with his finger and mouth before we both passed out. The next day (sober) I was thinking that what he did was kinda rude and should have talked with me about it first. Do you think it was kinda messed up he would just take it upon himself to make that decision? I do forgive him but I still think it was rude.
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9 28Yeah that's rather rude, he should have at least had the decency to ask you if he could cum in your mouth.
I ask before I cum , she almost always swallows but the first few times she didn't which is why I still ask.
Just tell him it was rude and to ask first next time if it happens again.
You raise an often over looked question. We ask 'spit or swallow' as if cumming in the mouth is a given.
For me, if a girl initiates oral, it seems as if she is ok with cum in her mouth. But ALWAYS a man should say 'I'm going to cum' giving her an option.
Yeah, good point. I assume the same thing: if a woman has my penis in her mouth, I assume she is ok with the taste of cum and the thought/feeling of cum being in her mouth. I've never been with a woman who didn't understand what happens and what to expect when she stimulates a man to orgasm.
Whyd anyone talk about that? When it happens, it happens lol hell Id do that without asking too
Of course he should've asked you first! You should've spit the cum onto him and told him to deal with his own mess if he's gonna be a prick. At a minimum, he should've given you a few seconds to prepare.
Ladies, here is something to consider if you choose to; from the moment a guy goes down on you until the end (and in my case beyond) he has all your juices in his mouth, swirling around, going down his throat, in his nose all over his face. My conclusion; Sex is dirty, messy (name it) only if you do it properly. I personally don't wash my face right away, or brush my teeth because I love your smells, and how your pussy tastes. Having said that, I do ask my woman if she has a preference (not those words) or at least tell her I'm going to cum. If I don't know or just too lost in her, I pull out and cum all over her breasts. Though a few times they grabbed my cock and aimed it back at their mouth, tongue, face... Go figure
It's not his fault she didn't want it. If a girl is sucking dick and doesn't want cum in her mouth she has the right to tell him not to cum in her mouth. But she didn't do that so the guy won't take a precaution to speak up
Having cum in your mouth is all apart of a blowjob. I personally don't believe a guy should ask to cum in a girls mouth. The girl should obviously know that it's going to come out at any moment.
Also I think maybe because this was your first time doing it that's why u felt that way. Once you get more experienced you'll find out when a guy is gonna cum by the way his moans increase and the pulse of his dick will start racing. You would have the right to get upset if u told him before hand to let u know when he's about to cum
Next time open your mouth and tell the guy dont cum in your mouth then, like what you think was gonna happen
Yeah, that’s rude. My partner would never give me one again if I came in her mouth.
how old are you?
i am 17
I think, even to make a girl suck on a cock is rude... Mouth is not a sexual organ, ass either... Just pussy. But people want to enter in every hole... Okay i respect people, but i won't do this. And i am just a person who waits for the marriage. I will just have sex with my future woman.
Ok this wasn't even an answer to the question
When I got my first blow job, and whenever I get blow jobs, I always let her know that I'm about to "go", usually can tell by his facial expressions that he's about to, but, it's best to just trust his words (if he says he's about to). She can decide then and there, what she wants to do. The very girl I ever had, wound up staying on it, taking it, and swallowed. I was very happy she did but, I wonder if other girls are like this, or just her?
Stop complaining. You don't see any guy making a big deal when we're lapping away your pussy juices.
If you didn't want it then don't suck dick.
It just happens
Tell him you don't like it and where you would like his cum