Truth in advertising, my girlfriend always got turned on by watching gay sex. It was just a thing and in our early days we were a little wild. However, other than watching some gay porn, it was not something that ever came up.
Then - almost classically at a Christmas party - a gay co-worker of her's mentioned that he thought I was hot. She got it into her head that it would be fun to watch her co-worker and i have sex, mentioned it to him and then they came to me.
Frankly, I was not amused and at first said "no." However, after weeks of back and forth, I relented. His only stipulation was that he and I get time just for the two of us.
So, in one of the wildest, weirdest moments in my life, I was sucking and being sucked and doing much else besides. A lot of times it was just to let my girlfriend watch - which seeing her reaction, I admit, turned me on.
However, we spent time, including a whole two weeks at one point, just the two guys. It was not like we had sex every day - we both had lives and work - but we slept together and spent time just the two of us.
Weird part, while it would not be my first choice, it had its good aspects. What you find is that, as a guy, you share things with another guy that you might not even with a woman you love. The dynamic is just... well... different.
Further, the sex takes getting used to, but as pure feeling it feels pretty good and... this is really embarrassing... there is something about cuming in a guy or him in you, that is oddly intimate. Ditto, sucking his cock and being sucked - and we both swallowed - not only felt good physically, but there was a sense that we we sharing each other and giving to each other.
Yup, I know, really woolly and fluffy ended and maybe too abstract. Still, we enjoyed the sex and we enjoyed each other's company. Yet, in all of that, I never really was interested in guys and much preferred sex with my girlfriend. It is very hard to explain.
At any rate, long story short, it was clear that he was getting too attached to me and so we broke it off. My girlfriend tried to find him another guy, but nothing work and we drifted apart from him. It ended not great, though not badly. (I, by the way, am still with my girlfriend and our wild days are largely over.)
Bottom line, assuming that your question was about sexuality generally and not just sucking, the answer is complicated. Men are curious about sex and there is something about sharing with another man that - all other things being equal - can have an appeal and even an emotional intimacy.
To be sure, for some men it is a no-go. There views are almost visceral and frankly, at the start, I almost broke up with my girlfriend before I relented. The only reason I didn't was because we had been into wilder sex and I figured, in effect, what the heck, it ain't for life.
That it turned out to be a good experience - if not one I want to repeat - was a surprise and dumb luck. In that, I think than in a world where the data show that men are increasingly lonely - and frankly not doing well - that they turn to other men to find a certain kind of companionship and understanding.
Throw in then that for men, sex is a way of expressing their feelings. (Remember the old saw: "For a woman, there is no sex until there is love. For a man, it is not love until there is sex.") Net that all out and you get more hetero men trying - more as a sort of emotional experience - gay sex.
Just a thought based on my own experience. Take it for what it is worth.
Did you do anal with him?
@frostwalrus Yes, I sure did. That is what I meant when I wrote, "Further, the sex takes getting used to, but as pure feeling it feels pretty good and... this is really embarrassing... there is something about cuming in a guy or him in you, that is oddly intimate."
Sorry, I thought you meant oral by that.
I have to be honest. I am very curious to try it. It feels sooo good to get one and I am totally jealous of my wife when she is doing it. I would love to try it too. Sucking cock seems like more for fun than licking pussy. Licking pussy is great, but all you do is lick. There is more to do with a cock like you can lick up the shaft, suck on balls, just suck on the head or take the shaft too in your mouth. Plus the cumming at the end is something I am also curious to interact with. My wife never swallows and basically all my blowjobs end with a tissue, never with her mouth or face or anything, so maybe that is why as I am never fully satisfied? I don't know, but the thought of it doesn't gross me out and actually turns me on.
I agree with you. I fantasize about it, a lot! I wonder what it would feel like to feel that cock pulsate and cum in my mouth. Or, to give a guy a nice slow, teasing, edging kind of handjob. Oh, and to have a woman there, watching, encouraging me to go for it! Wow, that would be so hot.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would LOVE to! I have so many fantasies about it. For example, I'm with a couple, and we play a game. The rules are, the loser HAS to suck the winner's cock AND he has to swallow it, ALL of it. If he doesn't, he has to do it again tomorrow night.
Or I imagine I walk into a room and find a guy asleep, naked, with a hard-on. I fantasize that I sneak up on him and give him a blowjob.
Or, I'm with a couple, and she asks us guys to be her sex slaves for the night. At one point, she makes us each take a turn sucking the other's cock to completion as she watches and plays with herself.
from my experience girls are open to girl on girl, but dont like guy on guy for some reason lol. i always thought that was kind of funny. im sure u can find girls taht do like it but in general it seems a lot rarer.
as for guys, as long as u close ur eyes its not gay ;) lol... i always love saying that it never gets old.
My friend in middle school said we were sucking each others dicks as practice for girls, it was enough to convince me
@Stellargasm awesome, to me it's just helping the other guy masturbate, but I really enjoy it as well,,,
@Pete671 yea I know, there was a show called Rescue Me a while back about NYC Firefighters. One of the younger guys on the show becomes friends with this guy and they hang out like regular dudes and drink beer and watch baseball but would also suck each other’s dicks. I remember wishing I had a friend like that
I absolutely thought about sucking cock- I wondered what it would be like to suck dick for years. When I was in my early twenties, I suddenly found myself single and decided that was the best time for me to see what the fuss was all about.
Literally as soon as I felt that first dick gliding past my lips into my mouth, I knew I was hooked. It felt so good to finally have a dick in my mouth, I can’t really explain why, but it felt like the most natural thing to do. After that first taste, I wanted more. In fact while I was sucking dick, I was already thinking about finding another guy to suck.
From then until the time I got into a relationship (like 2 years), I sucked as much cock as I could find- I absolutely loved the dick, falling in love with the taste of cum as well. I’d suck and swallow a different man every other week or so, and I often got compliments on my cocksucking skills. If my partner ever asks if I’m interested in sucking dick again, I definitely am.
It's really addictive isn't it? I started at a very young age, just loved doing it and tasting semen,,, PM open to you by the way<<<
Wow, that was really hot! I envy you. I'm bi-curious and I would LOVE to try it. I have SO many fantasies about it. So many scenarios that I would love to act out.
I also love sucking cock. Only sucked one so far. I was on my knees and Everytime he was cumming I tried to pull away out of shame embarrassment... but he held my head Everytime he was cumming in my mouth and I swallowed Everytime. Felt very ashamed the whole time because I grew up and still go to church and biblically it's sin! I really want to get on my knees and suck another big dick... but I'm embarrassed to ask a guy... I thought guys always want their big dick sucked? Are guys afraid regretting having guy suck their dick?
I'm pansexual, and currently married to a woman, but I have gone down on a handful of guys. If I wasn't married, or the opportunity presented itself through a three-way for example, I would do it again in a heartbeat.
I'd always been curious about what it would be like to suck a guy's cock to completion and swallow his load, and when I finally did it for the first time, it was tremendously exciting. I try to find guys who want their cocks sucked from time to time, but I always insist that they let me lick their assholes, as well.
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