Guys, do you like treating her like this in bed?

And please don't say "only if she likes/wants it"

I am asking about your preference.

Rough pounding?

Pulling her hair from behind?

Spanking her?

Face fucking her?

Calling her by dirty names?

Making her beg you?

Slapping your dick on her lips, cheeks?

Cumming on her face?

Guys, do you like treating her like this in bed?
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  • With the wifey it is just normal gentle vanilla sex. At times spank her but that is the extend of it. In the past though with ex girlfriends I was wild and did all of the things you asked.

    Rough pounding? - Yes, used to hold onto her hair/head and pounded hard.

    Pulling her hair from behind? - Yes

    Spanking her? - Indeed. Both with hands but also belt.

    Face fucking her? - Yes, both while she was on her knees and head on the side of the bed, leaning towards the ground and me going deep and fast.

    Calling her by dirty names? - This I haven't done too much of. A former friend with benefit use to call herself dirty names... "Are you enjoying fucking a whore?", "Fuck me like a slut!" etc.

    Making her beg you? - YES.

    Slapping your dick on her lips, cheeks? - Yes and face. And not only dick, but also being rough with her using hands.

    Cumming on her face? - Loved this AND did it as often as I could (both with encounters, friends with benefits and ex's).

    • I think for girls once this stuff happens to you (and you may not ask for it or really want it at first) after that you are likely to want it and in my case I had a boyfriend do stuff like this to me somewhat against my will and then later I had to convince a different boyfriend TO do it because he felt caring about me and it didn’t come natural to him to act in a dominant way with me in bed. I think you have to separate how you feel outside of bed from how you feel in bed somewhat, he still treats me like I’m precious to him outside of bed. Anyway most of this stuff happens to me regularly plus some other kind of similar things not listed, however I do not like getting anything sticky in my hair so we have to be careful about it on my face and it’s usually not worth the trouble, he more often puts it on my butt or back. Also he doesn’t call me dirty names exactly but he says things like ‘who owns you?” and i have to say his name or I would be spanked. Spanking is a long answer the short answer is yes that happens to me also. And pulling hair, I am sometimes held with my face up during doggy and a lot of times how our room is set up I am looking directly into a mirror. I like all of this by the way, I didn’t want or expect it from my prior boyfriend but I guess I adjusted to it or learned something about myself from it.

    • @ShellyB Thanks for sharing! For some individuals, doing something constantly onto them/with them, can make them loose interest in the regular “vanilla sex” and they only get triggered and aroused by the wild stuff. Is this something you can relate too? Do you get off with just regular missionary or doggy style? Or does it have to be wild animalistic moves in the bedroom? Other individuals just don’t have a wild side within and sees red flags when you wanting to spice up sex in the bedroom. Doing something somewhat against someone can backfire hard unless you both have discussed the topic in detail. With that said, you remind me of one of my exes who was equally animalistic as me and we often did all the things you mentioned plus more. At some stage, we felt just like missionary and doggy became “vanilla” and not triggering, that these extra kinks became regular, and we needed other sexual satisfaction to satisfy both our needs. This led to experiment further into bdsm and the naughty and wild world of sex. It was like playing a game trying to find the next best thing that could enhance our sex life. It’s not something I regret because I enjoyed sex in so many various ways and it transformed my personality to whom I am today. However, knowing this, I prefer to still be in the vanilla phase with my wife. Maybe add a kink here and there but not take it further. The description of looking into the mirror is superhot and that’s something I will soon implement into our bedroom aswell. Again, thanks for reminding me of some of my good old days x

    • @ShellyB This is true. When you are new to it, you don't know that you enjoy that stuff. But then, you start to want it, and it becomes a challenge to find more guys who are naturally as "rough" that way. Because of today's culture many are very cautious of it and have been taught that it's wrong to be rough, or to think of sex in ways to make us serve and please their needs. In reality, a lot of us love that and we don't get upset at all over it.

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  • As for rough pounding, if you mean pressing my crotch all the way against her butt and going all the way in, yes

    Pulling her hair? Not really, but I do like to feel her hair

    Spanking? Not really, I'm more into dry humping, or simply feeling her butt with my hands than I am in spanking her

    Face f*cking? I'd rather her be the one getting really in there and putting it down her throat. Such commitment to bringing me pleasure is absolutely incredibly sexy. Much more sexy than the idea of me putting it down there for my own pleasure

    Slapping my thing on her cheeks? If you mean her face, I guess a little bit. But the other cheeks, not really. I'd want to dry hump her while she's wearing leggings, and me wearing something nice and thin, so I can feel her butt nice and good.

    Facials? Maybe a little bit, I'm more interested in finishing inside her, or in her mouth. Although I must admit, my girlfriend would look quite good with my stuff on her face as she comes up to kiss me.

    I didn't say only if she likes it, because that's a prerequisite, I wouldn't do something if she didn't like it, and we don't hold back words about what we want. She's more submissive, but hot damn, is she dominant, when she really wants something. And holy sh! t, is it the sexiest thing I've ever seen🥵🥵🥵🥵🔥🔥🔥🔥

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  • Rough pounding - fuck yes

    Pulling her hair from behind - fuck yes

    Spanking her - fuck yes

    Face fucking her - fuck yes

    Calling her by dirty names - fuck yes

    Making her beg you - fuck yes

    Slapping your dick on her lips, cheeks - fuck yes

    Cumming on her face - fuck yes to this one especially.

    Man oh man do i love shooting my cum on a girls face and in her mouth. and making her swallow it and then go right back to face fucking her and shoving my cock down her throat.

    What about you? do you like having these things done to you? Not fair to ask other people and not tell us your own preferences.

  • Personally , I like to angage in all mentioned , under " calling her dirty names " - I will. also get her calling out " I'm a dirty slut , I'm a dirty slut "
    And bang her as hard as you can doggie to the point of passing out , while pulling the Fck out of her hair and getting her to bark like a dog.
    Enforcing this kind of control , just helps to form a great bond.
    Your list is excellent, and I don't care " what she likes " it's about what she's going to get.

  • Rough pounding : Yes, kind of need to for the last moments else can't cum.
    Pulling hair : Yes.
    Spanking her : Only on her butt.
    Face fucking : No.
    Calling her names : No.
    Making her beg : Yup.
    Slapping dick : No.
    Cumming on face : Nope, only into cumming in her pussy.

  • depends...

  • No, no, yes, maybe, no, no, no, no

  • Her sitting on my face. When bounces her butt on my tongue.

  • Do you love those sorts of things? I find them very fun and I love girls who think so as well

    • You’ve got some nice ass cheeks. Spanking you hard and pulling your hair back pounding you hard would be a lot of fun

  • i've done every single one of those, but i'm not as rought when having sex. like one girl wanted me to slap her, and i did, but it wasn't "a loving slap" and she wasn't too happy about that even though we laughed about it. i've choked a girl because she wanted me too, but i didn't know how to do it really.

    but if i'm getting a blowjob then i expect her to give it her all. so everything you can imagine but not in an abusive way. taking control of her hair is a way to control the pace. slapping it with her tongue, rubbing her lips or face... it's just part of the bj.

  • Nope …. I don’t get why most of that is fun. It is all control stuff.

  • I prefer calmer, more gentle, sex, though occasionally, deep hard thrusting is nice for both of us. I love talking dirty, in moderation.

  • Yes please. Where do I sign?

  • Of course, I'd say 80% of women prefer it this way.

  • That's basically everything that must be included in a rough session!

  • No not really me. I’m more the slow romance sensual sex type. I give nice oily full body massages, lick and kiss from head to toe, tons of oral and foreplay and nice slow passionate sweat making love with lots of kissing and hot touching.

  • Me personally? Might be fun to ejaculate on my wife’s face but I doubt she would like it.

  • @cubapirate can do that to me

    • I'd love to babe

    • @CubaPirate Aww 🥰 I can’t wait

  • If I'm with a girl who doesn't want that a fair amount of the time, I'm not with her long.

  • Rough pounding? Yes especially after a rough day of work.. or if the foreplay is rough

    Pulling her hair from behind? Of course, during doggystyle.

    Spanking her? when she is giving me oral bent over

    Face fucking her? Depends.

    Calling her by dirty names? We always do

    Making her beg you? Huge turn on..

    Slapping your dick on her lips, cheeks? on her lips and looking up at you while giving oral.

    Cumming on her face? I usually finish on her stomach or above her vagina... On the face when we are drunk.

  • I have done them with different girls I was with. But some girls would tell me they don't like something so I would stop

  • no i m softcore fun... i fuck gently.. but mine is quite big and thick.. it is enough to be like a rock.. :D

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