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Guys, how do you deal with a boner in public? Ladies, how do you react when you see a man with one in public?

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  • Well I was walking back from a girls apartment and whilst I was perfectly satisfied when I left, I became less than satisfied on the walk back. As I was waiting for the pedestrian light and contemplating going back to her apt a gaggle of girls sped past in a car.

    "You're c@#k$ showing" they yelled out.

    I was quite pleased they had noticed of course as they were going quite fast.

    I'm not inclined to be embarrassed is the simple fact.

    Having said that I do have a fear of getting an erection over a mates girlfriend. Not anyone in particular but in general. It wouldn't be good friend behavior. Hasn't happened yet thank god.

    Oh and getting an erection over a girl under 18 but still flaunting her stuff at a shopping mall. You can't necessarily stop that one cause they do flaunt.

    • You definitely don't want to get an erection when you're with your friend and their girlfriend. I know what you mean about girls at the mall or stores. I see them shopping with their moms. I'm surprised how much is showing and that their mom seems oblivious. On the other hand, I think girls should be able to wear revealing clothing if it makes them happy.

    • @CoolGuy7532 :) yes to girls flaunting. :)

  • rearrange it
    hide it
    think about nuns, rosie odonnell, hillary

    • Does it work! 😂

    • Hilary should definitely work.

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  • I was hanging out in a guy’s dorm and I noticed it was quiet pointing up 👀 and we weren’t dating or anything just watching a tv show on his bed. So I was confused to why it went up for a strange reason😅. I could feel he was really embarrassed for himself and tried to cover it and like shift his leg from time to time. I ignore it for a little and then got an idea so I acted on it. I took his hands and started to dance with him to get his mind off it. Surprisingly, It worked for a little 🤍.~. also it was cute haha

  • I don't mind its a natural... its not always for a perverted reason...☺️☺️

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  • There's really not much you can do, aside from try to make it comfortable.

    Even if you try to hide it, there's gonna be an obvious bulge, one way or the other, so as long as it's in a position that it doesn't hurt, I just try not to draw attention to it.

    If sitting down is an option, then that's preferable, otherwise I just try to ignore it, until it goes away. 🤷‍♂️

  • Honestly the only boner I've seen in public is when I've purposely created it, I kinda like the embarrassed feeling from the guy 😅 plus it's fun to tease and push buttons

    • But it’s not good for them too to be teased … you gotta help them out 😉

    • I don't leave them like that but it is fun to do so lol

    • 🤣 it’s risky and naughty 😈

  • If he's attractive i have the secret urge to bump into it or touch it. But ultimately id never do that.

  • If they are curtesy about it… I would ignore and think he is a healthy male.

  • My own? Seldom an issue. I rarely run into faces or situations that inspire one. Perhaps not getting enough of them builds up as stress over time, and I feel that at home, and deal with it there.

    Someone else's? Usually ignore it, unless other mannerisms suggest super gay and / or drug use. Then, I get slightly creeped out, but try to ignore it. Though I keep half an eye open, in case the dude is up to mischief. If nothing happens, good. He goes his way, everyone else goes theirs, just another day.

  • Ignore/relax/enjoy.
    Very mixed depending on if it's from thoughts or from who's around me.

    If It's from being around someone I like then I enjoy the challenge to relax.

    Random sexy thoughts/ideas can really get me into weird situations at times though. Sometimes around people irrelevant of who they are. Annoying af.

  • I usually try to hide it. In cold weather, a coat does the trick.

    Sometimes, I don't try to hide. One of my indulgences is getting a brazilian wax every month or so. The other day, I got hard during the procedure. After she finishes, the aesthetician leaves while I get dressed. I could hear her talking and laughing through the door. When I came out, her boss stared at my bulge. Not just a passing glance. I may be imagining things, but I'd swear that she was unusually chatty, too.

  • It doesn't bother me at all. It's a normal thing for a guy.

    • Doesn't creep you or arouse you?

    • @insteadfew not at all. If he's cute, maybe a little arousal, but generally no

    • What makes a guy look cute? And what about handsome men? What if he's below average in looks and you seehis boner?

  • If it's visible I'll ignore it obviously.

    • Why ignore?

    • @insteadfew Because I'm not interested and I don't want to embarrass the guy.

    • Not into penis?

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  • If I’m pitching a tent n public I just roll with it & go about my business.

  • I have a very nice smile.

    When I catch a pretty female looking? I deal with it with one of those :)

  • I think I have never seen a stranger having a boner in public

    But once yeaaars ago, a guy I was dating had one and we were sitting at a bar with his friends and I did secretly, for a few mins, did take little care of the situation lol

  • I never noticed, I've actually never seen that happen in public

  • I never really had this issue... lol

  • Cut it off

    • Yep!

  • I'm just here for the comments cause I'm actually quite curious 🍿

    • Same here. I just wanted to see what the girls would say.

  • I don’t actually ever look to even notice if a guy has a boned or not. I’m more focused on the gorgeous 1930s buildings when out or on where to eat…

    • Lmao how? Not everyone walks around looking at other peoples crotch to see if they have a hard on. So yeah no I don’t actually walk around looking at that and focus more on what I want to do or eat or shop.

    • Me too! I'm more focused on buildings, nature and food

    • Love that! I carry a camera on me usually and I’ll walk around taking photos of buildings or the sky and what not. Not everyone is a weirdo haha

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  • Just ignore it

  • I put my hand in my pocket and adjust it so it's not as noticeable.

  • the last time this happened to me was a while ago, weirdly when I was cycling and even though I have a small penis it was VERY obvious because of the tight shorts. it wouldn't abate while I was riding so I had to stop and get off the bike until it went down

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