Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I've heard several people say this. They say you should sleep around while you're young, before settling down, so that when you do settle down, you don't feel like you've missed out on being with other people, or so that you don't cheat on your partner because you need to sleep with others.
What's your opinion on this?
What Girls & Guys Said
36 46you want to set an example for your kids when you settle down. anything you do now can be held against you and you're viewed as a hypocrite. you should think this through.
Why viewed as a hypocrite?
because, you can't tell your children off in the future if you did the exact same thing.
I don't think it's good to sleep around because of STD's and everything but I think you should have some dating experience & know what you want before settling down.
Yes - because a person like me with an active imagination will fantasise and I am glad I have de-mystified sex and casual relationships.
Now I know that my partner is the best and no one out there is worth loosing him for.
Also, I know what I like and my partner happens to fit the criteria experience has taught me.
One thing I can guarantee is that I will never be unfaithful.
Not for moral reasons.. but because there is not point ! lol
Have you considered becoming an English teacher?
honestly to each their own.
B is probably the most correct thing, but even going out with multiple people is not an absolute must.
Sleeping around I'd never do, for sure :o
Not necessarily … a lot of people decide to stay with their very first or second partner for life. I think a lot of it's to do with getting in to a relationship and thinking it'll be long term, and it just doesn't work out how you thought. So you carry on meeting people who you may fall in love with, and it often doesn't work out, and eventually you find your long term partner.
I'd say date around certainly, and if everyone is cool with it sleep around.
Thing I've noticed amongst my friends, the ones who settled down early (one girlfriend at 18-21 until now) have ended up having serious fantasies about getting with attractive women everywhere. I was on a bachelor party last week and it was disturbing the indifference they treated their spouses with - let's just say they crossed lines.
There was a huge difference between us who did have fun when we were younger and those who didn't. It was so obvious that we all had a discussion about it.
Nah, you devalue yourself massively.
If there is one thing we are sure about in this god forsaken life... is that our soul/body is here to experience things... otherwise are you really living?
With that, if you so choose to, a healthy constructive amount of sex is a good thing. It seems to have a positive effect on people growing up
Just listen to this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-DtHBQrQn8I voted A. Get out there, get some dating and sexual experience under your belt before you settle down.
Most people that don't experience enough when they are younger, end up wanting to "experiment" later (even if said person is married).
I'm sure you won't mind if you end up getting married to a slut
Better than dating a sexually repressed prude who ends up cheating
That logic makes no sense to me.
I dont see why
yes you should experience others
No, I see no point in that
men - yes
women - no
say what you want, men who sleep around often make better partners
while slutty women are far from that if anything.
iam gonna get so much hate but fk it iam not here to please anyone
I love you man, because you did not fear getting attacked by feminist idiots and you spoke the absolute fucking TRUTH
@Hungry_Shark its just how i see it playin in real life outside of the internet , guys who sleep around still get married and they often search for younger virgin girls and these girls love them as well its like being a guy and having sex means nothing at all girls dont care and even prefer it and are proud to be dating the guy who other girls want. Now as a girl the same guy who had sex with you will call you a slut, and brag about pushing his dick so far down your throat he could see it in your neck, girls who sleep around and never repsected, they can can cry as much as they want but no one respects them or takes them seriously unless its a guy with no options at all and he has to settle for such a girl. we keep repeating it but no one really listens, i have friends and non of them respects the girls they had sex with, in fact once a girl gives head at least 5-10 other guys will know in a matter of a couple days.
You are so darn right, There was this chic who slept with entire town and then she meets my handsome rich tall friend and starts acting all loyal and pure, But my friend ain't an idiot who will make this slit his girlfriend, These women are just good for sex and then they should be tossed aside like garbage, I completely agree that even players want pure virgin girls to marry and settle down
@Hungry_Shark such girls will always exist and guys will always want them... for pure sexual needs they won't dream about marrying them, they're wanted and needed but not for the reasons they think they are wanted for, slutty girls who sleep around often believe that cause men are after them then finding a hot rich boyfriend is easy.. i mean if everyone wants you how hard is it finding a good partner? but they miss one fact, these men want sex they aren't into anything serious. i've been there, my friends have been there and so have been many guys, we've all met some girls who have had their fair share of fun and suddenly they started acted pure around us, in all honesty iam a pretty nice, respectful and loyal guy and girls say iam also really good looking, and i make an effort to stay in shape and iam used to girls acting so innocent around me to the point that they act like they have never heard the word sex before (happened btw)
LOL I had a chic who started doing level excercises and used to always clench her pus*y so that when I have sex with her, i should think of her as she is a virgin and make her my girlfriend, Guess what, i already knew from my friends she was hanging all over some dude and I eventually dumped her and she now maybe realised what mess she had made, coz now I heard that she is in a rehab
*kegel exercises
@Hungry_Shark lol it always amazes me how the same girls that fight to be able to sleep around do everything in their power to make themselves as virginal as possible in order to get a good guy, its like at some point they realise that their personal opinion is really irrelevant when it comes to dating, the only opinion that matters is that of the guy she wants to date.
Hahahaha that's because these women have low self esteem and can sleep with anyone, Hands on my heart, ANYONE They can sleep with a homeless old man, they can sleep with cab driver, i mean all you have to do is just show them some interest and they will literally stand naked in front of you to get penetrated like a bitch , I mean it really amazes me no matter these feminist slurs are on which continent or which country, they all act same The opinion of the guy they want to date is above everything in her life, she will completely transform herself into a pretzel to impress the guy. I mean this is fckd up
@Hungry_Shark so far i've been able to see the other side of these girls, the side in which they try to act so innocent and pure to be taken serious as potential girlfriend, the slutty side i haven't been very lucky with cause girls usually seem to want to date me not casually sleep with me. my friends though... they're regarded as less attractive by every girl i know but they get more action than me, but when it comes to something serious they're not what girls seem to go for so who knows lol
These slurs bang average looking guy in the background, but when it comes to their boyfriend, they want a good looking rich guy, I mean fck that noise
@Hungry_Shark oh well guys are much simpler in that manner they will bang anything they can get their hands on lol
Not me, If a woman is trying hard to prove herself to me or I see any other red flag, i reject her I'm not sex hungry, i don't like to have sex without knowing someone, I like to make love not have sex, and it requires time and effort, The late the sex, the more strong bond will be created, the earlier the sex, the weaker bond is created which can be broken very easily
Yes, sleep around before settling down or you'll do AND /OR regret it after settling down.
Been clubbin, sleepin around since I'm 18. My road to catchin cooties is still in play bruh
I don't think it's mandatory for anyone
I wouldn't say it's important to sleep around, but I would say if you have a strong desire for sex you absolutely should be having a lot of it. Whether that's with a lot of different people or with an exclusive partner is up to the individual, but I think it's a bad idea to abstain if that's not true to who you are.