Do you view men and women who have lot of sexual partners the same?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Over what period of time?
If a 20 year old has run through 20 partners in their sexual lifetime, which I'd assume might be three or four years, they are bed hopping. Seven partners a year? Avoid them.
If a 50 year old has 10 partners in their 30 years of having sex, and three of them are longterm relationships, that sounds fairly normal.
But should someone who's had NO longterm relationships... not a great sign.
What I'd want to see, no matter what sex the person was, was several periods of time when the person was with one partner.
The very young probably don't value this as much as people older than 25.
If you see NO longterm relationships. I'd walk away.

Sakura-san · Accepted Answer

A guy like that wouldn’t be my choice to start a relationship with. I ain’t no judge but a person that has too much sexual partners is a major turn off for me, otherwise people are free to do what they want.

Kiss_Me · Accepted Answer

It comes down to character. I take sex seriously. Why would I date a woman that sees me as "just another guy." Stiff dick # 43. The same should apply to men as well.

There is a reason an individual fails to have or remain in a committed relationship. Having lots of partners is a big red flag they will not be worth your time. My guess they want sex first, then want to develop a relationship. Not a wise way to enter a relationship.
OR, they are just nasty people. There are to many women (and men) out there to tolerate these types of people.

RemoErdosain · Accepted Answer

No, I don't view them the same. A woman can have a lot of sexual partners no matter what she looks like, while men have to go to great lengths in order to have them. I won't say it's a great achievement for them, though

Petra150 · Answer

Ofcause sex is so important , what are we without sex , simply nothing

Hangry22 · Answer

Yeah. Both are equally prone to STDs

WesBrewer · Answer

a slutty man and a slutty woman are the same besides gender.

MrsJaximus-Lion · Answer

its none of my business

Alyssa11 · Answer

Yup. I don't see how a promiscuous man is any different to a promiscuous women. Either like to have sex with a lot of people, and I wouldn't trust them too much.

triff · Answer

If you asking me personally then its not of importance to me Why do I care of their past We all have one Statistically and society view is very different which is very sad Women are looked at a sluts Slags and other degrading names as a reflection on how many sexual relationships they have had If a guy ha had lots of sexual partners then his promoted for his conquests

TruthBringer · Answer

Absolutely not. Men and women are NOT the same. Not biologically and not socially. Society perceives a man with a high body count differently from a woman with a high body count. And this has nothing to do with double standards. It has everything to do with differences in biology. A woman's body and psyche react differently to having a high body count than that of a man. This has been scientifically proven.

Citizenkirk · Answer

The same as what, or who? I'm not understanding the question. Are the men and women mentioned, a part of the same group, and if so, who are they being compared too in this question?
Are you comparing men too woman, and if so, are they being compared too the opposite gender figuratively or literally, individually or as a gender based collective or subgroup?
I honestly want too provide a relative and helpful response, but I need a more specific context too do that.

CYNICAL_CRYPTIC · Answer

Absolutely, loose.

Walt832 · Answer

For man it take effort to convince a female.  Compare a female just saying let's go, obviously the reply will be "yes let's hit it". 🤷‍♂️.

nodnol32 · Answer

Yes. I don't judge either of them on the basis of the number of their sexual partners/body counts. Thats their business. Doesn't mean they're good of bad people.