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Guys, Is spitting disrespectful?

Guys, do you consider it disrespectful if a girl spits after a BJ? Why?
Yes. Spitting is disrespectful
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No. It isn't
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  • LOL not really. But it wouldn't make me feel all warm and fussy if you blew me and gagged like it was the grosses thing you've ever experienced in your entire life.

    I'm pretty sure the taste and consistency of cum isn't that great at times, but show some tact if you care for the person involved, since, they are the one you were trying to please in the first place.

    Put it to you this way, how would you feel if a guy went down on you and told you to go was because you don't taste good or smell good? I'm pretty sure you wouldn't feel "sexy" or attractive at that point. Same feeling goes with someone releasing themselves during one of their highest feelings of pleasure into your mouth and you spitting it out like it's poison... This doesn't paint the most attractive picture to that person let's just say.

    • What if you don't gag but you just casually spit it out, then kiss his body or something? (depends on what he is comfortable with, since a lot of guys think it is gross if you try and kiss their lips afterwards)

    • @Annisp Well, if you can't help it, I'd suggest you have a towel or glass near by to spit in. Or even take drink of water to wash it down. But let them know ahead of time you don't like the taste of cum so you're going to probably spit it out.

    • If I swallow any I actually get noxious and can get dizzy. It doesn't have to be much at al. Don't know why it happens.

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  • No. That's her choice

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's not so much disrespectful, but it is just plain quitting. Spitting makes you keep cum in your mouth longer, so I don't understand why girls think it's grosser to swallow.

  • I’m not a guy, but no I don’t think it is. If the girl doesn’t want to swallow, she has her own reasons.

  • No it’s not. She isn’t obligated to swallow. Feel lucky she even had your dick in her mouth.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Nah I don’t think so, it should be up to the girl.

  • Depends. If she runs to the bathroom and spits it like it's the worst thing in the world, or if she spits it in my face, then it would be insulting. If she does it playfully, that's another story.

  • I have no problem with it... any GUY that doesn't eat his Own cum should Shut the FK up... grow up and not be such a Pathetic Porn addict..

  • If a guy is so hung up on what happens after he cums, he's not thinking of his partner but just himself. That said, I did ask my partner if she would. She said she didn't like the idea of little swimmers in her stomach but is totally ok if it ends up in her mouth though. She usually holds it in, walks to the bathroom and spits out discreetly. Any kind of sex is mutual, not one sided. Even during a BJ, the woman needs to feel comfortable and enjoying herself.

    • LOL doesn't like the idea of little swimmers in her stomach, that die as soon as they touch her stomach acid. Cute.

    • We all have beliefs that others may find strange...

  • If your guy finds it disrespectful then kiss him on the mouth with mouth full of cum.

    • Haha 😂

  • No, it is not. Who the heck thinks it is lmao

  • Spitting does not provide pleasure to the recipient. So long as she is willing to finish me sucking and stroking, what she does after is a matter of her comfort.

  • Only if you are spitting on da non-believer! Spit my sistas, spit on the deval!

  • Not disrespectful, but I would hope that she would play with my cum, maybe massage her tits with it or let it dribble down her chin.

  • Spit as in spit or spit it out? No both aren't disrespectful

  • I dont think cum is a tasty thing and i can understand that

  • If you don't want him to cum in your mouth, tell him. Frankly, it's just not that important. Spitting is a sign of distaste; I'd rather cum on your skin, or even on a tissue, than see you spit.

  • Her mouth, her choice... even if she spits it on me, its not disrespectful in any way

  • I mean compare it to you cooking and watching the person you cooked for spit out the food. It kinda suggests that they think it was disgusting.

    Its something like that either swallow it or tell him not to cum inside your mouth.

    Swallowing it makes him feel like he's THE MAN

    Spitting is like "My nut that nasty or sumthin?" kinda makes him feel sorta like you don't like him.

  • Spitting is gross not in to it.

  • No, if you hate the taste then spit but realize it's hot as hell if you don't mind and swirl it around a while then swallow like ice cream. That's only if you think of it that way.

  • It's up to her, why would it be disrespectful? It's literally something that came out of the same place piss comes from

  • not its not, if she doesn't likes to swallow then its totally ok

  • dont disrespect me

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  • It find it arousing.

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