Do you think that "hot" people don't put in as much effort in the bedroom because they don't really "need" to?
SydneySentinelGuru
So I have a friend that hooked up with a really hot firefighter. She said that even though he was hot, the sex was just "meh" even though he didn't seem to think of it that way though. She said that he seemed like one of those guys that's had a lot of sex and has never had to try because he's so good looking. So, do you think there is some truth to this? Maybe they think you're lucky enough to have landed them so they don't work it.
That's something I've always said. It's not a rule but hot guys are used to have many girls throwing themselves on them ~ making all the effort in the bedroom to please them ~ so they get selfish. They start to think that's the normal and eventually take for granted sex. Guys who rarely have sex tend to make more efforts, to value more the moment, making the woman's pleasure his own.
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ThatsamazingGuru
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Depends on how hot your friend is or isn't.
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moststrangestguyXper 5
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If the guys is more attractive he will have to do less to make you orgasm si id say yes
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poneglyphsGuru
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Nah i think they do
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loveslongnailsMaster
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Sounds perfectly reasonable to me, especially if there's empirical data to back it up.
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Xylem1992Xper 6
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I dont think there's rule that governs everybodys... performance. your theory is interesting and makes sense, to a degree, but in the end its just a theory
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dbr1987Xper 5
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I only think this is true for people with low eq. And shallow people that are pretty. Narcissist are amazing in bed because they want to be seen as amazing lovers. Narcissists are most of the time pretty or at least groomed (overt). Psychopaths also good lovers most of the time. Beautifull people in the autism spectrum will at least try but i had sex with 3 autistic girls, pretty and where amazing lovers. Bpd b*tches, amazing in bed, pretty or not😉 so don't judge a book by it's cover in this case
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motownplayer2000Guru
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Yes, that has been my experience. Most women in particular, but the "hot" ones.. the ones that spend a million hours in the mirror putting on makeup to take a selfie for the gram and try to land the cutest, hottest guy as a trophy. They usually do tend to be complete dead fishes in bed. Dont know how to use what God gave them. But then will go out and complain that the men they slept with were no go... lol this is why when I search for women, it's usually the ones that are hard working and have the right personality character. That will usually tell me what they are like all throughout their lives.
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soleil2666Xper 7
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I don't know. But then I never put effort into it 🤣 It did appear good to me - and when the woman was hot as well, I didn't expect much effort. With someone you are not sufficiently attracted to though, it just doesn't work out at all - there's nothing that can be done to improve it (except them getting more fit - as harsh as that may sound to some)
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COMMODOREIIMaster
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I think people like this don't put much effort in anything. They get handed quite a bit and expect people to wait on them hand and foot. That's why they are harder to date because their standards are so high that they are sometimes unrealistic.
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pizzalovershouseMaster
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🤣🤣🤣 just depends on 1s personality
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JuxtaposeMaster
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For some hot people, yes.
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GreenGold1992Master
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yeah
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BoxySamaExplorer
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That is not true, I am very knowledgeable
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anton_deeXper 6
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Kinda true
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LotusinwaterXper 5
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They still need to they just think they don’t haha just like a dude with a huge willy thinks he doesn’t have to work at it
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ivbnlknfruXper 6
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I'd have to agree, most guys like that are full of themselves...
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green1supremacyXper 4
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Think this occurs in quite a few aspects in life as well...
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Dolemite510Xper 7
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Maybe ur friend just wasn’t worth putting in a lot of effort with, I’ve had girls like that before 😂
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TheAteam1978Xper 5
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I've had some of the worst sex with gorgeous women. Not to discriminate but they were all white girls.
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9 39That's something I've always said. It's not a rule but hot guys are used to have many girls throwing themselves on them ~ making all the effort in the bedroom to please them ~ so they get selfish. They start to think that's the normal and eventually take for granted sex.
Guys who rarely have sex tend to make more efforts, to value more the moment, making the woman's pleasure his own.
Depends on how hot your friend is or isn't.
If the guys is more attractive he will have to do less to make you orgasm si id say yes
Nah i think they do
Sounds perfectly reasonable to me, especially if there's empirical data to back it up.
I dont think there's rule that governs everybodys... performance. your theory is interesting and makes sense, to a degree, but in the end its just a theory
I only think this is true for people with low eq. And shallow people that are pretty. Narcissist are amazing in bed because they want to be seen as amazing lovers. Narcissists are most of the time pretty or at least groomed (overt). Psychopaths also good lovers most of the time. Beautifull people in the autism spectrum will at least try but i had sex with 3 autistic girls, pretty and where amazing lovers. Bpd b*tches, amazing in bed, pretty or not😉 so don't judge a book by it's cover in this case
Yes, that has been my experience. Most women in particular, but the "hot" ones.. the ones that spend a million hours in the mirror putting on makeup to take a selfie for the gram and try to land the cutest, hottest guy as a trophy. They usually do tend to be complete dead fishes in bed. Dont know how to use what God gave them. But then will go out and complain that the men they slept with were no go... lol this is why when I search for women, it's usually the ones that are hard working and have the right personality character. That will usually tell me what they are like all throughout their lives.
I don't know. But then I never put effort into it 🤣
It did appear good to me - and when the woman was hot as well, I didn't expect much effort.
With someone you are not sufficiently attracted to though, it just doesn't work out at all - there's nothing that can be done to improve it (except them getting more fit - as harsh as that may sound to some)
I think people like this don't put much effort in anything. They get handed quite a bit and expect people to wait on them hand and foot. That's why they are harder to date because their standards are so high that they are sometimes unrealistic.
🤣🤣🤣 just depends on 1s personality
For some hot people, yes.
yeah
That is not true, I am very knowledgeable
Kinda true
They still need to they just think they don’t haha just like a dude with a huge willy thinks he doesn’t have to work at it
I'd have to agree, most guys like that are full of themselves...
Think this occurs in quite a few aspects in life as well...
Maybe ur friend just wasn’t worth putting in a lot of effort with, I’ve had girls like that before 😂
I've had some of the worst sex with gorgeous women. Not to discriminate but they were all white girls.