Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Found out the guy I'm interested in has a body count of 40+. I have a hard time crushing on him now. Is that normal?
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He texted me saying he hopes the talk didn't change my perception of him. He is a mutual friend. I didn't say anything negative, but it did. It's a big number.
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He's only 26
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I'm a virgin and value the act of sex, I guess I perceive it differently and don't think he and I would relate
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What Girls & Guys Said
18 42the guy im talking said he had 17 girlfriends lol
Yeah I would be careful with him he might be a cheater or a player plus he might have an STD or something
That's pretty normal... Turns out that men are looked down on for promiscuity as well. The double standard isn't as stark as feminists would have us believe.
Yeah. Everyone has preferences
Bless you young angel. All the women I came up with thirsted after dudes like that and left me in the dust.
He is lying..
Or he is a real asshole and stay away from him..
So, he’s a serial killer?
So you're gonna ask the same stupid question over and over huh?
Why can't you decide for yourself?
Avoid him, you can't get a number anywhere near that high at his age without having casual sex.
Humping 40 women by 26 would require 5 women per year of he started at 18.
Meaning each only got a max of 2 months before he decided he would put his dick in them.
Which means he doesn't think shit through, and he will fuck up your life to no end, get you pregnant, dump you (or you will dump him), and you will never get off single mom status.
Sounds natural to be turned off to me. On one point maybe he was being honest on another point maybe he was lying and giving a false number he either thought was low. Meaning he’s been with even more or have a number that was higher to perpetuate that he’s highly desirable by women.
but assuming that he was forthright and told the truth. People in that pattern of behavior generally struggle with ever being faithful. So if you’re looking for something substantial in a relationship. Odds are against you if you were to go after this one.
Lol I thought u meant like he killed 40 people. Yeah he sounds like a player and why is he bragging about it. That’s when you know he’s an asshole
I'm a straight guy and I'm also grossed out. People should have some limits I think but ah well
Run! Run, RUN!!! You're nothing more than another pussy to him, be with someone who wants a relationship
STD’s would concern me
That's not bad for a guy
Understandable because he probably don't take relationships very serious. He just sleeps with women and move on
I think body count is really dumb to keep up with or care about. What's the point in asking someone you're truly attracted to and what's the point in making the number known
He killed 40 people?
Look at it this way he's got plenty of experience.
I've been with triple digits amount of girls and never told someone that and had her get upset much about it.
What you mean to say is you told people and they never seemed bothered?
Yeah. I never told a girl like the first date but after a few dates and none ever left or voiced serious concerns at that point. Most actually liked it.
Basically a 3 digit number?
About 220 or so. I worked in porn for awhile as well as just constantly hooked up my whole life. I was in a very long serious relationship but she was ok with me hooking up with other girls. And i was in two shorter term LTRs and both of them were ok with it too.
Basically you hooked up with girls WHILE in a relationship?
Yes but not cheating.
It was open relationship?
Yes. I've never not been in an open relationship. Mainly because every girl i ever dated was bi and i also am pretty big and rough and its hard for one woman to keep me satisfied. So they always have been up for having other girls involved.