Guys, would you rather have sex with no condom and not cum, have have sex with condom?

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This happened to me with this guy. He would not use a condom and just never cum (I use birth control but he doesn't know). Is this common? He also told me he has always used condom with other girls because he is really scared they have his baby (I know him as friend for too long so it's definitely true). It's a bit weird but just wondering what's going on in his mind when doing this. Does he not mind if I had his baby?

would appreciate your opinion!

DejectionControlled · Accepted Answer

Oooooooh. God damn it. That's a really unsatisfying ultimatum. I frankly loathe condoms. It's difficult for me to stay hard when I use them. I just won't have sex, if she wants me to use a condom. I need to get a vasectomy, so that will become a non-issue. So, that would be my solution. But I don't want children, ever.

I mean. I would reaaaaaaally want to cum. So, I would try the condom, I guess.

He doesn't cum, at all? Or he just pulls out?

I would easily pick sex without a condom and pulling out. Which has been shown to be as effective as condom use, when taking into account people misusing condoms. Which most people do.

SkyZon3 · Accepted Answer

Without is always better, condoms get in the way and take quite of bit of the turn on away. Also, If you are on birth control and having sex it's fine to began with. But the second part of your question about you having his baby is only able to be answered by him. To be honest.

helva · Accepted Answer

Why don't you tell him you are on BC?

random56286 · Answer

For your question, no condom. I used the pullout method and shoot the cannon above the foxhole for years. Can't feel anything with one on. His fear about babies is the responsibility unless he is in a highly committed relationship.

GuyAdviceFromGuy · Answer

There are no other girls.  I don't think having sex without a condom when you don't want a baby is very safe at all.

Eckyx · Answer

Just an FYI, guys still release some sperm before they cum. That's just when most of it comes out. If he's relying on that to not get people pregnant, he's going to have a kid before too long.

summiter · Answer

You can still get an std from him. If he does not cum that means no orgasm for him... sounds kinda stupid.

Buckzor · Answer

Stupid question. Why would you want to miss out on the most pleasurable act as a human? Condom of course.

reptocarl · Answer

No he knows you wouldn’t deliberately trap him

bellybuttonlint · Answer

I would rather have a condom on and cum than not cumming. It's a waste of time if I don't!

Synttacks · Answer

I'd rather have sex without a condom but I don't have an issue with condoms

RohitLakra · Answer

Have sex with condom. I don't trust myself

Heclingybad · Answer

Sex with a condom is nice certainly not as sweet as bareback but nice. I’m sure a guy can cum with a condom on it just takes longer for certain guys, I would think that should make things even better but some people just don’t appreciate that prolonged time when it takes a little or more effort to cum. Those guys you girls love so. Smh

jb12358 · Answer

Condom and cum obviously! What's with all the posts about not using condoms - if it's a new partner it's an obvious choice, if it's not a new partner then birth control is cool

JackD1984 · Answer

I'd rather go bareback. Nothing about his actions seem odd to me - he probably just trusts you more since you've been friends awhile

bestiesearch · Answer

Nope... May be he might know that u are on birth control...  Or his dick should feel ur actual taste

masterkamasutra · Answer

No condom for me. i hate it.

jon28805 · Answer

Condoms don’t bother me.

Anonymous · Answer

Few gals out there that will experience me not cumming no matter what
so faced with a baby changing our lives, careers, future insulation from hardships... rubber please + BC pills + whatever else possible!

Anonymous · Answer

Condoms are always the better bet to use. The protect against a lot of STD's and the guy can also orgasm. Use a condom just to be safe.

Anonymous · Answer

That's risky I Would never do that.

Anonymous · Answer

Condom definitely

Anonymous · Answer

Pull out and cum on your fAce if it is an option

Anonymous · Answer

the point of sex is to cum, so, i would def. wear the condom

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