Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Had sex with a guy I’m dating a while and I’m not sure because he was tired with work. But he stopped halfway through the second round after I was on top of him and rolled to his side. Baring in mind the first round didn’t last long and he came within 10minutes.
During sex he had said he wants to be around me and how I’m so hot etc. So for him to roll on his side, I asked if he already came and he said no and I said are you ok? And he said yes, we need to work on the rhythm.
I was shocked because no one had told me that before and felt a bit hurt that I said so you’re saying you didn’t enjoy it and I’m bad? And he said how we are still getting to know each other’s bodies.
Is it me? Or is it him? I don’t know how to read it. The very first time we had sex, we had sex 4 times. So now we did it again, he said that, so I’m very confused.
Had sex with a guy and he said we need to work on rhythm. Does that mean I’m bad at sex?
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14 49What a jerk we need to work on rhythm.
I know you haven't known him long but maybe you should start to question him about the length of his previous relationships. Some people are never satisfied and can't stick with anything for long. He may have gotten what he wanted and the newness is fading already. If that's the case, it's not you. Some people are wired that way. If he can stick and this is something new to him, how willing are you to accommodate him in the situation? This may be his 1st time to experience this and he is uncomfortable trying to let you know. Figure out if what you know so far is worth fighting for.
Nope, but you could've changed stereotype and classical sex movements and rhythms while having the sex. Different and advanced sex positions would contribute excitement to break boring stuffs what he meant, I think.
No. you want different things out of sex.
It means you need to get in tune with each other. You also dont just get on and ride like a bull. For one thing that can hurt the guys pelvis. If your driving down hard and he is going up hard that could cause pain
Sounds more like he's the one with the issue. Maybe a little trouble staying hard for round 2.
You're overthinking it. Im gonna assume he actually means the rhythm (ebb and flow) push and pull of you two in sync. Lol I have had to adjust likewise with a few partners to catch the wavelength. Then once the sync kicks in the fun gets better
No. Just means you need to work on rhythm with him.
Probably him.. Men have a period they can't cum after having a orgasm. Unless you're on top he is controlling the rhythm anyway.
Means your both bad. Jk. He’s being a poor communicator but he means getting in sync with the thrusts. It’s like dancing, but you switch who leads. I make my wife cum and then she takes over moving those perfect hips.
I wouldn’t say it means your bad as much as the two of you have room for improvement. Sex is a team sport
Nope. It's just a timing thing like dancing or singing. Anticipating and working with someone organically is not always easy but when you get it rigjt it makes sex way more fun and personal. If it comes naturally with someone its called chemistry but sometimes you gotta fuck a ton to make it fun😁 keep at it babe
It's normal. Takes a few times to get into a "rhythm" with any new person, unless you want to just get off
Any physical activity should begin smoothly not horny or wild.
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No, as long as he's not attacking you or putting you down. He's just trying to improve on things.
I can't come with women in top. I imagine Thats what it was.
Sounds like he was to tired to keep up
Don't worry about it your doing fine.
You don't look very simple and a sign of saturation because there is no passion for maintaining the game
Did you take the opportunity to hint at how he could improve too?
That could be the issue but better to find out for sure from him.