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We started talking 2 years ago because his number was saved on my old sim. I still don't know how it got there but he was a nice guy so we kept talking. We never met but we've run into each other while hanging out with other people. He's friends with a lot of my high school friends and he likes the night life.
I am in no way attracted to him. Even flirting with him was kinda awkward for me (and I am a very flirty person) because I just can't see him in that light. I also don't trust him because of his lifestyle and previous relationships. One of my major concerns is that he knows my ex and I don't want him (my ex) finding out that I'm friends with benefits with that guy.
The only reasons why I wanna say yes is because I haven't had sex in MONTHS, I like adventure and I've always been the friend with flings (they have never been sexual... not yet)
I've been contemplating having a fuck buddy but I'm not sure about it. Like I'm more than fine on my own, I can't get myself to trust people in that way in a short lapse of time and I don't know if I have enough time for it. In short, I'm not sure if I'm interested YET.
I don't know what to do. Should I say yes or just decline it? And if I say no, how do I make things not awkward between us? I don't want to bump into him again and have that awkward moment when we have to pretend that everything's normal.
What Girls & Guys Said
8 42Not a good idea if your not attracted to him, seem like you don't want to hurt his feelings and yor pressuring yourself in to it because you need it, I'm cool with friends with benefits but it must be with someone you have an attraction to or it'll dry up really quick
You don't have to do it. friends with benefits are good for people who are comfortable keeping their place where it is. Good friends but never getting serious to a fault. If you feel uncomfortable do not do it.
Yeah but what how do I say no and keep things intact?
Just be casual. Say that's ok im actually chatting with this other guy and it seems like it might going good. You never have to tell him who it is and whether its the truth.
Looolll yk what? It's partly true lmao YOU'RE A FUCKING GENIUS. IMMA TELL HIM THAT IF I WANNA SAY NO
Yep lol you can pick my brain for any other things you need to say or any of the other women. Here? 😉
Sounds an interesting account... Is this from India
Nope it's not
Alright!! by the way... My opinion on this would be depends on your comfort How ready are you for friends with benefits thing You said you ain't attracted to him any bit, so is it worth it Do u want a friends with benefits who kinda is well connected to your known circle Lastly, if its just cos you haven't had sex lately, well there are more options! Feel free to chat up if you want to
That helped my thing rationally which is why I posted this question haha. Thanks <3
*me think
Glad it helped... Cheers... Take care
Your life, your choice
Dont be friends with benefits with this guy because he might tarnish your image and look for another for friends with benefits and tell this guy you dont like friends with benefits and you are not ready for a relationship as well at this point in your life
Do what you think is right... As simple as that 👍
Go for it, think of it as mutual massage 🙂
I wayyy more than a massage lmao but why not?
Like a really good one, for your insides LoL
Say NOOOO! he knows your ex. He's probably discussed your sex life with this guy. Your ex WILL find out. If you need to get laid, go out of town for a weekend and have a couple of ONS's to scratch that itch! But don't have sex with someone who is friends with your ex.
If your near Dayton Ohio, come see me, I'll help you scratch it.
Your heart wants it. Your mind doesn't
... ask your body!!!
My heart, my body and my mind kinda wanna be left alone lol
Even If you say yes. He is not gona b ur love of ur life. So its better to say No. Or else you can experience sex with him untill u find someone better. I tried this once and we both moved on after that
What do you have to lose have fun
Got to lay ground rules but eventually one is going to develop feelings more than friends with benefits, or friends. Then it kills everything.
The best way to handle this is to say no to and yes to me😏 I'll give you a real good fuck, plus I love to kick pussy😜
friends with benefits usually ends up with someone getting feelings, so as someone who currently has a friends with benefits, dont do it.
One or both of you will acquire feelings. Guaranteed
Run away
Bad idea
Yeah... I just realised that it indeed is a bad idea
Say yes Because you need sex
If you say no most like it will be awkward for a bit but you probably will get back to normal soon after. I may be younger than you but I would say that you can if you want to. You can make condition of your own bc it's your body he would be touching. From what I'm hearing he wants it more than you do even though your feeling horny. Does sex matter that much that you would take the chance of getting hurt? This is just to help you but also I want to say what I would do honestly which is say no bc if I felt if there was a slight amount of distrust then I wouldn't take the chance bc I don't like getting hurt from someone that matters. It seem that your ex matters to you in a way. This is just what I would do.
Am enjoying my feree time
cool me too lol