Does your partner's body count really matter. even if you are a virgin or not?

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God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

It matters, to a point, yes.

I don't require a woman to be a virgin, but I tend to think of sex as something that should only be shared by two people in a relationship. So, a woman who's been with 200 guys isn't going to work for me.

Not necessarily because I think she's "nasty" or "used up," etc, but because we obviously have different opinions about sex & intimacy. It suggests we wouldn't be compatible togather, because we have different values.

I certainly don't judge someone for having a high number of partners; that's their prorogative, and they should feel free to live how they want. I just don't think we'd make a good couple, that's all.

stepyo99 · Accepted Answer

It matters. A virgin would be ideal, but since I didn't save my virginity, I'm not going to require it from a future girlfriend. Her body count should definitely be low, though. Anything more than 5 is getting pretty ridiculous and points to major self-esteem issues, a hedonistic personality, and/or poor judgement. Not someone I'd want to involve myself in a long term relationship with.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Yes, certainly. I wouldn't have committed to a non virgin.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

When I was a virgin, I preferred a virgin.

Berethor · Answer

It one of the things that matter to me the most, as I want a good girl who is wife material.

SnowedIn · Answer

It doesn't matter to me at all. The past is the past.

Levin · Answer

I'd rather it be low or lowish.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I want a virgin but I'm starting to think that maybe ima have to adjust to the idea that maybe not

Bricealan · Answer

When I was much younger I was jealous of how much sex a girl had, but that idea soon disappeared, and the more sex they have the better I like it.

Agape93 · Answer

Doesn't matter to me in the slightest.

Dargil · Answer

Short answer, yes. Multiple partners diminish a girl's capacity to be faithful to and bond to men and children. Yes, there are  whatabouts,  but I answered your question.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, not at all. We all have a history, some just have more pages than others in their book.

bowenw · Answer

It does not matter to me. Personally I find it best not get into details about each other's past sexual encounters.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Yes it matters.

Idontknowtoo · Answer

Anything over 5 is scary business

clampfan101 · Answer

Her being virgin like me sounds very nice, but as long as she doesn’t have any toxic exes following her I can put her body count aside. What matters is her life with me here and now.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Well, your body count is usually zero when you are a virgin.. you can do mouth stuff, anal stuff or hand stuff. That’s up to the discretion of the man to decide if he counts that or not.