Does Sexual History Matter?

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im_here_to_help · Accepted Answer

it does one time i was talking to this girl she lost her viriginity at 14 she had many exes. while i was talking to her she told me she had this friends with benefits she was having sex with and i told her if we were talking and if i wanted this relationship to work she will have to stop. she said thatll be easy because she didn't like him and that she was scared of him. he would force her to have sex and abuse her but at the same time she says she enjoyed it. i told her multiple times to tell me if she can stop she said that she enjoyed the sex and was also afraid of him because he has her nudes and he promised to expose her if she doesn't continue having sex with him. she is a freak i mean this girl enjoyed some freaky sex stuff so i stopped talking to her. what im saying that it depends if she had sex with a boyfriend she was with a long time then that should be ok but if she was hooking up with random people or friends with benefits then it that should be a concern

rjroy3 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely matters.
If a girl has an STD, had sex with my dad in the past, slept with a tranny. Fucked her teacher to get ahead in a job or get a good grade. Slept with 40 guys in the span of a year.

That matters to me lol. Now if it's a simple "how many people have you slept with in your entire lifetime?". Well that doesn't matter so much. But the history itself does matter. It highlights some of what her values are/were and why they are what they are now.

loveArt1983 · Accepted Answer

I think for both yes, sexual disease that sort thing, not using condoms and for me I am virgin in that area but they grill you like even now condoms are your life line. Eh. I know sounds so weird how come I know so much about relationships ugh my family could where I get consensus some of the experiences. Blatantly some sites say woman is at fault because she had multiple partners what about man he could have broken penis for all we know how many partners he had sex with could be many protected, unprotected and broken condom still broken penis is not far up paddle that got hurt... or twisted testicles.. well he like third arm right. Penis in question has ability erect like to some crazy people on internet state have will of life its own.

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Nature has designed sex to produce babies to keep life everlasting on the earth. To encourage girl and guy to produce babies - it is made pleasant and enjoyable. Producing babies is a responsibility of both - mother and father. That is why most cultures and societies do not encourage polygamy. Sexual orientation and sexual history is also important in modern age for the prevention of STDs and other social, religious and economical issues.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

It depends on the person. For some, they don't want their partner to have any sexual history at all. For others, a promiscuous past is irrelevant. Personally speaking, I don't really care. As long as my partner is clean (meaning, STD-free) and loyal to me in the relationship, then it doesn't really matter to me.

babeeeone · Accepted Answer

It matters. Especially if it looks like this picture...

DizzyDesii · Answer

I honestly rather he not have been with more than three girls. If he's a virgin, even better

amarahorrorstory · Answer

I thought this was like a sexology question

Sorenome · Answer

I'm not concerned about anything that doesn't exists. Past is one of those things.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Yeah, I'm not dating a girl who got fucked by 2 frats.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

do STDs matter? There you have it, case closed

TadCurious · Answer

It doesn't matter to me unless the girl has an STD. If she does, she's morally obligated to disclose that. But I don't care to hear about her "number" or all the details of her past sex life.

Lostinhislies · Answer

It shouldn't even be up for duscussion... what you did before you "meet the one" should have nothing to do with your current relationship. If he/she has issues with that, that's your first HUGE RED FLAG for control freaks!

Bandit74 · Answer

I don't think it's right to tell people what they should/shouldn't care about. It's up to the individual to decide. So if two people are in a relationship and neither of them cares about the other's past, then in that case it doesn't matter. However, if one or both of them cares, then it does matter and that person who cares has every right to care.