For women who prefer average sized penises, what if the perfect guy is too big?

Okay I believe most women prefer average sized dicks. I listen to women talk, also I know it takes much confidence in yourself and effort to take a big dick. I've had at least five in my life and I know it's not for lazy or simple girls. With this I conclude it's not for just any girl.

But what if you really like a guy, like he's perfect, looks, personality, intellect, height, good job, nice hair and he treats you right, then you find out he has a above average cock? When I was a masseuse a hot guy came in for a hand job, I was new and when I went back around the back, the girls started laughing because they know he has a huge one.

They started wondering if anyone wanted him because to them it was deal breaker, and they think that's why he came to brothels. I have met two really hot guys online that I liked, when they sent me dick pics, it looks like they would be a lot of work in sex. One of them is my FB friends right now and he posts romantic stuff, we are same sign.

Do not get me wrong, sex with a well endowed man is possible, but as I said it's not for everyone and you maybe won't be able to do it everyday. Would you take a guy who lacks many qualities but average in size, or perfect in every other way but a lot of work in bed?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • With proper arousal (including love hormones flowing), relaxation and lubrication, the vagina can stretch to fit like any girth as big as a large first. More than that you probably need to be having an actual baby for the right kinds of hormones, and the baby will almost surely hurt.

    But a fist, most women could take if they so chose to do all the work.

    The real deal is more in length. The vagina really only goes so deep before you whack the cervix, and that shit can just hurt. So big dick guy may just have to learn how not to bottom out.

    Honestly, it's not because women all have these huge loose baggy overfucked vaginas. The vagina really is made to accommodate even a pretty damned large penis if the situation calls for it. It just takes planning and knowledge and a little retrain on dude's part.

    Doesn't mean every woman WANTS a big dick guy.

    But the situation of women dealing with small and large dicks is just not nearly as bad as men think it is.

    • When you meet a truly large cock that is fully erect you will see why doctors have to give them cock rings. I am not scared of cocks and I have met some that will make you run away from the man, he'll have to chase and catch you. These kind of men need a special woman who will do all the work. Too many half erect penises out there thinking they are doing something, I've met those too, boring and useless thinking he is doing something, a tiny one will do a better job than a soft donkey penis. As for child's birth, it's a miracle and our bodies adjust just before it's time so it happens a lot more naturally than a person shoving a fist up there.

    • Yeah, most of the fems I've been with have accommodated big and small. Now one female I knew told me she had a small vagina, and I've seen some porn hoes with that kind of vagina. Even with lube, it doesn't want to house big meat, and they are especially obvious in their lack of enjoyment of having it in there.

  • I'm rather tight and also somewhat shallow, suppose. Even after having a baby. So, having sex with an average sized one hurts if he is too rough. That's okay, of course. But I need to take care before it goes that far. A really big one would perhaps be impossible for me to enjoy.

    But, I don't think it would be a deal breaker for me. There are other activities which could make up for it. Nevertheless, I would honestly be more concerned about him. I mean, it's possible he wouldn't be satisfied with no penetration at all. I would try to make it work though.

    • Maybe you're dry or not fully. Average dicks are perfect, ask your doctor if you don't believe me. A huge cock, a real huge one is a ridiculous girth that is like fisting. If you feel pain due to average size you need a doctor or to speak to a sex therapist, you had a baby so that doesn't make sense.

    • >Not fully aroused<

    • I wish my ex was like you. She dumped me because of my average size. Im 6in length and 4.6in girth

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  • What you say makes a lot of sense, good on you for challenging the thinking of the many sexual daydreamers in this world of ours who are not as comfortable about their sexual ability/knowledge as they like to portray.

    As a westerner living in Asia, where average penis sizes are generally comparatevely quite small, I find it necessary to be especially sensitive & considerate with Asian girls so it's not pyhsically uncomfortable for them. There are lots of ways to be imaginatively creative with the penis to help sexual lovemaking be beautifully pleasurable.

    Go girl, keep on sharing your sexual thoughts & knowledge with those of us who are open minded about sexual etiquette & the fact that lovemaking pleasure between a couple is greatly enhanced if each person wants it to be a special sexual experience for their partner everytime.

  • Look, most women would never experience sex with a guy who drops wayyyyy above average in lenght and girth. You'll not receive accurate answers from them and unfortunately plenty people here on GaG want to compare the way the female body respond to a baby during child birth with how much dick it can take. It doesn't work that way. During child birth the female body waste a lot of energy in the process, during sex it has limits. Any penis size of 8 inches and more will certainly hit the cervix easily, a girth with more than 5.5 inches will cause pain (because of the friction, which can lead to vaginal tears and dangerous infections).

    • I peed blood for months because of a huge cock and that is why I asked this question. I am a healthy, experienced woman who was very confident and that happened to me. My doctor told me that some penises are too large and I should just stay away from them. He said no lubrication method will change that reality but i am being accused of being a troll.

    • Outside of porn the monsters cocks are a myth. My size is small when I compare it with them, and I am glad for that. Maybe you should do a MyTake from the topic, not only based on your personal experience, some scientific or medical data would be great. Here on GaG several people think a vagina is this big black hole.

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  • Whatever big you think, it will never able to beat the size of a baby... so just remember that

    • Not the same thing. wouldn't it be glorious if that were the case.

    • The point is thr vagina can extend to a size you cannot imagine... So stop worrying it will do the job. And at the end of day, women do not reached by vaginal penetration but stimulation. And. orgasm. is reached with fulfilment. not. pleasure.

    • These things I know, and by the way if a man find the correct angle she can orgasm from penetration, it is just rare for most women. But I will tell you again, some men are too big, I think this is something many people do not talk about.

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  • This is one hell of a difficult question.
    The truth is I don't know.
    Maybe if I'm really really reeeeeeaaaaally in love then I'd take the risk.

    • I think I would too, but then what if it causes help issues? It's a deal breaker if his prick is tiny like my pinky too, but I think very few people consider the other extreme which is also heart breaking and can be disappointing. As I said my FB friend is the one that made me think of this, he actually said it was his penis and it makes me wonder if that's the problem he has why he's hot and single.

  • This would be a difficult predicament and I hope I've never in this situation! Someone on the big side of average would be okay but if he was actually BIG, it could be a problem. Eitherway, if it was a man I really wanted to have a serious relationship with, we would figure it out together.

    • That's what I am telling these men who think they're bigger than they really are. There's micro, small, average, a little over average which is fine and then truly large. These men are rare but they exist. There are women who face this problem, this is also the reason I would never marry before sex, I read about such a story and it was heartbreaking because she felt she found the one.

  • it just takes time getting used to it AND lots and lots of practice.

    after a big guy, you will find average to be inadequate...

    • Not true, big doesn't stretch you out, it goes right back to normal size and a tiny man can fit after unless the girl had an issue before. This is why I asked what would the woman do, it doesn't change your size but your nerves can adjust a bit or you just fall for him and get more receiving to make it easier. But this is a lot of work, many women aren't cut out for, for too many reasons to list.

    • you are right.. i was focusing on myself...

    • Thanks for standing up for the bigger guys Wing

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  • That's up to the person really. I'm sure most women would be alright trying to get used to a big cock if they knew the person attached was their right person for them.

    • I'm talking about a person with a giant cock, too many men think they're bigger than they really are. I'm talking about a man you can't just slip it in with even when you're wet and horny. A lot of women can't fuck and have anxiety during sex, they are too dry for even a small one , wanted to hear what would go through their minds if they met a man with a monster, but they're too phony and or boring to answer. No wonder they lack growth and understanding of themselves.

    • So you think all women should be able to take a monster cock then?

    • Also even then, most women, I believe, try to work something out to keep the man they want to be with outside of all of that cock they are afraid of.

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  • I met a guy who I really liked and got along with who was larger.
    If he didn't turn out to be like the rest I would have tried to make it work with him.
    But I think eventually he would have gone on to cheat. Hitting the cervix isn't fun and I don't care what anyone says I definitely don't like it.
    But it wasn't fun for him long-term because he was only using a portion of his member.
    It was probably satisfying to him hearing me moan the way I did when I felt pain.
    Probably was even enjoyable to him knowing he was going that far.
    I knew he always needed to go that much further.
    Sex is a big thing in a relationship, which I'm all for. It's not for me.

    • Many girls have said it is a deal breaker, but the problem is I think many women will call anything big to stroke the man's ego. I, being bi... don't think many women will with ease handle monster cocks for many reasons, so I was wondering what they'd do if the man of their dreams was too much to handle.

    • I personally don't want a monster one. They're scary and intimidating. The best lover I ever had was average, he knew how to use it and there was so pain. We were able to have fun with ease. My anatomy doesn't allow for those bigger ones and I accept that. And the fear alone dries me up. Generally in my experience the larger guys prefer pounding more. I presume the nerve endings have further to go so it's not as sensitive. The fact they swing like that means it probably rubs against trouser fabrics desensitizing it much like when a guy's cut. He then develops harder skin as protection. For me... that's not my thing. And I don't think that has anything to do with being bi. Sexual style and preference is personal and maybe your sexuality is linked to your ego. Being able to have both sexes and the biggest penis or the hottest woman is your thing. But I'd assume having been with a woman and experiencing varying sexual pleasures a pounding wouldn't necessarily cut it!

    • And maybe others do but I try not to put too much on my partners genitalia. More about how he makes me feel. And how many times he got me off!

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  • It is a problem so I just go for very tall 6' ish women or thin petites anymore because they are designed for it usually and by coincidence they go for me. Long phalanges only seems to be ok.

    • Length is not really an issue, the girls on here who talk about cervix being hit aren't aroused and can't fuck. Maybe they and their men get off get off think acting shallow and tender is sexy. I am talking about being thick to the point the woman thinks her asshole is popping and gonna make one with her pussy. This post and the lack of response from women actually is telling me a few things, I think many are liars now and either don't get laid or have no walls lmao.

    • You don't know shit fella.

    • You're twenty one and I don't know shit, okay.

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  • Escorts do not want black guys for clients but for pleasure off duty that is a different kettle of fish.
    Smart girls don't mix business with pleasure.
    www.quora.com/Why-do-escorts-refuse-to-see-black-men

    • Yeah they write that in ads to keep other pimps away

    • @longstrangtrip That too but many girls are independant, now that we have social media.

    • Shit where

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  • Is this question just you bragging about taking big dicks or something? Usually dudes emphasize so much on dick size... Hmmm

    • Something is suspicious

    • @Swolebusser She's bragging about being a hoe, what suspicion can you possibly have?

    • They sent me pictures of dick sizes and put things beside their dicks to show thickness. They look bigger than I've seen in real life. The guy I jerked off was too handsome and young to be at a brothel, that's for miserable married men, and he was huge but I thought nothing of it, until the other girls pointed it out.

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  • @Azzntittis- I’m not too sure about djmes- seems to know a creepy amount of knowledge about a vagina- it’s as if he has one... lol

  • We know that for girls, size matters. All that don't worry about it, if she loves she'll overlook it, etc is all bullshit. Thanks for being honest. I just hate how most women lie to our faces and expect us to believe in it.

    • if she loves you she will overlook it *

    • I am very experienced and listen to me when I say this, there are men out there with dicks thick enough to make you pee blood, you'll need a doctor. I am talking about that kind of man, not just a guys with a long cock that's thick too so it looks extra huge.

    • @Azzntittiz Yeah I don't have one like that. Most girls prefer them thick though, and if surgery was safe I would make mine bigger but not too big.

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  • Well I only had one penid

    • I guess you won't understand this kind of situation then.

    • That was my point. I mean if I like the guy there are worse ways to die than from a good dick.

    • lol I hear you, but who feels it knows. You can't say if you don't know.

  • Everything thing is relative to high, I won't date a girl who is under 5,5 because I would hurt her, and girls over 6 feet are too tall for me. Measurements do count, and comfort is important.

  • I plead the fifth

  • Im a well sized guy butt mostly it is hard to have normal sex and rough ain't an option cause it hurts mostly! Most girls think they like bigg ones untill itt happens , whish it was smaller en thinner!!

    • Honestly man

    • Yeah honest

    • Big dick is just cool to say tbh , I know girls who tell me they prefer their guys with 4inch dicks because it’s less pain too

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  • So you wouldn't dump a guy for that reason

    • For having a dick too big? or average as you stated under another comment? Look, no one dumps a man for being average unless there is another issue. I've read articles of women wanting divorce because the man is too big, because they waited until wedding night, she didn't know prior to. Also in a certain country, I think it's an African country where the women complain about the men being too big. I am a very brave girl and I've been with some ridiculously big guys, it's not true that you stretch out, actually you snap right back, even a little guy won't even know you've been with bigger than him. It's just that there are medical problems that could arise, so too big can in fact be an issue. I thought I'd hear some interesting feedback but these women obviously have something to hide.

    • Look my ex said the sex was great but her boyfriend before me had a very thick dick and she missed that

    • Okay maybe she was a size queen, I've heard of them. I do not know if they are looser or it's just a preference. I just know as a bisexual woman I don't see much difference in vagina sizes, I just know many girls cannot fuck and would have a hard time with more than average since they need time to warm up.

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  • Aww I think u have a great & valid question here. What do u consider above average or should I ask what is average size to u?

    • I had to go do some measuring of my dildos, I have one that fills me up and it's 4" in girth, then I measured my mouse bottle which is about the girth of a guy I've been with that made me feel I was near death and that's 6.5 in girth so yea I should get an award just for still being here. I actually had him stop in the middle of sex and praised me for being so brave, I guess he was being a cheerleader for his own benefit. But I don't think I can do that again, I was actually happy to break up with him when he started treating me badly. Length matters very little as long as it's not too short, and even then if the guy can use it that won't matter much. I've had mind blowing sex with an Asian guy with a little prick, and boring sex with longer ones.

    • The best selling dildo size is 8" x 2". This size fits most girls, and of course girls with small vaginas might find it too much work to get off quickly with. Girl like two different sized dick, one is the everyday dick of average size ( the wham bam thank you ma'am, hurry up and get it over with, I got to get up for work tomorrow dick. And the there is the special occasion dick, the mandingo women travel to the tropical beaches of Negril Jamaica for.

    • Sometimes a girl just wants a man to dominate and totally disconstruct her, by hitting her hard and heavy by the cock truck.

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  • Can everyone mass report margillard hopefully we can kick him from the site.

    • Hey thanks for the like Azzntittiz

    • No problem.

    • You know i thonk if you block him that would keep him from posting.

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  • This has to be a troll post.

    • Are you a girl? show your tits.

    • Girls love giant cocks. Just look at porn.

    • I don't see giant dicks in porn, unless you have a tiny one then you' d think those are big. Even the black men are mostly average or small.

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  • I've been rejected many times for this reason. It sucks.

    • How thick is it? why don't you try to fall in love and build a connection with her? I imagine a guy with that issue having it easier that way.

    • Because love doesn't actually exsit

    • I'm 10" by 7". Just too much for some.

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