Girls, feelings after having sex with a guy with a big dick?

Good Afternoon, I am new here and I have a question about having sex with a guy with a big dick. My friends with benefits agreed to have a threesome. My friends with benefits is average size and I wanted to feel a big one. I found a guy who was about 7 1/2 inches long and used the entire thing in me. I felt him in my stomach. He put my legs and thighs up to my chest and oh my God, never felt something so deep in me. Its been almost 24 hours and I still feel that I had him in me. Was sitting at work today getting re-horny because my pussy kept kind of throbbing or contracting and it reminded me of last evening. For one, I never felt sex the next day, is this normal? And is it normal for a guy to use the whole thing? Always had a guy to use half or 3/4 of it.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • My ex who was my first was 8 1/2 inches. That thing was fucking huge! He was a tall skinny guy, so I guess skinny guys are packing. But it hurt like hell. Rarely could he go in as deep as he wanted. And he loved doggystyle and legs over the shoulder, so he loved to just shove it as deep inside me as possible. I think it felt like he was hitting my stomach, I'm not joking, it hurt so bad. I didn't like sex with him too much. The only position I could do was riding on top. And even then I only used like half of the penis at most. I'm petite, so I don't need more than 4-6inches. I'm not a fan of bruising my cervix. As for still feeling it in you. Yes I felt that the next day, also he would leave me barely able to walk a lot just because of his size.
    My current isn't as big as my ex, but he's so good. I love his penis. It's still a little big for me, but he uses it well. He also knows how to leave me barely able to walk the next day.
    I guess cuz my ex was so big, and I'm tiny 4'11, I don't see the fuss of big dicks. Idk. Too painful, I'm not a fan of bruising my cervix. But all girls and vaginas are different! So we all have our own preferences. I'll stick to my smaller penises if possible, as long as it's attached to a man I love, size doesn't matter, big or small.

    • We can wear donuts to reduce chance of cervix impact

  • I have a friends with benefits now and he about 9/10 inches long and thick. After we have sex, the next day im still feeling and thinking about it. It dont fit all the way in but he does go pretty deep which I like. Depending how deep your vagina is and how long his dick is, it is possible for him to use the own thing. Honestly after we do it I can can't walk much, and my pussy still be wet and throbbing... ughh its so good.

    • Yes, he was not that big as 9/10, if he doesn't put it all in, sounds like you get about what I got. I think he made my vagina a little more deeper than what it was before. He was shoving my parts so deep into me, I've never felt anything like it. Before I left work, I used the bathroom and I was soaked. I also felt him cum in me, which I usually don't feel that other than a lot of wetness, but he I felt shoot.

    • Lol I be feeling like that too. He would go really deep but slow and im just grasping the pillow and shoving my head in it. I didn't want to scream loud. I never felt that kind of pleasure/pain and wanted more. He had cum in me too but I sent it when I went to wash off, he was by far my best sex partner and still is. N he moans when he's real deep, thats a plus.

    • Yes, he was moaning also, he was also telling me what he felt which was also hott. I never came that many times during sex before. Yes, my head was in the pillow when he took me from behind (second position) with my hands gripping the edge of his bed. But on my back with my legs up, thighs to my chest was deeper than from behind. Was one of those painful pleasure things I have only heard about. I could feel my juices pour out on the first few orgasms from his dick. I nearly lost my mind when he went down on me too. Never had a guy to do that great of a job, actually makes me think to be totally straight. ;-)

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  • Feeling it still the next day is normal, and being sore for a couple of days is very normal, especially if it was some very "vigorous" sex. I dated a very well endowed guy for a little while once and felt everything you are feeling.

    • Okay, I did not think it was anything bad, just never felt sex the next day, especially enough to get me horny again.

    • Yeah, feeling it the next day was still quite a pleasurable burn and a tingle.

Most Helpful Guys

  • A big dick is a responsibility.
    Guys with large ones have to learn how to use it, and unfortunately, there aren't a lot of resources for that type of education.

    Mostly it's trial and error.

    You can't ask your male friends if they are big, and if so, how do they have sex.

    And you can't just ask any girl, she might not have the experience with hung men either.

    So guys with big ones are kind of in a weird spot, we are blessed with a physical gift, but no one to tell you the necessary behaviors.
    1) proper lubrication is a must, either her natural wetness or store bought. If it's not super slippery, she is going to be sore.
    2) starting out slow. This doesn't mean slow penetration, this means start with oral, then when she's going wild, a finger, then when she's going more wild go for 2 fingers, etc., until she is loosened up.
    3) a tight pussy is an unaroused pussy. When a girl is properly aroused, her vaginal tunnel opens up. This is good news for men of size, but it takes time.

    Because of all of this, if a guy has a big dick, and knows how to please a woman before insertion, he will positively rock her world once inside of her.

    Good luck!

  • When a young man I had a 7 1/4" and almost 7 1/2", when extremely aroused, penis of what I considered average thickness (It would not fit inside the toilet paper rolls). While dating I had one girl who couldn't take but 1/2 to 3/4 of insertion, depending on her excitement. She would mention discomfort the following day. A few girls I dated who could take it all and would say during sex "Deeper, do it harder." "Sorry girls, I'm outta penis." Lol. My wife of 35+ years loves it in every position and never says anything about discomfort the next day. And, yes, she is pretty tight and can f__k for a long time. I think some girls can handle a long one with no problems as they're just genetically equipped with longer vaginas. I remember watching a porn video where girls measured their depth. Two had around 8" or more of depth while the others were less deep, much less. Like some guys are hugely hung while others are less than average, girls have what they have. Be happy in own skin...

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  • If it fits I use it all.

    I have had girls tell me they were sore, but never describe it to me like you did. I guess from the female responses it's pretty normal to feel that though

    • And if it does not fit, still use it all. As long as the sex is slow, I love being "overused" or maxed out if you will.

  • Looks like you found your first guy that knows how to use his dick. Only time I don't use the whole thing is if she isn't very deep, or the position we are in has high penetration. I don't want to hurt her (unless she wants me to).

  • So from he reign the girls comments it sounds to me like size does matter even though everyone says no

    • Of course size matters ;)

    • Well I'm a little above average, but I know how to use it. Thumbs up for me

  • Late on this question, just wanted to say 7 1/2" isn't huge more big average. im just a bit larger than that and never had any woman tell me im huge however I do understand about touching the cervix in all postions and the legs over the mans shoulders and doggie style are deeper penatrtions postions.

    • I did not say huge, I said big. Thanks for noticing.

  • Not good I get sore I'm not big on guys with big dicks my pussy get sore and before sex my shit gets engorged and penetration hurts no matter how wet I' am.

    • So you like average guys?