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Does the look of a vagina and tightness matter?

I'm not crazy about mine, but guys don't seem to care.
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  • Looks aren't a big deal, but tightness might make a difference. It's easier to fall out for a guy with a girl who isn't as tight, plus its a coincidence boost if she's tight. I mean you can apparently do exercises to make it tighter, but if it feels tight going in you get that feeling of 'oh I'm thicker than she's used to'.

  • It doesn't matter.. But if it's sexy looking and tight.. Thtz an advantage.

    • Thanks for MHO, sweetie...

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  • Both definitely matter to the men I've spoken to. It seems like tightness comes up more often than looks. I have a tighter than average vagina, and partners have pretty much worshiped that fact. They tend to really remember the tight girls, because the experience is amazing. It also tends to bring them back over and over no matter who they end up with that isn't as tight. I have tons of guys friends, and if you ask them about less tight girls they don't remember much. They can describe the sex with tight girls in vivid detail though years later.

    On the other hand, the most I've hear about the look of a vagina is, "I didn't really like how it looked." Then, they kept having sex with the girl. Ha ha

  • The look of a vagina doesn't matter. There are no ugly vaginas, I'm pretty sure. As for the tightness, you can tighten at will. If you're able to do that, then there is no problem. Otherwise, some men could find that unattractive, if it's too loose.

  • If she has no walls, there's no grip. & If it's been through the ringer, it does that little thing where it looks like a bunch of Vons deli meat on the outside. So , to me, it matters.

  • I have my preference when it comes to appearance, but it really doesn't matter as long as the woman is wet and wild. What I HAVE come to love, though, is a smoothly waxed hooha. I'm not crazy about hairy labia and am grossed out by a hairy butt crack.

    I never noticed a difference in different women's tightness, although some are shallower than others. So, again, it's not an issue as long as she loves fucking and I can smash her balls deep once she is warmed up. The only time tightness is apparent is when a woman feels discomfort on entry. Yes, some women can really clench a cock with their sphincter muscles. It's as if they are sucking him in or swallowing. But as long as she loves to fuck, it doesn't matter.

    In the end, I'd tell you not to worry.

  • it doesn't for me because thats not my goal for getting with a girl, and if it does get too that point im not gonna judge something that i never expected to see. i prefer just hanging out for coffee then a movie or something sex is the last thing on my mind. but i guess some girls do get bothered by what guys think but i dont think anything im not some young guy looking for the tightest lips in the world lol. i appreciate what i have if i ever get the chance to be that lucky.

  • Yes. They all look sexy and great! Tightness can be a problem, I have heard, but never personally run into it. And there are exercises that can tighten it. But different looks are part of the wonder of variety! I am willing to bet yours is very arousing and would keep most men mesmerized looking at it.

  • It doesn't matter there all unique and beautiful in there own ways

  • I don;'t think I've ever seen a vag. that wasn't miraculous. Tightness allows for a much tighter grasp you have for his cock. Rge tighter, usually the more pleasurable because your hitting more surface area

  • As long as we can fuck it and it's clean we really don't care

  • Well one of the awesome things about vulvas is that there is no one way they're supposed to look. That's because individual variation on a general theme is what's normal. Most of the discussion about appearance seems to be about the length and prominence and color of the inner labia. Every woman is unique. For some really unfortunate reason that probably has to do with porn, it's common for a lot of women to be self conscious about having longer inner labia that extend past the outer labia. To me this is a shame and puzzling to me because while I like the way all vulvas look, I'm particularly fascinated by the so-called "outies." I simply think they look more erotic and interesting. And then a lot of women are concerned about the coloration down there. But as a general rule what is normal is for both sets of labia to be at least somewhat darker than the woman's overall skin tone, although some women have pinkish inner labia especially when aroused. So all of this normal variety is something to be celebrated and the most important thing is for women to have self-acceptance and love for the most intimate part of their bodies. 🍑

  • No, although I have preferences, it doesn't matter. You can't choose how a vagina looks like. I'm not attracted to the vagina, I'm attracted to the woman.

    Same with tightness, I have had sex with a girl who was so tight it was painful for her. So too tight isn't necessarily positive either, but again, you can't choose.

    So yeah, I can have preferences, and I do have the actually, but it's not relevant when you have sex with someone. I won't be put off if it's not according to my preferences. I don't want ladies to judge me by the size of my dick, so why would I judge a woman by the looks of her vagina? Only when I watch porn and when I can choose, I would rather watch a woman with a vagina which is according to my preferences.

  • It matters to me, its just like your hair you try to look good for someone, finally winning them over finally let them have the prize all the sudden you see a disappointed look on there face then its really embarrassing if you have to ask them if it's in yet because it's so loose that they can't feel it or you them. , sorry just my opinion

  • What about the look are you dissatisfied with? Or do you just not think any of them look that good?

    • I just don't like mine

    • Do you realize that most guys probably do like yours?

    • Maybe

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  • To me personally not really :P

  • As long as there are no abnormalities, I don't care much about the appearance.
    I don't care about tightness either. Vaginas are generally the same in my experience and even if if by some chance it isn't tight, so long as I can please her, that's all that matters to me.

  • No it never did to me what so ever... But proper hygiene is must for me..

  • I think it matters sometimes, but for the most part, a ton of girls I have had weird conversations with because I am the king of the friendzone 😆 hate theirs!

    • Really?

    • Yep!!! I have quite a few female friends and they will gladly say they don't even like to look at it 😆

    • But as a guy I think it's wrong to judge, as my body can be judged just as easily and I know I'm not oerfect

  • If you want to have a better grip on the D, buy some kegel weights and do the exercises every day.
    I have seen girls who had so much strength and control that they could launch a vibrator 3m theough the air, where it was caught in flight be an astonished man.

  • The look isn't important, but a little tightness is nice.

  • No barrier for me

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