Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Girls do you change yourself in front of your male friends?
cenicienta Xper 3
I went on vacations with my friend, her cousin and some of her friends (didn't know them before) and we all shared a room. For me it was completely normal to change in front of them but my female friend (who was the one who knew those guys!) went to the bathroom to change clothes. Idk...i guess I'd only mind if it was a guy I liked but otherwise they're like female friends to me so I don't care. I don't know which one of us is "normal", so how do you girls do it?
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What Girls & Guys Said
35 21Nope, I think a guy seeing a girl in underwear is different from him seeing a girl in a bikini (even though one may show more). I wouldn't change in front of my guy mates.
hostels are completely cool to and probably expect to change and see each other naked, I have done it at a hostel and hotel with friends and people I didn't know - everyone seemed fine and checked each other out :)
I'm not insecure about my body, but I wouldn't do it because I come from a conservative family so to me it's just a bit weird. And most of the time, my guy friends assume that I would like to be left alone anyway so they leave me (even when I'm OK with them staying).
uhh, It's normal for girls to get some privacy... and you might not realize it but those guys probably got turned on seeing you change.
i doubt that. and if they did, not my problem. they're my friend's friends so they'll behave themselves ^^
wel prob isn't gonna be a problem but, just letting you know how guys think. Seeing a cute girl changing is O.O
:)
Everythings normal, it's about what you're both comfortable with, did you like the guys?mo
you look sort of black
It would probably depend on the environment, no? If it was a camping trip and everyone is roughing it, then you would probably have no choice.
it was ina hostel
im not shy, so I change in front of people all the time. to me nuditys not a big deal. and I like showing off my body. if your OK with it, why worry?
For me I probably would start singing "Take It Off" by Ke$ha. I do consider a girl slutty if I just met her and she's taking her clothes off in front of me. Unless it's my sister or the equivalent.
This could be why some women get raped? I dunno. No excuses, but it really is asking for it from certain guys.
No, it's really not. Are YOU "asking for it" if you change clothes in front of someone, male or female? If they raped you, would you be like "well it's my fault, I shouldn't have tempted them"? I highly doubt it.
No. Women get raped because men overpower them and try to take what is not theirs withoutthe girls permission. It does not matter what the girl is or is not wearing I have been raped twice I should know. You're an idiot.
If you're a girl who dresses provocatively, gets really drunk, and wanders off alone you are putting yourself in some danger. Yes or no? My comment, which some people took to mean that I thought that any man was a potential rapist therefore, you should hate men and think they are all ravening wolves only waiting to be loosed.
i like wolves xD
When someone gets raped, it was not the victim's "responsibility" to prevent it. It was the other person's responsibility not to rape someone.
If someone walks down dark alleys in the middle of the night in an area that is known for gangs with a duffel bag loaded with money, and they get robbed, would you consider them an idiot? What about if they go into a store quickly, and leave the door to their car unlocked with the motor running, and the car is stolen? Yes, no one deserves it when something happens, but you should still protect yourself. (continued)
However, she shouldn't have to worry about being raped by guys who are supposed to be friends. If she is, then she shouldn't even be in the same room with them. Hell, they should be in jail.
It really astounds me every time someone compares rape to stealing.
@Vyxzuw Exactly my points.
@Ben890
I actually personally know 5 women who were raped. There are a couple facts they all corroborate on:
1) No damage control is ever as good as prevention.
2) By the time a situation gets to sexual assault, ALL of your options suck. link
You may have the 'right' to sleep on the train tracks, but that won't prevent you from being hit by a train.
"Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it... Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me, saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore's uniform."
I don't even change in front of my own "sister"! Not even in front of my mom ? ? then how about in front of a guy? Like why would I change in front of a guy?
So no.
because it's not a big deal? and they've seen half naked women before? i even put my bra on in the morning like that. just holding my boobs with my hands when they weren't looking lol whatever...i wouldn't have thought its such a big deal for you girls
It is a BIG DEAL. They still males and they still get ..Hor...? and trust me They don't see you like you are their male friend,you still a girl ,I think they also want you to stay dressed up,respect their feelings at least because by showing your body to them they will have a hard time hiding how they feel,some of guys have no self control,they may end up in trouble with you. like if he wanted to have sex with you,would you accept and give that to them? No,right? why are you leading them on?
haha what the hell? that's like saying girls are responsable for getting raped. c'mon most guys nowadays can control themselves if they really want to.
To him* Is your boyfriend OK with you doing that?
Im not saying that? you are just calling for trouble? right?
tranquila I don't have a boyfriend. I was trying not to make a big deal out of something casual and human
tranquil? Anyways,I know your intention and I know that even if you covered all of your body they still will think of you in a different way but...still There are borders/limits for everything,we are humans but we have a brain,morals, self respect, and we like to have some privacy. I'm telling you this not in a way to offend you but to tell you why your friend went to the bath room instead of changing around them.
:) Don't do that again,maybe one day you will have a boyfriend and if he sees you doing that,he will think that you are an easy girl.
Lol, sorry but this looks awkward to me, a guy is a guy, weather he's a friend or not,he'll get that hidden boner... why do you think they made separate changing rooms in pools etc :P
Nope
I never change in front of guys , I think I get shy lol
I don't know if it's normal or not but not even my cousins changed in front of me, oh well actually she did once but asked me to turn around lol
I recognize the fact that I'm a guy but I've had female friends that have changed in front of me and it wasn't a big deal because I've known them for so long.. it was like "hey a person is changing their clothing whatever"
Not everyone thinks like that though and that's okay too.
Same here. It's not like "omg where's the boobies" :P
agreed :)
But if it's someone you JUST met? I reckon it would be awkward lol
Yeah I can see that :)
Lol there's not an issue with it iv done it before if their not comfortable they can leave :)
First of all, it is your problem you did not get to know others before you went. A second thing is you hang around those who you are. A third thing is your values and morals match others. There should be an outline of the trip. What events would be taking place? Who will be going on the trip? What is their behavior like. Your friend is not much of a friend. She just invites you to go so she would not be by her self. Females love to dramatics males as being this sex thing. Guess what, you female are just as bad. Was there drink, smoking, and drugs. As a male I would be very careful about undressing in front of females I did not know. So this is a two-way street. To be honest, their mind was not sexually. Your mind was sexual. So sex was on your mind. So you project it on the males as if they were looking at your sexually when you were seeing your self as sexually. Do use a favor. Tell us the truth about what really went on.
As a male, I would not change clothes in front of female friends unless I know them well. We all been in the locker room at school, the gym, etc. We all have felt odd in change clothes in front of our own gender. You have a total lack of respect for your self. Do not blame others. One of the things females are good about is to wash their hands as if they did nothing wrong. In this case, you did an F job in see who was going and who they are like. You did something like going on a blind date. So who is the problem here. It you who is the problem.
If my wife and I were invited to go to the beach and we were staying at my friend cottage. With our friend, we know who they are. Yes, they tell us that 3 other couple going to be there. Sorry, we going to be asking many questions. Who are these people, what is their morals, values? Do they smoke, do drugs, do they drink. If so we do not go. You did not do a good job in checking everything out. You are the blame. What were you doing change clothes in front of males or female you do not know.
I 1-year-old son has a couple of females who see him naked and he sees them naked. They were together from kindergarten. Now they have another female friend who they do not allow her to see him naked. She does not have the same values, morals as the two girls and my son.
only brazilian chicks change in front of their friends. its some culture thing which I likeyyyy
It might be that she doesn't want to change in front of her cousins and friends because she knows them and it might be awkward but on the other hand you don't know them so therefore you're more care-free.
Yes it's no big deal
If you don't mind changing in front of them it's not a big deal but maybe she just doesn't want to be in the awkward moment changing in front of the guys she knows maybe that would make her feel uncomfortable. You are both normal its not a yes or no matter.
She did what she was comfortable with and you did what you were okay with.
It doesn't matter in both sides as long as your comfortable. Maybe she's not comfortable at showing her private parts to guys she's close with.
yea maybe